My woman is interested in trying double penetration, I'm a fairly well sized man at about eight inches. I need help, first of all. How do you find the third partner, the male for the second hand in the "job"? Is it better to find a trustable stranger and make him use protection or is it better to use a mutual friend? Also from a woman's point of view she's a bit apprehensive that she'll get stretched out a .. bit. If there is any woman on Lit who has tried this please post an opinion so she can read it as well. As well as another question more directed to the females, would it be better to have the second man smaller or does it really matter?
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IAmUnholy said:
What's a trustable stranger? IMHO, there's no such thing as a trustable stranger. You just don't grab someone off the street whom you feel is trustable and give him a condom and say penetrate my wife with me! You have to know someone a good while before you can honestly trust them, especially when it comes to something like this because you wanna make sure the health of you and your wife comes first. Use a mutual friend and you'll be glad you did!
i guess i should've worded it a little better, not a total stranger, an acquaintence. One that we don't know ALL that well, but is known by us. Though I know a mutual friend would be better, just a concern they'll try to get a little how should i say? try to get physical with her afterward. anyway, thanks for your input. any others out there who can comment on this? hell men too if you've done this with your partner. oh and it's not my wife =d heh. it's my girlfriend.
IAmUnholy said:
No. I can't say that I have, but the 'trustable stranger' versus 'mutual friend' caught my eye and I felt like speaking my mind on that. I don't have any advice on dp itself since I've never done it nor have a desire to try doing it.
Ok, easy people, if you have no advice, then it's easy to go to another post.
That said...
My advice would be start out with toys... oftentimes the fantasy is so much more decadent than the reality...
(unless of course we're talking about fucking in a steamy warm hotel room on Bourbon St with the balcony doors open and the sounds from the street wafting into your room... ok... ok... this isn't the place)
Back to subject... DP... Have I done it? no. Do I fantasize about it? yep. Does that mean I'm going to go find a third partner tomorrow? nope.
Find out if she's serious about this before looking for another partner. The emotional things that will arise from this situation could easily wreck your relationship. Think about things like trust and (oh) trust.... also consider trust. Trust is very hard to earn but it's as easy as having another girls # on the caller ID to lose.
Many times a man will think ok, now my turn for two chicks... this is something you need to REALLY talk about and then talk about it more... knowing if you are both emotionally able to handle this situation will take much longer than actually doing it.
That said...
My advice would be start out with toys... oftentimes the fantasy is so much more decadent than the reality...
(unless of course we're talking about fucking in a steamy warm hotel room on Bourbon St with the balcony doors open and the sounds from the street wafting into your room... ok... ok... this isn't the place)
Back to subject... DP... Have I done it? no. Do I fantasize about it? yep. Does that mean I'm going to go find a third partner tomorrow? nope.
Find out if she's serious about this before looking for another partner. The emotional things that will arise from this situation could easily wreck your relationship. Think about things like trust and (oh) trust.... also consider trust. Trust is very hard to earn but it's as easy as having another girls # on the caller ID to lose.
Many times a man will think ok, now my turn for two chicks... this is something you need to REALLY talk about and then talk about it more... knowing if you are both emotionally able to handle this situation will take much longer than actually doing it.
thanks, she is bi-sexual so the switch around threesome is a possibility though she's lost alot of that side of her from being with me this long, more leaning towards the men. i can't say for certain, since nothing in life is certain that she wants this. though she originally brought the idea to the table, and she seems very interested in trying the whole double penetration deal. at first she was wary about my opinion for another partner, once i said it was alright. she seemed much more comfortable with the whole thing. she's also read this and thinks that toys would be a good first step before the live partner. Any women who've done this, or fantasizes about it please post, she's interested in reading the womans' postings. Any men? Post your point of view, it'd be good to catch a man's view on it.
