Does size really matter?

[Netzach]

Yikes..... I'm 5' 7" and my inseam is also 32.

I have to shorten everything, because apparently mine is SUPPOSED to be, you see.

 

[Netzach]

Let's talk sameish height for a second.

I really like being more or less eye to eye. I don't like smothering in an armpit during missionary.

Although I kind of like the horsey rides and craning down ridiculously to kiss my feet of really tall men, it's not that interesting to me per se.

 

[Homburg]

Yikes..... I'm 5' 7" and my inseam is also 32.

You must be all damned legs. I'm 5'11" with a 32" inseam, and my legs are not short for my height. (my arms, however, are gorilla long.)

 

[satindesire]

Let's talk sameish height for a second.

I really like being more or less eye to eye. I don't like smothering in an armpit during missionary.

Although I kind of like the horsey rides and craning down ridiculously to kiss my feet of really tall men, it's not that interesting to me per se.

Damn, I'm not a Domme but horsey rides sounds like fun to me!

You must be all damned legs. I'm 5'11" with a 32" inseam, and my legs are not short for my height. (my arms, however, are gorilla long.)

*points* MONKEY ARMS!

*laughs and runs away*

 

[Homburg]

*points* MONKEY ARMS!

*laughs and runs away*

Dude, I'm serious. One of my friends is 6'8" tall, with normal proportions. He has less than an inch of reach on me.

 

[eastern sun]

My husband is an inch shorter than me, which means when I wear heels I am much taller than him. I like the social reactions we get. It only strengthens my feelings of submission to him.

Being about the same size, he is still stronger than me, and I genuinely like the feeling of being physically overpowered without being destroyed.

But, ultimately, in my experience, dominance and submission are mind games.

 

[WriterDom]

Yes and no. In real life it makes a huge difference. Online where they get a chance to know you then it doesn't matter so much. I'm 5'6" and have had women at tall at 5'11''. Always wanted to make the 6' club. Actually I prefer short women. 5'2" or less but it really doesn't matter that much to me. Everyone is short on their knees.

 

[Cattypuss]

I've never been with a man who wasn't taller than me and I don't think I would want to. I want my face to be tilted UP when he kisses me. I want him to be able to walk along the street with his arm around my shoulders, comfortably. I want my man to be bigger than me, too, for what feel like vague but deep-rooted primal reasons.

I'm 5'4". Most of my life I've been with men around 5'8" which has been fine. Current man is 6'4" which I find, to my surprise, I REALLY like - love the feeling of him being My Big Protector.

 

[WriterDom]

Maybe it's my Napoleon complex that makes me workout so much. Probably not, I just enjoy it. Lucky I had friends introduce me to it 10 years ago or I would be a wimpy armed short guy. I think most women say they don't care if a guy is strong but I think it is a turn on to most. I know my ex liked holding my arms when I pounded her pussy.

 

[LadyAria]

I am attracted to men who I have to look up to when I am speaking. I'm 5'7" and usually wear heels.

This is not to say I don't date shorter men. They just do not catch my eye as often.

 

[Homburg]

I think most women say they don't care if a guy is strong but I think it is a turn on to most.

I can honestly say that I've never dealt with a woman that was turned off by strength. By aggression, yes, and by violence as well, but never the strength itself.

 

[celticsunspiral]

I am really turned on by tall men 5'10 and taller. But 6' or higher, mmmm. I am short , 5' nutin and love being able to sit on his lap and cuddle, or feel his chin sitting on top of my head while holding me. It's the feeling of being protected, but it also feels like they are more dominant.

 

[ImOnIt]

I'm 6 ft 2 and find mostly tall women attractive.

 

[Cattypuss]

or feel his chin sitting on top of my head while holding me.

I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE that.

 

[Cattypuss]

I can honestly say that I've never dealt with a woman that was turned off by strength. By aggression, yes, and by violence as well, but never the strength itself.

This holds true for me, BUT I find men who are bulked with muscle a turn-off. I like my strong men lean and wiry. The sort who, in clothes, you would have no idea were strong. Muscle definition = good, for me. Muscle bulk = bad, for me (and I know you can't have one without the other to SOME extent in men, but you get my drift).

 

[Netzach]

This holds true for me, BUT I find men who are bulked with muscle a turn-off. I like my strong men lean and wiry. The sort who, in clothes, you would have no idea were strong. Muscle definition = good, for me. Muscle bulk = bad, for me (and I know you can't have one without the other to SOME extent in men, but you get my drift).

I've encountered this sentiment a lot. I get a lot of weird glances among my vanilla peers when I mention that I like clear-skinned metros with a little extra fat AND muscular and hairy, and it's the latter that arouses suspicion. Either outdoors and wiry or kind of padded and cute are both in higher demand than "looks like he lifts" among the women I know. Whatevs, more for me! - but it is interesting - I know that what women think looks best for them and what men actually find hot in terms of body shape are divergent things, why not the opposite sometimes?

 

[satindesire]

I've been with overweight guys, really skinny guys, really BUFF muscly guys, slender model-type guys and normal average-weight guys.

If I had to PICK, I'd pick super buff or model-slender.

