Doing everthing i can think of to please, only i cant think!

[pandoravampire]

ok, i want every tip of how to pleasure someone. come on guys, i have 8 hrs to sort it out before he arrives and im getting gittery.
Im wearing long dress, im not leaving the bedroom though.
So, in a long evening dress, what i can i do to please him? Only on 4th session, and so far, ive been a little distracted by my own pleasure to of noticed his (awful isnt it?) and i so want to do everything i can to make this special for he who is special. Its D/s, im the s.
Im nervous, shy and gonna have to fake some confidence to do this, but hopefully, will get into it once the play begins.
Even my old vanilla head seems to of deserted me, but im determined to really try. So id be grateful for any replies.

 

[dolf]

i dunno....if in doubt just ask?
get on your knees and ask/beg for whatever will please him?
i'm sure your nerves will get better with time
seeing as he's the Domyou could just let him order you into whatever he wants (at least until you feel more confident and have an idea of what he really likes)
hmmm...not sure i'm being very helpful here so i'll shut up

xx

 

[pandoravampire]

ah well, this is the order, to do everything i can to please him in evening gown.
So asking him, well no, cant really. This is for me to come up with, well, with a little help from my deviant lit friends, but hey, im just being resourceful!

 

[ShyGuy68]

Hmm you could always undress him, and then caress his body with yours, through the dress, paying lots of attention to his cock, and when it's hard, give him a blow job, that makes him forget everything else. After that, you could hike the dress up around your waist, and ride him until he cums.

And then afterwards, report back here, and tell us all the details

 

[pandoravampire]

so far so good, but i need more. Ive got a few hours to play here, and my jaw is not that strong lol

 

[dolf]

dance for him...strip tease! then do what ShyGuy said

kinda a vanilla idea but IMHO all men like a sexy strip

xx

 

[catalina_francisco]

Hmmm, so many possibilities. Perhaps you could play the lady to the hilt when he arrives....seat him in a comfortable position and serve him with a drink...hot or cold according to his usual preferance...and of course the room lit with candles etc., but enough light for him to see all, even perhaps a spotlight type lamp included. Once he seems comfortable and settled, hand him a crop or cane with the words 'For your pleasure or direction Sir/Master/PYL'. Stepping back, you can get comfortable yourself, making sure he has a good view of you and what you are doing then while staring steadily into his eyes, begin to tantalisingly lift slide your dress up your legs, which of course would be spread, caressing your legs lingeringly as you do so until you reach the point where you are about to reveal what he is hopefully anticipating with passion by now. Before revealing that for which his attention is 100% focused, slowly reach out your hand to take a glass of cool drink you had left near you, and take a long sip, never once breaking the gaze.

Put the glass down carefully and suggestively caress it's cool length as you move your hand away to lift the hem of your dress just a slight bit more so he gets a semi glimpse of what you have for him. Reaching into the glass, take an icecube from it and lifting your hem to reveal your prize slip the cube into your pussy, licking your fingers long and teasingly afterwards, before beginning to play with yourself, the fast melting icecube running out of you like a mini river. Once you reach the point where you feel comfortable, take a vibrator and begin to bury it deep inside you letting your head drop back as you give yourself to pleasure and open your legs wide so he doesn't miss a second. If feeling brave enough, at some point you could roll over and lay on your stomach, your butt raised just enough to be pert, enticing and revealing then take the vibrator and begin to open your butt with it while making sure he can hear your pleasure and looking over your shoulder at him asking him if he is pleased with what he sees. Is that a good start to an perfect evening?

Catalina

 

[FreeBloke]

Bravo Catalina, that was top drawer!

For me though Pandora, as an alternative option, when you place the ice cube(s) inside, try not to let him see your secret place. Not yet.

Then with him sitting on the bed, (where you would have placed him prior) move over and kneel before him.

Take him out and bring him to full hardness, lovingly, erotically but quickly with your mouth.

Then, just as you feel the last of the cube(s) has melted, rise up and mount him, allowing him to sink into the ice cold joy that your heavenly gate now is, and ride him.

The cold, for him, will be an amazing event.

One he will remember forever.

After that, allow him his desires, and ask him to take them as he requires.

I hope your evening, night and morning are all that you hope.

Please write again and tell all!

The Freebloke.

 

[FreeGal]

That is a quite brilliant suggestion!

Pandora, does he like to "use" you? I mean, does he like to feel that he owns you, and he can do anything with you he pleases?

I ask that, because I don't know your boundries and/or the dynamics of your relationship.

Giving yourself completely over to a man, and saying to him, "Please, just do what you please!" is often a sure-fire way to give him exactly what he wants.

However, I realise some women may not be comfortable with this.

Another thing you could do is give him a lap dance, and ask him "What would Sir like me to do for him tonight?" That sounds slutty, but a lot of fun!

