Dominating a guy

[Andreina]

...invading his most sacred place, using him as your sex slave, getting your pussy licked for hours while you watch him being fucked senseless by another guy. And then he thanks you for being so good.

How would not anyone love this.

 

[Guest]

You heart my jaw, Andy.

 

[Andreina]

You heart my jaw, Andy.

 

[Rocket88]

Never

I have never been dominated. I have said if a girl could tie me up, she's have it to do. I'm just too strong, physically.
And as we know, it's not a physical thing, anyway. But I think it would have to be that first.

Not that it could ever happen.

 

[monster666]

Re: Never

Domination often isn't about overpowering someone. You could just submit to her will, which you may find is more well matched to your's than your biceps are to hers.

I have never been dominated. I have said if a girl could tie me up, she's have it to do. I'm just too strong, physically.
And as we know, it's not a physical thing, anyway. But I think it would have to be that first.

Not that it could ever happen.

 

[James Blandings]

...invading his most sacred place, using him as your sex slave, getting your pussy licked for hours while you watch him being fucked senseless by another guy. And then he thanks you for being so good.

How would not anyone love this.

Well, it could be that they love being the guy in the middle better.

 

[morninggirl5]

...invading his most sacred place, using him as your sex slave, getting your pussy licked for hours while you watch him being fucked senseless by another guy. And then he thanks you for being so good.

How would not anyone love this.

If that's not a rhetorical question, and you'd like an answer, keep reading.


I wouldn't love your scenario at all. It would feel completely and totally wrong for me. All too often, people (all of us) make the mistake of assuming that every other person in our group, community, career, race, or species has the same wants, needs, desires, and pleasures that we do. It's some of that teenage egocentricism left over, in my opinion, and it's hard to learn to overcome it. When we begin to believe our generalizations, we lose an opportunity to grow and learn about other people, and i find that extremely sad.

 

[DreamingAngel]

Re: Re: Dominating a guy

If that's not a rhetorical question, and you'd like an answer, keep reading.


I wouldn't love your scenario at all. It would feel completely and totally wrong for me. All too often, people (all of us) make the mistake of assuming that every other person in our group, community, career, race, or species has the same wants, needs, desires, and pleasures that we do. It's some of that teenage egocentricism left over, in my opinion, and it's hard to learn to overcome it. When we begin to believe our generalizations, we lose an opportunity to grow and learn about other people, and i find that extremely sad.

Well said, and I agree, this scenario, would make me very uncomfortable.

BUT ... I say good luck to you if you enjoy it, and it sounds like you did, so well done for you and your partner.

 

[Rocket88]

Damn.

I'm not into the scene you described, but two downers in a row. That's harsh.

People... lighten up. It's just kinky sex we're talking about.




[/Damn]

 

[James Blandings]

For what it's worth, I read Andreina's post as merely an enthusiastic expression of a new experience, and not as meant in any way to belittle others who do not share the same particular interests.
Nonetheless, Morning Girl's point is well taken. The variety of desires and prefences contained within BDSM is endless.

 

[morninggirl5]

I read Andreina's post in a similar vein, until i got to the "How would anyone not love this."


After i hit the submit button, my "preachyness" meter went off. But i think it's something we *all* need to consider when we post. We all view BDSM differently and what is wildly exciting and takes my breath away may be mildly entertaining or even, gasp boring to someone else.

We need to leave our assumptions at the door.



Rocket, for many of us here, it's about more than just kinky sex. Much more.

 

[Andreina]

Just to clarify a few things...

the "How would not anybody love this" was meant for the people who actually do enjoy it and wasn't meant for the people who do not enjoy it in the first place.

I do not, with any of my posts, intend to assume that people like the same things as i do, as I know that BDSM is way too wide to assume that.

And yes, I was just enthusiastic about a new experience. Sorry.

 

[CarolineOh]

Re: Just to clarify a few things...

the "How would not anybody love this" was meant for the people who actually do enjoy it and wasn't meant for the people who do not enjoy it in the first place.

I do not, with any of my posts, intend to assume that people like the same things as i do, as I know that BDSM is way too wide to assume that.

And yes, I was just enthusiastic about a new experience. Sorry.

Well, now that that's cleared up, how about some more details!
Were you directing the whole scene, telling both men what to do?

 

[Sandia]

Re: Just to clarify a few things...

the "How would not anybody love this" was meant for the people who actually do enjoy it and wasn't meant for the people who do not enjoy it in the first place.

I do not, with any of my posts, intend to assume that people like the same things as i do, as I know that BDSM is way too wide to assume that.

And yes, I was just enthusiastic about a new experience. Sorry.

Yes.
Details, please.

 

[Sandia]

Oh. And don't worry about CV.
He's routinely non-sensical.
But sometimes he's funny.