The hubs has the model-type body, square shoulders, slim, nice legs...he looks good in everything he wears, it's disgusting.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I can honestly say that I've never dealt with a woman that was turned off by strength. By aggression, yes, and by violence as well, but never the strength itself.

Absolutely.

Also depends on how that strength is packaged. I have a friend who is as strong as an ox, but also a gym junkie and buff as. I mean seriously, his pecs are nearly as big as my boobs and are a lot firmer!

But I see girls drooling all over him, and I sit there thinking "you know how many hours he'd spend in a gym (and therefore not with you) to maintain that look?"

And he'd have no squishy bits to cuddle up to either.



That's definitely a turn off.

 

[MICH69AGIE]

Absolutely.

Also depends on how that strength is packaged. I have a friend who is as strong as an ox, but also a gym junkie and buff as. I mean seriously, his pecs are nearly as big as my boobs and are a lot firmer!

But I see girls drooling all over him, and I sit there thinking "you know how many hours he'd spend in a gym (and therefore not with you) to maintain that look?"

And he'd have no squishy bits to cuddle up to either.




That's definitely a turn off.

WOW! Me being a guy always wanting to be one of those big guys, never thought of it this way.

Great post.

 

[ownedsubgal]

I would love to be short. I think short women are so freaking cute.

If I was about seven inches shorter, I'd be soooo content!

me too! i have always fantasized about being like 4'11"...just an itty bitty delicate li'l thing. at 5'6" i feel like an amazon sometimes, primarily because there are soooo many short men nowadays! i rarely wear heels, yet i still find myself looking down on or eye to eye with many guys. it sucks dangit!!

but then i try to look at the bright side...if i were 4'11", i imagine weight control would be a whole lot tougher.

 

[YourCaptor]

I once has a shorty, her doc said she was over 5', but she thinks he was trying to make her feel better.

She was the perfect size for me, when I held her, her head leaned against my chest out of my peripheral vision, very practical. I could also lock my arms around her by grabbing onto my upper arms, kept her trapped.

I dubbed her fun sized, like those tiny chips bags.

She was pretty damn fun too, especially when you tease her.

 

[ataxia.girl]

i hope this, while true, is also pervy.

So i went to BYU and met a nice mormon boy who asked me to marry him. In Utah it is traditional for the girls to go to the doctor before their wedding night and get "checked out." i'm not even sure what for but it was something that was just done so i did it. The doctor told me i was very small down there and things were going to be difficult for me and he told me before my wedding night i should put three of my fingers inside me in order to insure it wasn't too painful and that we would be "successful" at having intercourse.

Well i had NEVER put anything but a slender tampon in there, the smallest size they made. The prospect of putting my fingers in there really disturbed and grossed me out. i was 23, almost 24. i had only learned to masturbate myself to a climax less than a year prior.

Anyway... i tried it in the bathtub ONCE before the wedding night and was too horrified to get more than 2 fingers in, much less 3, and only for a split second.

Needless to say my husband, who is quite well endowed, and for some ridiculous reason thought i would want to see him naked and erect on our wedding night, scared me to death. Penises did not exactly turn me on in general since i had never had a really good look at one and further more... um... hello... that was supposed to go INSIDE me????? WTF??? No way was something that big going in there!

Well he was insistent and after many failed attempts at around 3 a.m. it finally went in. It was pretty traumatizing really. It hurt really bad and yeah i bled. A month later i was still bleeding a spot or two EVERY FREAKING NIGHT when he penetrated me.

my husband is really thin and was even thinner then and had never had sex before and was 25 years old so he was like really ready to to get his dick in something. Our honeymoon was basically a nightmare of him grinding his bony hips into my pelvic area and my way too small vagina every night and every morning. i had visible bruises in my groin area from the exercise and was just really confused and in a sort of weird shock (lets not forget i had only just gone through the temple where i pledged to obey my husband, veiled my face, and learned all the secret handshakes that get you into heaven.)

Honestly... i only remember this thread is about penis size at this point and i am going to spare you the gory details but at this point, after giving birth to FOUR children, my husband, at full throttle, is just the right size.

So my answer is yes it matters but it matters much much more after the offspring.

 

[ThatSweetness]

It's not important to me. It used to be.
As a woman who is 6' tall I have come to feel that society is who told me that a man is "supposed" to be taller. It might come from that men are protectors thing. I decided in my early 20's though that it isn't necessary for me (maybe partially due to the fact that a lot of guys are shorter than me anyway lol) but I digress. I have been with men anywhere from 5'5" to 6'7"

 

[satindesire]

me too! i have always fantasized about being like 4'11"...just an itty bitty delicate li'l thing. at 5'6" i feel like an amazon sometimes, primarily because there are soooo many short men nowadays! i rarely wear heels, yet i still find myself looking down on or eye to eye with many guys. it sucks dangit!!

but then i try to look at the bright side...if i were 4'11", i imagine weight control would be a whole lot tougher.

You feel like an amazon at 5'6?! I must be a GIANT then! *cry!*

 

[ataxia.girl]

wait... this thread was about height???

i'm shorter as long as my heels aren't to high.

Daddy is very tall though. i could wear basically anything and he'd still be a head taller.