Embarrassed to ask..

[Jessandcrew]

Thanks for the tips!

Found a few things we can try! Thank you everyone

 

[Jada59]

I’ve looked up many things on google etc but I love this site and want real advice from someone! So here it goes... I have never had a gspot O before My Husband is an amazing, well endowed lover so I know it’s not him. I’ve even tried a few times by myself with no luck. Clit is the only way I can go. I know I’m not the only one that has this issue but was wondering if there was something I could do! I’ll even go to a doctor if there’s something they can give me. I want to experience it so bad! All you lovelies that can have multiple O’s I envy you so much!

Not sure what you've tried. I followed instructions in some book or magazine. Mind you, this was some years ago.

First, I did what I would normally due to bring myself to orgasm. Or most likely, a few orgasms.

Then I got naked except for some socks. I lined the couch and floor with towels and positioned a sturdy coffee table in front of the couch. Got on the couch and put my feet up on the coffee table's edge.

You may need lube. I didn't. I get very wet! Began stroking myself, then inserting fingers into myself. Started with one finger, working up slowly until I had four inside of me. I cupped them up and around facing forward and felt around until I found my G Spot. Then I squeezed hard, like I was squeezing an orange with my hand. Squeeze until my hand got tired. Squeeze and release. I had to squeeze very hard but I soon had a squirting orgasm. My hand felt like the circulation was being cut off. I had several orgasms like this until I was exhausted.

Since then, things have gotten much easier. I now use a dildo to achieve the same results. This is what I have.

https://smile.amazon.com/gp/product/B017P2CY0Y/ref=oh_aui_search_asin_title?ie=UTF8&psc=1

I use the end with one ball on it. Press that ball into my G-Spot and I'll cum. Now if I've already had a lot of orgasms or am just super horny, I will attempt to push it all the way in and press it against my mons. This will stimulate all of me internally and also my clit. Again, I need to put the towel down. I don't always squirt but I will get very wet!

Be sure to use the toilet before you begin. I used to stop myself because I thought I needed to pee. It's not pee but it can have that same sensation. So if you pee before, you'll not have to worry about that.

All that being said, I do not need clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm. I need internal, at least for the first one. After that, I can cum with clitoral stimulation alone but it's still better if there's internal. Keep in mind that the G-Spot is the underside of the clit. Also keep in mind that a guy's cock is not likely to give you a G-Spot orgasm. At least for me, I need very firm, hard stimulation.

 

[Jessandcrew]

Thank you so much for your feedback! I’m probably being to soft when attempting on my own. I’ll look into the toy!

 

[Que]

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

Everything you ever wanted to know on the subject. It definitely works.

Jada is right about knowing (and keeping in mind) that your bladder is empty. It will feel like you have to pee. It stimulates some of the same nerves that enable you to relax enough to allow the urethra to open so it's going to feel like a similar sensation.

I've been able to induce both squirting in a G-spot orgasm with every woman I've ever been with except two and in both cases they insisted on stopping so they could get up and pee.