Ejaculation Question

Just_Browzing

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I am fairly confident in most areas of my sex life, but am disappointed with one aspect. When I climax, it's more of a dribble than a squirt. Every once in awhile, it seems to be a little stronger, but very rarely. There is plenty of volume, just a lack of strength.

Does anyone know if there is anything that can help in this area? I know the obvious question would be "How often...", but the number of days in between doesn't seem to make any difference.

Any ideas?
 
Just_Browzing said:
I am fairly confident in most areas of my sex life, but am disappointed with one aspect. When I climax, it's more of a dribble than a squirt. Every once in awhile, it seems to be a little stronger, but very rarely. There is plenty of volume, just a lack of strength.

Does anyone know if there is anything that can help in this area? I know the obvious question would be "How often...", but the number of days in between doesn't seem to make any difference.

Any ideas?

My first boyfriend that I was intimate with was a dribbler, I loved it... no shock of the force, I can swallow at my leasure(probaby why I love oral and cum so much) , and no gagging. Look at it as a hidden omen.
Some men just can't... he blamed it on a botch circumcision, but I doubt it because everything else was fine.
 
I think the strength really depends on how long you're aroused for and in how much of an aroused state you are.

I find that when we/I take my time the strength increases substantially.

How many days are we talking about? 3 days is enough for me to see a big difference.

Although, everyone is different!
 
Just wondering if this is a CHANGE from how it was previously. I sure know that it changed for me as I got a bit older from the *blast away* when I was younger. I brought this subject up to my Dr quite a few years ago and the pelvic exercises helped quite a bit. I think they are called Kegel (sp ? ) exercises for women and they have been known to help with men also.

HTH
 
Thanks for the feedback. I haven't really noticed a big difference as I've aged and I've tried abstaining for nearly two weeks with not much difference. Maybe the exercises are worth a shot...no pun intended.

Thanks.
 
Just_Browzing said:
I am fairly confident in most areas of my sex life, but am disappointed with one aspect. When I climax, it's more of a dribble than a squirt. Every once in awhile, it seems to be a little stronger, but very rarely. There is plenty of volume, just a lack of strength.

Does anyone know if there is anything that can help in this area? I know the obvious question would be "How often...", but the number of days in between doesn't seem to make any difference.

Any ideas?
how old are you?
 
When you dribble, is it high volume or low volume? How long have you delayed orgasm from beginning of erection? Give the body some time (while you're rock hard) to build up the juices. And the PC exercises do help.
 
The Kegel exercises are definately worth a shot (all puns intended). They can help increase blood flow, give you more ejaculation control, greater regional sensations, and may even be good for the prostate.

A strong PC muscle and degree of arousal are both factors in ejaculation. However, remember we're all built different. Don't worry about it if you find you just aren't a shooter. If that turns out to be the case then it is just the way you are. No biggy, no worries.

A lot of women find that even with a full G-Spot orgasm they still aren't squirters. Some can squirt readily, others can't. It is just our bodies and often we have little power to change them. Don't get caught up in that too hard. Some have become very depressed over these types of things and needlessly so.

I'm an explosive shooter by nature and trust me that isn't always a good thing. See blue sugar's post As well as other "issues" that it can generate.

So work on Kegels and see what happens. And if nothing changes just be comfortable with it and happy you're cumming...lol!!!
 
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