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aʒɑ̃ prɔvɔkatœr
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Kinky.I suspect she only wants to meet males because females will tell her like it is. Also, she may be using the males to communicate something to herself and her husband.
I will just tell the guy no thank you, and if he persisted to back off. Even an interested woman would think twice about getting it on with a stranger next to her husband.
As far as victim blaming, yes, it would not be her fault if she got raped or killed, but she does have the responsibility of not being in a vulnerable position. Her husband was also in a vulnerable position. Yes, I agree people should be free to do whatever they want as long as it's legal and not be attacked, unfortunately that is not reality for women at this point in time.
I am fairly adverse to strangers, I don't go into their houses without someone I know who knows them or let them in mine. If meet people from online, I get their info and check it thoroughly out before I even considering meeting them.
I have met people from a couple mailing lists and even stayed with them, but I knew them from online for years and had friends who knew them in RL who could vouch for them.
I know I am old school about some things, but I don't let anyone who is a non intimate into the private spaces of my house and I don't go in theirs unless there is a good reason and then not usually alone.
Noor, with the rope, Colonel Mustard and Professor Plum in the Bedroom
