Does your other half know about this site?

[ididmytime]

...........

 

[switchbitch]

yes he showed it to me

 

[MarkSand]

Mine doesn't, and won't.

 

[ElegantlyElle]

I was single the first time I joined and got engaged shortly after joining the second time. I have no intention of letting him know. He doesn't need to know everything. And he won't know that I'm on here. He wouldn't have a problem with it, but this is the one place in my life that's seperate from him and I like it that way. He has fishing and computers. I have Lit and my sisters.

 

[randy123]

Nope, she doesn't. I'd be curious to see her reaction to Lit, but I wouldn't want her to know that I've been on here for a while...

 

[ADIDAS00]

ummmmmm, nope. This is my little fun place. I don't think this place would go over too well

 

[_me_]

Hey everyone.

I'm at that very close stage of being with someone, and while I was single I have visited this site everyday.

However, I think I may start feeling guilty seeing so many beautiful women on here while I'm with someone. Should I be feeling guilty about this at all?

Love to hear others views on the subject.

Hmm.....tough one....
My hubby knows, he found out.
He's fine about it, but I know others who aren't.

Is it cheating?
I would say it depends if your other half thinks it is or would think it is.
What is acceptable for one isn't for another

 

[ima6uldv8]

We met here

 

[ElizaRichards]

Nope, and he will not be finding out.

 

[lidien]

mine does she doesn't care but doesn't visit anymore

 

[Red_and_Mackie]

She knows. Obviously, hence the user name. She just lurks from time to time but she has the password and can access this account anytime she wants.

To your question: Should you feel guilty? Depends. Would your other half be upset by what you do on here?

 

[LuvtoDream]

No, this is my haven.

 

[lonelysmile]

I'm single right now, but I've dated two women since joining the site and neither of them knew about it. My friends don't know about it either. It's a personal thing for me and I like having something that doesn't have to connect to "irl" haha

I agree with everyone else in that whether or not you feel guilty should depend on your partner and how she'd feel about the site and whether or not she'd think it was cheating.

If I'm with someone, I need them to be okay with something like this. It's fantasy/play for me - I'd remain completely faithful to my partner. But that's me and I'm super laid back about this sort of stuff (I'd draw the line at meeting in person and if the online interactions interfered with my irl relationship)

 

[Lprice]

Yes he knows. He is a bigger pervert than I am.

 

[draconus_infernus]

She certainly does!

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Yes, he knows about it. Hell I've read some of the posts to him, and he doesn't get it...I think he's just too damn uptight w/ his sexuality - and I so wish I would've known what he was like before I married him *sigh*

 

[ididmytime]

..............

 

[bsisunknown]

There's always the half measure. Show her the stories and see how she reacts. Then maybe you can lead into the forum and such.

 

[Angmar]

yes she does

 

[TheOnlyGirl]

Yes, he knows. We play here together when we have an opportunity. He enjoys the fun we have here together and the fun I have here with others. Lit has sparked many interesting discussions and activities for us. Sometimes he likes it when I just read to him the things I find...and sometimes we never actually finish what I start reading to him.

 

[CaliGuy60]

Yes, he knows. We play here together when we have an opportunity. He enjoys the fun we have here together and the fun I have here with others. Lit has sparked many interesting discussions and activities for us. Sometimes he likes it when I just read to him the things I find...and sometimes we never actually finish what I start reading to him.

I love that my wife knows but does not like it much. I wish she would. I have shown her the site but she's not interested. And it's too bad, because she is so sexy and horny.

 

[deskuser]

Yes he does and he encourages me. It turns him on when I let him read (most but not all) my pm's. I'm pleased to say I've made a few friends on here.

 

[Cogan]

Yes she does. It was here that showed this site to me.

 

[lucklucky77]

yes - my like you showed me and encourages me - which i am delighted to do - for him - and me lol

 

[lucklucky77]

oops - i forgot to type "my husband" lol