mysterious2002
Virgin
- Joined
- Mar 5, 2002
- Posts
- 9
Hello all,
before I start, jsut a quick preface to say that I'm a newbie to all this so please bear with me... if I humiliate myself, then please do correct me, but be gentle (sorry - so many double entendres, so little writing).
Anyway, as I said, I'm a relative new-comer both to BDSM and to posting on this site. My dilemma is this: I have a beautiful girlfriend with whom I have fantastic sex... not a problem I hear you cry, but she is fairly vanilla with sub tendencies, whereas I am rapidly becoming convinced am a switch. We've played around with various fantasy scenarios, but she just can't get into the Dom role.
My plea / suggestion is this... there seem to be a large number of Dom / mes out there online, and there must be an almost equally large number of those of us needing some kind of domination - can we come to some kind of deal, for example with people posting 'homework' / tasks for those of us not fortunate enough to have real life Dom/me's to undertake (preferably in my case that I can do without my girlfriend's participation - we live in different cities!). In return we could post pictures of the results for all to enjoy...or indeed do anything you would desire!
I realise that this might be a chore for you Dom/mes, and lacks much of the intimacy which is so obviously part of the fun, but there we have it.
Sorry this turned into a bit of a mamoth post, and I do apologise in advance if this utterly ridiculous/ naive/ offensive... no doubt you'll let me know!
Anyways, thanks at least for making it to the end of this tome!
mysterious.
before I start, jsut a quick preface to say that I'm a newbie to all this so please bear with me... if I humiliate myself, then please do correct me, but be gentle (sorry - so many double entendres, so little writing).
Anyway, as I said, I'm a relative new-comer both to BDSM and to posting on this site. My dilemma is this: I have a beautiful girlfriend with whom I have fantastic sex... not a problem I hear you cry, but she is fairly vanilla with sub tendencies, whereas I am rapidly becoming convinced am a switch. We've played around with various fantasy scenarios, but she just can't get into the Dom role.
My plea / suggestion is this... there seem to be a large number of Dom / mes out there online, and there must be an almost equally large number of those of us needing some kind of domination - can we come to some kind of deal, for example with people posting 'homework' / tasks for those of us not fortunate enough to have real life Dom/me's to undertake (preferably in my case that I can do without my girlfriend's participation - we live in different cities!). In return we could post pictures of the results for all to enjoy...or indeed do anything you would desire!
I realise that this might be a chore for you Dom/mes, and lacks much of the intimacy which is so obviously part of the fun, but there we have it.
Sorry this turned into a bit of a mamoth post, and I do apologise in advance if this utterly ridiculous/ naive/ offensive... no doubt you'll let me know!
Anyways, thanks at least for making it to the end of this tome!
mysterious.