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lilpriss said:
exactly what I was going to say... go to the sex toy store together, pick up a couple dildos or anal plugs and try it out. This seems like a good way to experience double penetration without having to be concerned about trust issues, and will make it easier to decide if you're serious about doing it with another partner.
And have I ever done it? No. Have I thought about it? Honestly, yes, but most of the time I think I'd rather just have one man and a dildo to give me double satisfaction.
OK I must be the willd one here to answer this one
Yep. Ihave had this done to me. VERY nice. We had a good friends with us. We've done this with 2 seperate partners. The first thing I can say is ...If I am interpreting this right, then it would be 1 cock in her wet spot, and 1 cock in her ass. Is this correct?? I personally love this, and I know the guys like to feel the cock of the other rub against each other thru the thin wall of moist tissue down there. My suggestions..If one partner is totally blessed ( Like WOW, OMG!!!)) place that one in first, Then slide the (thinner?) cock in her ass and watch her face. It is exsquisite!! I did try ONCE to put both cocks in my wet spot....however, It was to uncomfortable to withstand...much to their dissapointment. We were speaking of this again last night, when we were using toys
It makes for happy thoughts and great sex. Good Luck.
BTW, I did have both of the men 'sniffing' around afterwards, for private one-on-one encounters...however when the rules were explained they were gentlemen and were just thrilled that the three of us would be together again, because if they pushed it , the fun would be over.
I Hope I helped, If you want to know anything else I'll help if I can.
Yep. Ihave had this done to me. VERY nice. We had a good friends with us. We've done this with 2 seperate partners. The first thing I can say is ...If I am interpreting this right, then it would be 1 cock in her wet spot, and 1 cock in her ass. Is this correct?? I personally love this, and I know the guys like to feel the cock of the other rub against each other thru the thin wall of moist tissue down there. My suggestions..If one partner is totally blessed ( Like WOW, OMG!!!)) place that one in first, Then slide the (thinner?) cock in her ass and watch her face. It is exsquisite!! I did try ONCE to put both cocks in my wet spot....however, It was to uncomfortable to withstand...much to their dissapointment. We were speaking of this again last night, when we were using toys
It makes for happy thoughts and great sex. Good Luck.BTW, I did have both of the men 'sniffing' around afterwards, for private one-on-one encounters...however when the rules were explained they were gentlemen and were just thrilled that the three of us would be together again, because if they pushed it , the fun would be over.
I Hope I helped, If you want to know anything else I'll help if I can.
lol i'm not jesus christ blessed, but a few inches above averege. though that part can't be helped, she literally only wants me in her ass, so either way bigger guy goes in there. unless the second partner is as you put it OMG blessed. Glad to hear it was so much fun, she'll probably enjoy reading that. As for that private one on one, see yeah that's what I was worried about. Not that I dont have faith in my woman, just that it'd ruin the experience and wouldn't leave us open to try it again. She's not interested in doubling up in one hole, but highly intersted in the one in her cunt and other in ass. If it's as fun as you say for the woman, and as you put it even for the men it seemed like a great time. That'll probably sway us more to try it WITHOUT toys ;]
Ah, question from her. She doesn't have her own Lit account or she'd probably ask herself, but anyway. It's not a concern of hers, but she would like a little heads up on the sensation. How's the first moments of the double penetration? Is it an unbelievable pain or a moderate sort of get over it in a minute pain?
Well, afraid of sounding like a moron here..but it feels "filling and satisfying" Like THAT has been what was needed all these years. Our first alternate partner was a WOW in size (Yes I'd love to find him and hook up again, He could make you cum just from sliding in the first time...without even having to thrust) have to stop there, my heart rate is picking up a bit LOL. The 2nd partner was average to smaller......Even though the 2 men were so different in size it didn't take away from the experience. something about laying ontop of you alternate, with him nestled deep in your wet pussy, then having your man slide his cock up your ass is just so great a feeling..............And when they stard alternating their thrusts....HOLY COW it blows your mind. Bit of a warning here....It becomes addictive, the feeling is so intense that you can't wait for the next encounter.