 

[pandoravampire]

thankyou thankyou thankyou. I reckon that should do it. Im going to do it all, as ive got some time to cover. He will allways interrupt at some point. Though to be honest i wouldnt mind covering all of it!
dress caressing, lap dancing, vibrators, ice, riding him then onto the floor in position, should do the trick. If it doesnt i shall die of frustration and shame. But nothing ventured......

 

[RJMasters]

Never underestimate the pleasure of a good crawl, espcially when you have to hike up the dress or use the slit esposing just enough to make the mouth water.

One way to work it in is to set his drink across the room...then after he is settled, go and get it and put it on the floor in front of you, kneel down and push it slowly across the floor to him be fore offering it to him.

Good luck and have fun

 

[Marquis]

Damn Catalina, I need a cigarette.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Damn Catalina, I need a cigarette.

LOL, is that good? Damn and I didn't even get started.....what can I say.....my mind likes to play.

Catalina

 

[Etoile]

Argh, I hate when I'm asked to be creative like this. I just have no imagination.

 

[pandoravampire]

This was the second time id been asked to be creative, and Etoili, i can tell you the first time, id just wished the ground would open up and swallow me, i got so stuck, and im wondering, 'where is all my vanilla experience?' i couldnt think of a damn thing and practically froze. I was so ashamed, so i posted here and got such wonderful ideas.

I had a marvelous time, it did not go to plan at ALL! He had started things off to warm me up so's id not freeze like last time. I unfortunately, chose that moment to lose control of my bowel in some serious anal play. and both of us have a no scat limit, so neither got anything out of that little scenario, except the experience of how we coped, how he coped with me. It wasnt a experience id chose to repeat, but i was a excellent demonstration of his consideration and nurturing.
I can only liken it to my ex being there at the soggy end whilst i gave birth. What doesnt break you makes you stronger. So im laughing it off.

But i loved the ideas, i was dissappointed i didnt get to do them, but the next time he asks, im gonna be ready with all of the above suggestions. (specially the ice from the drink, the drink ive slid across the floor! um mmm)

 

[Etoile]

Oh dear! Those little accidents happen to everyone. They sure can be moodkillers if you're not expecting them, and the embarrassment usually shames me right out of the mood. (Which doesn't mean that the activity will necessarily stop!)

Indeed, freezing is exactly what I do. I can even get so worked up I have a panic attack on the spot, which Daddy does not like. (I have a panic disorder at all times, but that's a particularly bad time to have an attack.)

I'm not really sure how to handle the on the spot creativity requests. I don't usually have time to ask for suggestions in advance! Does anybody have suggestions for how to deal with those demands?

 

[pandoravampire]

The 'freezing on the spot' where my mind goes completely blank! this tends to lead to negative self talk, "come on you stupid cow, do something!" which in turn leads to more panic and im in a self fulfilling circle of panic.
In that moment, i managed to get out of it by filling my mouth with cock, evoking a prmative response of 'just suck'. It worked for me, gave me time to think of other stuff. Distraction of any sort, and especially something so delightful as a cock, de-escalates panic.

Must suggest that to my next phobic client perhaps in times of abject panic suck cock.

 

[FreeGal]

Bravo Catalina, that was top drawer!

For me though Pandora, as an alternative option, when you place the ice cube(s) inside, try not to let him see your secret place. Not yet.

Then with him sitting on the bed, (where you would have placed him prior) move over and kneel before him.

Take him out and bring him to full hardness, lovingly, erotically but quickly with your mouth.

Then, just as you feel the last of the cube(s) has melted, rise up and mount him, allowing him to sink into the ice cold joy that your heavenly gate now is, and ride him.

The cold, for him, will be an amazing event.

One he will remember forever.

After that, allow him his desires, and ask him to take them as he requires.

I hope your evening, night and morning are all that you hope.

Please write again and tell all!

The Freebloke.

Pandora, whenever you get the chance, you REALLY must try this out.

After FreeBloke had posted this, I made a definite mental note to give him what he obviously thought would be a wonderful experience.

Was it ever!

I'd done something along a similar line with him before, where I took a swig of ice-cold water, then took him into my mouth, but judging by how he reacted to the ice, the water in my mouth was nothing compared to that.

During our latest session, last week, I asked him if he could just lie down and not move for a while. He did, so I went to the kitchen and got some ice out of the freezer. I tell you what, putting ice in your pussy don't 'arf feel good! I put two cubes in and quickly went back to him, because I could feel it melting and the water running down the insides of my thighs.

When I got back to where he was laying, I knelt in front of him, between his legs and took his cock into my mouth. I sucked him gently for a while, bringing him to full hardness, I also felt at the point all the ice had just melted.

I got up, straddled him, then impaled myself on his hard cock. His reaction was absolutely brilliant! His eyes went really wide and he grinned, sucking air through his teeth at the same time.

I rode him for a while and he loved it, so did I!

So, yes, it's definitely something to do as a real treat for him. I'll be doing it many times again, that's for sure!

 

[pandoravampire]

freegal, thankyou, that sounds delicious, and oh, about saturday i should imagine