Does your S/O hide their online time from YOU?
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hiding as in only on when I'm not around? or awake?
Maybe, but I doubt she's doing anything that would bother me. She could be chatting with her parents, or other family for all I know, anyway it's cheaper that way than international calls. If anyone or their spouse can't feel comfortable talking about everything, then there are problems that go way beyond being online.
Maybe, but I doubt she's doing anything that would bother me. She could be chatting with her parents, or other family for all I know, anyway it's cheaper that way than international calls. If anyone or their spouse can't feel comfortable talking about everything, then there are problems that go way beyond being online.
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Why would you care, BC? You are having another online relationship anyway. Maybe hubby finally smartened up and is doing the same thing.
Oh hell, do I know how that feels
I hope you're not asking because this is a problem for you.
A couple of years ago, my husband was hiding a lot of things from me on the internet and I happened across an online affair with plans to meet the other woman. He quit his job, wiped out our checking account and walked out on me and the kids to go live with this woman. Turns out she was hiding lots of stuff from everyone involved (especially her husband).
But, anyway in the three months before he left, our lives were a living hell because he stayed up all night on the internet, plus he nearly lost his job because he was doing it from work too.
All I can say is if you don't keep your head straight (hmmm, both of them), you can really destroy your life and the lives of those around you.
I hope you're not asking because this is a problem for you.
A couple of years ago, my husband was hiding a lot of things from me on the internet and I happened across an online affair with plans to meet the other woman. He quit his job, wiped out our checking account and walked out on me and the kids to go live with this woman. Turns out she was hiding lots of stuff from everyone involved (especially her husband).
But, anyway in the three months before he left, our lives were a living hell because he stayed up all night on the internet, plus he nearly lost his job because he was doing it from work too.
All I can say is if you don't keep your head straight (hmmm, both of them), you can really destroy your life and the lives of those around you.
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I doubt it
The only computer in the house that is currently functioning is my laptop. So I'd know if he was using it.
I do know that he just set up his own aol screen name, but he never even checks the email.
Lobito, I have to disagree. There are somethings that just shouldn't be shared. He doesn't need to know every little thought and feeling that I have, and he probably doesn't want to. Some secrets are best kept as secrets.
The only computer in the house that is currently functioning is my laptop. So I'd know if he was using it.
I do know that he just set up his own aol screen name, but he never even checks the email.
Lobito, I have to disagree. There are somethings that just shouldn't be shared. He doesn't need to know every little thought and feeling that I have, and he probably doesn't want to. Some secrets are best kept as secrets.
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How would I know?
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