Does your spouse/SO know the true number of lovers you have had?

[badasschick]

I've learned that when you discuss numbers you both end up feeling bad about yourselves, so its best left in the past.

 

[sheath]

...well only worry if it's still increasing.........

What he said.

S.

 

[Killswitch]

Its pretty much my belief that men over exaggerate the number of lovers they have had and women underestimate it.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Discussing numbers and past sexual experiences is just in poor taste, don't you think?

 

[Killswitch]

Honestly....my wife has never asked....but I asked her......Frankly I dont believe her answer either.....But yeah....its probably tacky at least.

 

[AardRiven]

Why does it matter anyway? I'd rather not be asked that question, it would give wrong perception of my character.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Am I the only one who is thinking Chasing Amy here? I don't discuss my past sexual history, and I don't ask my partners either. My only interest in past sex is whether or not the other person has a disease...beyond that, I don't think it is any of my damned business. I'll just be happy being the lady's current sexual partner, which is enough for me.

 

[glamorilla]

i usually make with the puppy dog eyes and say i'm rilly,rilly inexperienced if the subject comes up...

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

i usually make with the puppy dog eyes and say i'm rilly,rilly inexperienced if the subject comes up...

That is so wrong!!!!

The best I could come up with "experienced enough to get it in the right hole, but not so experienced that i've built up calluses"

 

[DeBlay]

She used to know, but not anymore.

Ruby, feelin a tad defensive? ;-)

 

[Nora]

She used to know, but not anymore.

Ruby, feelin a tad defensive? ;-)

Don't make me out your sorry ass.

 

[Pixie]

He knows mine, I don't know his, other than the fact that his number is higher than mine.
Not that hard to accomplish though
It's not really that big a deal to me *shrugs*

 

[DéjàNu]

Up here in Quebec everyone has had a lot of previous lover so....

I was a close friend with my husband a couple of months before falling in love with him, so I have seen him often with others girls as he did see me often (probably more often then him) with guys... I remember the next morning we used to talk about how it went the night before

 

[Svenskaflicka]

We are open and honest with each other. If you can't accept each others' past, you're not strong enough to be together.

 

[perks]

he knows up to his number.

*laughing*

 

[lovetoread]

Why should he know about former lovers?

I dont see the need.

 

[fuzzel]

Yes.

 

[Mona Lisa]

I know how many he's had, he knows I've had... significantly more than he's had. That's all he feels he needs to know, for some reason.

 

[TigerClaw]

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[Shaq]

I don't have any reason to lie. Ask and I shall tell, if the information is truly pertinent to my lover then I will tell the truth.

 

[Shaq]

LMAO@tiger and LTR

 

[fgarvb1]

lovers? or had sex with?

I don't remember all of them and she doesn't care anyway.