Does your bf/gf/spouse know/

[Sean]

I'd be absolutely mortified if the other half knew I was on Lit. She's very straight laced and vanilla.

 

[Mtnmike]

She's known the whole time, she's happier than a pig in slop that i'm not bothering her lol.

 

[dodgeboy2]

As Sean said my wife is also vanilla about sexual things, don't get me wrong almost 40 years later she is still very fit and hot but very vanilla. So my answer is no as I am sure she would like it or even understand it but I alas need an outlet like this that allows my wanderlust without the actual wandering!

 

[RestlessBob53]

She doesn’t. I doubt if she’d understand.

 

[lovetoread]

I'd be absolutely mortified if the other half knew I was on Lit. She's very straight laced and vanilla.

ikr?

no one knows i am on here

i am invisible

 

[Sean]

ikr?

no one knows i am on here

i am invisible

Can you imagine the scandal if our respective partners found out? The horror!

 

[Showmewhatchugot84]

My wife knows, just recently I shared that I was on here. She loves how worked up I get here. Even gets a little turned on herself by some of the messages I receive. She's not on here tho....yet

 

[Noor]

I always let them know, most of them join for a bit. Most of the rl guys in my life are tactile not visual but they are game to check it. I also have real life friends here.
Not everyone knows about FetLife, but I am rarely on there and most of the people I knew there are gone.

 

[Cycle007]

My spouse does not know. I can't imagine it would be received well if she found out either. She's has little to no interest in any levels of intimacy in our relationship. Which is how I found LIT. Looking for some sort of outlet for my desires.

 

[Tayloroc]

My spouse does not know. I can't imagine it would be received well if she found out either. She's has little to no interest in any levels of intimacy in our relationship. Which is how I found LIT. Looking for some sort of outlet for my desires.

Amen to that

 

[Ttggmmm]

nope! this is my place for my fun.

 

[Curvyscotswoman]

No he doesn't
And if he found out he would freak

 

[saintcero]

She does not know. I love her but she doesn’t have a kinky bone in her body. She does like to fuck and asks for dick twice a week but always missionary with me on top. I got tired of hearing no so I don’t ask for anything extra anymore. The last rejection was when I asked to fuck her doggy style. If she found out that I have a FWB it would not go well at all.

 

[Scotland7up]

No he doesn't
And if he found out he would freak

I know that feeling. Wife doesn't know and she would flip if she knew otherwise.

 

[Tayloroc]

I know that feeling. Wife doesn't know and she would flip if she knew otherwise.

She’d flip me!!

 

[derek00003]

She does not. I think sometimes we all need something that is just for us.

I don't need to know every detail of her private life either.

 

[Tayloroc]

She does not. I think sometimes we all need something that is just for us.

I don't need to know every detail of her private life either.

Amen to that!

 

[Polranny]

No. If anyone grasses on me I will be up shit creek without a paddle

 

[Tayloroc]

Too true!

 

[Handeguy]

My activity here is something I keep to myself.

 

[Nightspeed]

I'm currently without a significant other, but the last one knew I read some of the stories on Lit but that's all. She doesn't know that I'm actually on here with an alias and some of the things I've revealed here would've freaked her out.

 

[live4thebj]

I came here at first to post my first story, about some naughty stuff i got up to while my boyfriend was far away (https://www.literotica.com/s/jess-and-the-country-boy feel free to read it if you like), but now I really enjoy reading other people’s posts. He doesn’t know anything about my sudden interest in being bad… does your sig other know you’re here?

She has no idea. There is a reason I got my own computer.

 

[live4thebj]

Maybe you should...

Some things are best left secret. I told my fiancé too much about my past. Granted she has a past too but apparently mine is worse. Whatever.

 

[Bigboobbabe]

No. But, when I joined up for my tour of duty I had all good intentions of sharing this with her. Then we got in a big fight and I decided it might be in my best interest to keep this ace-in-the-hole to myself!

I used to chat with a married military service member whose wife didn't want him to masturbate while deployed.

 

[Rainblow]

Of course. He was the one who introduced me to Lit.