Don't worry about your 'alternates ' trying to get some 'samples' on 1 to 1. LAY DOWN THE RULES RIGHT AWAY. This is SO important. The guys will be so honored and thrilled that they were chosen to do this ( is it not MOST peoples fantasy??) That they will not want to end the fun by being selfish
Before you get too complicated, at least try going in her ass when she's on her back, with a dildo/vibrator in her vagina. As you pump, your pelvis will push the dildo.
A big step up from that without involving another person would be to use a fucking machine--but they're VERY expensive.
As for another person, lay down the ground rules AT THE VERY START. Expectations are EVERYTHING.
Every threesome I've heard of positively had this element. Every bad one didn't have clear communication and someone was behaving inappropriately.
Lastly, realize that when women orgasm, they experience the same chemicals flooding their brain as when in love. So it's natural for her to express love toward the other at that time. If she's aware of that fact, then she can mitigate her behaviours and reactions appropriately.
Have fun,
randy
A big step up from that without involving another person would be to use a fucking machine--but they're VERY expensive.
As for another person, lay down the ground rules AT THE VERY START. Expectations are EVERYTHING.
Every threesome I've heard of positively had this element. Every bad one didn't have clear communication and someone was behaving inappropriately.
Lastly, realize that when women orgasm, they experience the same chemicals flooding their brain as when in love. So it's natural for her to express love toward the other at that time. If she's aware of that fact, then she can mitigate her behaviours and reactions appropriately.
Have fun,
randy
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Big trust issues here.
Personally- I love having a vibrator up my ass while he's in my twat. First time I think he liked it more then I did- hot vibrating twat.
It'll take a while for her ass to get used to having something there. FOREPLAY and LUBE are key to practicing here! As is a sense of fun and adventure. Check one of the many "Newbie with Anal Questions" threads for more hints.
Personally- I love having a vibrator up my ass while he's in my twat. First time I think he liked it more then I did- hot vibrating twat.
It'll take a while for her ass to get used to having something there. FOREPLAY and LUBE are key to practicing here! As is a sense of fun and adventure. Check one of the many "Newbie with Anal Questions" threads for more hints.
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My girlfriend doesnt like anal and so do I. I wouldnt put my dick in a place i also wouldnt like to get it put. Double vaginal penetration tho sounds thrilling for me. Maybe i should go out and search for a dildo to do this job first.
lol. daisey thank you, she very much enjoyed reading how good it felt on your part. infact it got her rather horny, heh. that could be expected when speaking about that sort of thing, plus it's a big interest of hers. so .. imaginations running wild. if you have any other input for her, feel free. i'm pretty much full up on what i need to know on my part.
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well thankfully she was right here to read that, and yet another little portion of apprehension defeated. and i dont even think she's had anything 9inches in her. i've been the biggest, i'm brimming eight, and her dildo is seven. just bought it yesterday, which means the dildo/me double penetration might come soon heh
Check some of the threesome threads (using the search function) for more suggestions on talking about and implementing adding another person. Very explicit and honest communication between you and her is CRUCIAL before inviting anyone to join you. And when you make the invitation, having an explicit and honest conversation with the 3rd about everyone's expectations and limits.
DP is a heck of a lot of fun! My gf was interested, so we tried putting a vibrator in her ass while I fucked her, and she absolutely loved it! Have fun and go slow!
DP is a heck of a lot of fun! My gf was interested, so we tried putting a vibrator in her ass while I fucked her, and she absolutely loved it! Have fun and go slow!
for one reason or another, she prefers the real thing in her ass. i can't explain it, won't even try. though yes we took the advice of the people here and double penetrated her with myself, and toy. now comes the big decision, heh. whether or not to use a live partner, which I think is still a go, but there is more discussing going on.
