Don't let subs suggest punishments!

[RavenSpirit2k4]

I was on Y Messenger a few minutes ago with a couple of online BDSM friends. It seems one of them knows a domme who recently dismissed a sub because he was cheating on her. One, a dom, suggested that she should have punished him quite thoroughly but still tried to work things out. Another sub, also male, said she should have handcuffed the sub to the back fender of her car and went for a drive on the interstate! Needless to say, we all pointed how that this would have been illegal.

 

[Vixandra]

Well, if they were in a "closed" relationship (IE only having sex/play with one another and no one else) then he deserves a truely horrid punishment.

Though I think tying him to the car might be a bit too extreme. Might damage the car and certainly would get one pulled over by the cops- not a good thing IMO.

Now tying him to one of those spinning horse walking things and having a communal beating sounds about fair.
Would say the same if the Dom/me had cheated too.
Yeah, I'm a creature of Vengeance.
*folds wings back in*

 

[Xelebes]

Well, if they were in a "closed" relationship (IE only having sex/play with one another and no one else) then he deserves a truely horrid punishment.

Though I think tying him to the car might be a bit too extreme. Might damage the car and certainly would get one pulled over by the cops- not a good thing IMO.

Now tying him to one of those spinning horse walking things and having a communal beating sounds about fair.
Would say the same if the Dom/me had cheated too.
Yeah, I'm a creature of Vengeance.
*folds wings back in*

 

[Vixandra]

Takes a lot to bring up my wings though, least in reality. Like backstabbing me royally, or hurting one of "mine." As in my friends, my family or those I've decided were worthy of my protection.
I do not forget nor do I forgive. I take not revenge, I take Vengeance, which is different. If fate puts before me the chance to take Vengeance then I shall be fate's instrument. If the Thee that are three do not place such a chance before me, I shall not seek it out.

But, as I said, takes a hell of a lot to get me into that cold angry state.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

... then he deserves a truely horrid punishment ...

Then i believe he got the correct punishment.

Cut him off at the knees, and don't look back.

Nothing in the world compares to ignoring a fool.