Dramaaaaaa!!!!!

How fucking dense are you? Honestly.

She meets a guy with her man and they lay around and she's uncomfortable, he's whatever.

This happens more often than not when couples try a three deal.

You of all people should be able to see that.

What am I missing?
 
Side with the rapist, why don't you?!?!

Didn't he murder her before it would have gotten to that? :confused:


But seriously, had something happened, and she didn't say no, how the hell was the guy supposed to know she wasn't role playing?

If saying so gets me bitch points, fine.
 
I fucking hate histrionic cunts. One of my friends in college used to fake panic attacks if she wasn't the center of attention.
 
I think the difference is, the person responding as though they had almost been raped when, apparently, under conditions that most guys would read as a possible open marriage situation, a guy did minor advances, and that's all.

I'm pretty sure the guy left there going, "What just happened?"
 
She meets a guy with her man and they lay around and she's uncomfortable, he's whatever.

This happens more often than not when couples try a three deal.

You of all people should be able to see that.

What am I missing?

As usual, you're missing your reading comprehension. I'll spell it out for you, even though you still won't understand it.

It wasn't for a fucking threesome. She's looking for guys to befriend on OK Cupid. The guy was aware that she just wanted to be friends before they all hung out, apparently. Once the hubby passed out, the guy started testing the waters to see if there was any interest on her part. She takes hubby and leaves and now is terrorized by the "sexual abuse" (as she actually labeled her post) she suffered.

This wasn't sexual abuse and to label it as such is a slap in the face to any woman that has actually been sexually abused. If you want to continue to play ignorant instead of fucking read, I'll just pop you back on ignore. I only have anger enough for one stupid person today and it's not you.
 
I think the difference is, the person responding as though they had almost been raped when, apparently, under conditions that most guys would read as a possible open marriage situation, a guy did minor advances, and that's all.

I'm pretty sure the guy left there going, "What just happened?"

And Im certain we're getting one side of the story from someone with an axe to grind.
 
Im just not getting it. What else did this girl do to you to make you want to make this thread.

Sounds like she's experimenting with a possible three deal.

Big deal.

Not everyone moves at the same pace and maybe she's not ready?

Successful three deals are not as easy to pull off as they sound.

Good on you for always taking the high road.
 
And Im certain we're getting one side of the story from someone with an axe to grind.
There's no ax, not that you care about facts.

What I typed out are her words of exactly what happened. I also have everything screen-shot but I didn't want to have to black out any names.
 
This is the most stupid ass thing I have ever heard.

Platonic guy friend met on....OKCupid? And the husband goes along, gets drunk, and passes out on new guy friend's bed?

If I were that guy, I would be thinking this is a cuck guy looking for another dude to bang his wife while he watches.

Nothing about this makes any sense, whatsoever. She's an idiot. Full stop.

And so is her dumbass husband.
 
As usual, you're missing your reading comprehension. I'll spell it out for you, even though you still won't understand it.

It wasn't for a fucking threesome. She's looking for guys to befriend on OK Cupid. The guy was aware that she just wanted to be friends before they all hung out, apparently. Once the hubby passed out, the guy started testing the waters to see if there was any interest on her part. She takes hubby and leaves and now is terrorized by the "sexual abuse" (as she actually labeled her post) she suffered.

This wasn't sexual abuse and to label it as such is a slap in the face to any woman that has actually been sexually abused. If you want to continue to play ignorant instead of fucking read, I'll just pop you back on ignore. I only have anger enough for one stupid person today and it's not you.

Well said.

She's crying wolf, when there is none, for attention. That carries a lot of danger for women who are or have been abused.
 
This is the most stupid ass thing I have ever heard.

Platonic guy friend met on....OKCupid? And the husband goes along, gets drunk, and passes out on new guy friend's bed?

If I were that guy, I would be thinking this is a cuck guy looking for another dude to bang his wife while he watches.

Nothing about this makes any sense, whatsoever. She's an idiot. Full stop.

And so is her dumbass husband.

As if the situation wasn't stupid enough. It's her faux outrage that pissed me off.
 
Well said.

She's crying wolf, when there is none, for attention. That carries a lot of danger for women who are or have been abused.

Yep! Nothing like turning sexual abuse into a big fucking joke, right?
 
The whole thing is gross.

Drunk and high in some bedroom somewhere with a stranger who tries to hit on you even after being told no from the start.

I'm picturing a dirty motel...

Yeah, no. The whole thing is yuck. Meet friends another way.
 
If a woman is laying on my bed I'm going to try and fuck too. What's the problem?
 
I suspect she only wants to meet males because females will tell her like it is. Also, she may be using the males to communicate something to herself and her husband.

I will just tell the guy no thank you, and if he persisted to back off. Even an interested woman would think twice about getting it on with a stranger next to her husband.

As far as victim blaming, yes, it would not be her fault if she got raped or killed, but she does have the responsibility of not being in a vulnerable position. Her husband was also in a vulnerable position. Yes, I agree people should be free to do whatever they want as long as it's legal and not be attacked, unfortunately that is not reality for women at this point in time.

I am fairly adverse to strangers, I don't go into their houses without someone I know who knows them or let them in mine. If meet people from online, I get their info and check it thoroughly out before I even considering meeting them.
I have met people from a couple mailing lists and even stayed with them, but I knew them from online for years and had friends who knew them in RL who could vouch for them.

I know I am old school about some things, but I don't let anyone who is a non intimate into the private spaces of my house and I don't go in theirs unless there is a good reason and then not usually alone.
 
So many posts and not one drunk selfie. Hugely disappointed!
 
So many posts and not one drunk selfie. Hugely disappointed!

I'm too outraged over her fake outrage to get drunk and take selfies. Maybe I should, though. But only if I'm at a strange mans house I met on a dating site who only wants to be friends with me. Maybe I'll let him take the pics for me, as long as he doesn't get the wrong idea.
 
Didn't he murder her before it would have gotten to that? :confused:


But seriously, had something happened, and she didn't say no, how the hell was the guy supposed to know she wasn't role playing?

If saying so gets me bitch points, fine.

Not bitch points. Bitch Coins. It's like bitcoins, but bitchier.
 
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