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Couldn't help but notice the subject of your post and had to read. Hope we can help here too. We're fairly experienced with anal/vaginal DP, as in with 2 real cocks. Getting ready to move into double vaginal ourselves in a few weeks and have a thread here on that too. But I digress.
Plenty of good advice here already. Emphasis on the communications and trust aspect. It has to be something that all parties are comfortable with and everyone, especially you and your girlfriend need to absolutely in agreement with. Set those groundrules and make them clear to the third party.
My wife suggest that since it's your girlfriend's party she should be the one to tell the other man the rules when the time comes for the talk. She adds to let your girlfriend know that both her pussy and ass will return to their natural sizes. I've watched my wife take a thick 10 inch cock in her pussy and another 10 incher up her ass at the same time. Lube, patience and more lube are the keywords.
Wife also agrees with the comments on fullness and alternating thrusts. She says it's almost sensory overload. And if they can arrange it so they can cum at the same time that it's certain to push her over the edge, regardless if she's just cum on her own or not.
Practice is essential. Instead of a vibe she suggests using at least two dildos. A smaller one to start off with and get comfortable with the feeling, and a larger one to use after she's ready. She also thinks a third much larger and thicker one is needed if she really wants that full feeling before trying to take on the real thing.
As for me, I'd suggest that you prepare for the sensation of feeling another cock that close to your's. It was somewhat a shock for me the first time, although if you're straight and can get over the bi or homophobic aspect, the feeling is rather exciting and most certainly different.
Couldn't help but notice the subject of your post and had to read. Hope we can help here too. We're fairly experienced with anal/vaginal DP, as in with 2 real cocks. Getting ready to move into double vaginal ourselves in a few weeks and have a thread here on that too. But I digress.
Plenty of good advice here already. Emphasis on the communications and trust aspect. It has to be something that all parties are comfortable with and everyone, especially you and your girlfriend need to absolutely in agreement with. Set those groundrules and make them clear to the third party.
My wife suggest that since it's your girlfriend's party she should be the one to tell the other man the rules when the time comes for the talk. She adds to let your girlfriend know that both her pussy and ass will return to their natural sizes. I've watched my wife take a thick 10 inch cock in her pussy and another 10 incher up her ass at the same time. Lube, patience and more lube are the keywords.
Wife also agrees with the comments on fullness and alternating thrusts. She says it's almost sensory overload. And if they can arrange it so they can cum at the same time that it's certain to push her over the edge, regardless if she's just cum on her own or not.
Practice is essential. Instead of a vibe she suggests using at least two dildos. A smaller one to start off with and get comfortable with the feeling, and a larger one to use after she's ready. She also thinks a third much larger and thicker one is needed if she really wants that full feeling before trying to take on the real thing.
As for me, I'd suggest that you prepare for the sensation of feeling another cock that close to your's. It was somewhat a shock for me the first time, although if you're straight and can get over the bi or homophobic aspect, the feeling is rather exciting and most certainly different.
classic advice, glad to hear from a couple who's tried it before. as for the homophobic portion, no I've long overcame that. I'm straight, and intend to remain that way ..but im ready for that whole cock close to the other thing, since the main focus is putting the two cocks in her, not focusing on the sensations of the other man. It wasn't so much that she wasnt afraid that she'd return to normal either, although that was partly it, it was the stretch of pain, how bad it was to have two in her at once
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Now this is the fantasy that I've been having lately! I want to know what it would feel like to be filled up like that. Although my fantasy is a little more about being taken "against" my will in that way.
I've experimented a little with toys and the feeling is awesome. The orgasm SO intense. I can't imagine what it would be like to have it be two men and alternating thrusts.
I want to hear how it goes for you. Keep us up to date. And don't leave out any details!
I've experimented a little with toys and the feeling is awesome. The orgasm SO intense. I can't imagine what it would be like to have it be two men and alternating thrusts.
I want to hear how it goes for you. Keep us up to date. And don't leave out any details!
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