Doms and Doormats

I like a pyl with a brain. If she doesn't have a brain then I have to do all of the thinking. What's wrong with a pyl having a brain, as long as she's still submissive to her PYL?

Doormat schmormat! A pyl without a brain is one without any will or spirit. It's like beating a wet noodle. No fight? No fun!
 
Doormat schmormat! A pyl without a brain is one without any will or spirit. It's like beating a wet noodle. No fight? No fun!

i have a brain, and thankfully the ability to use it. i have spirit. i do not and would not ever, ever put up any fight or resistance. i suppose that is what makes me a doormat in the eyes of some, but just wanted to point out that us doormats can have fully functional brains too. ;)
 
Hehe, yeah... I do. Don't tell anybody!

And if you offered her candy out on the street, I'm sure she'd take it.

I could totally dig that. Sexual favors for a reward of sweet cream.

And she delivers Dr Pepper on command too, nice trick. Did I mention it’s my favorite.
 
I like a pyl with a brain. If she doesn't have a brain then I have to do all of the thinking. What's wrong with a pyl having a brain, as long as she's still submissive to her PYL?

Doormat schmormat! A pyl without a brain is one without any will or spirit. It's like beating a wet noodle. No fight? No fun!

i have a brain, and thankfully the ability to use it. i have spirit. i do not and would not ever, ever put up any fight or resistance. i suppose that is what makes me a doormat in the eyes of some, but just wanted to point out that us doormats can have fully functional brains too. ;)

And everyone knows if a subs got a brain she makes you earn your dominant position.

Some guys just love skipping rope.
 
As my husband put it a couple nights ago - "you're smart enough to keep me interested."
 
what??? I thought I was posting in a completely different forum! deleted-- you really didn't want to read that.
 
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The way you articulated your position makes it clear you aren't a "doormat" in the sense I was trying to convey. I hope you did not take any offense. The sense I woke with this morning is that a good portion of the doms here don't care if you have opinions one way or another; they don't care if you are intelligent, engaging, etc. They wouldn't want a sub who can articulate her belief system as you just did. So, no, I wasn't meaning to revile what works for you; rather I was trying to understand better. Thank you for sharing.

Now I have to admit that I want that in a sub
 
And everyone knows if a subs got a brain she makes you earn your dominant position.

Some guys just love skipping rope.
Yes, I skip the rope and go straight for the hand cuffs and ball gag. I just love watching a pyl with a brain and spirit struggling in bondage...and her muffled protests are music to my ears. :cool:
 
i have a brain, and thankfully the ability to use it. i have spirit. i do not and would not ever, ever put up any fight or resistance. i suppose that is what makes me a doormat in the eyes of some, but just wanted to point out that us doormats can have fully functional brains too. ;)
Oh, doormats are fun, too. Just wiggle that cute behind and we'll get along fine. :D

It takes a pyl with a brain to know just when and how to wiggle it. ;)
 
i have a brain, and thankfully the ability to use it. i have spirit. i do not and would not ever, ever put up any fight or resistance. i suppose that is what makes me a doormat in the eyes of some, but just wanted to point out that us doormats can have fully functional brains too. ;)



You won't put up any resistance no mater what?
 
You guys are so funny. Do you perform your comedy act anywhere we can see it? Or is it a rare privilege for those part of the lit community? We already know my opinion on humor...

We'll be here all weekend.

Next week, we will be at the Improv in Kansas City.

Remember to tip your servers!
 
We'll be here all weekend.

Next week, we will be at the Improv in Kansas City.

Remember to tip your servers!
Don't tip the servers!
Lit's running slow enough as it is, without the hardware failing!!!
 
We'll be here all weekend.

Next week, we will be at the Improv in Kansas City.

Remember to tip your servers!


Is there a two drink minimum here? What about K.C.?

I always over tip my servers unless they spill something on me. I remember too dearly how hard it was working my way through college.

Rekane: Glad to hear you in better spirits these days...remember to keep with that groove.
 
Don't tip the servers!
Lit's running slow enough as it is, without the hardware failing!!!
Lit IS running slow enough. So it's true...the best jokes have some truth in them!! :eek:
 
Is there a two drink minimum here? What about K.C.?

I always over tip my servers unless they spill something on me. I remember too dearly how hard it was working my way through college.

Rekane: Glad to hear you in better spirits these days...remember to keep with that groove.
We're all dwunks, here in the mid-wess. Nobody qwibbles about the two dwink mimimun.
 
There are dicks in every lifestyle. A pyl's opinion matters, this is a part of my code as a Dom that I hold to.
 
The way you articulated your position makes it clear you aren't a "doormat" in the sense I was trying to convey. I hope you did not take any offense. The sense I woke with this morning is that a good portion of the doms here don't care if you have opinions one way or another; they don't care if you are intelligent, engaging, etc. They wouldn't want a sub who can articulate her belief system as you just did. So, no, I wasn't meaning to revile what works for you; rather I was trying to understand better. Thank you for sharing.

Now I have to admit that I want that in a sub
Why?

*curious cat is curious*

Because I don't want a doormat, I want a subbie with brain, who i can work with to make them who they want to be.
 
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