This is my first post but i hope there will be many more. I was just wondering is having a small penis a turnoff to women. I mean I am about 5 inches long but not very wide, is there anything i can do to turn women on in bed or am I pardon the pun screwed/ Any help would be apperciated
does size really matter?
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Jezebelle1458
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to some women,size does matter. to me, what matters is enthusiasm.if a person is truly into what they are doing then thats where the fun is.watch your partner,you will find out more about what they like by just observing their responses to what you are doing. there are always different positions for deeper penetration,but if all your partner wants is a huge cock,well then either use a dildo or better yet,find another partner who has more brain cells.
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i was going to post a sarcastic reply, but then i just *sighed* and thought to myself 'this guy really doesn't need me pointing anything out to him, coz he already has enough hangups if a thing like dick-size seems to matter so much'.
grow a personality, and your dick won't matter!
alright, i had no choice about the sarcastic reply -
i have PMS, dammit!!!
grow a personality, and your dick won't matter!
alright, i had no choice about the sarcastic reply -
i have PMS, dammit!!!
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warrior queen said:
I was going to tell him to do a search, using "things done to death" as the subject...and I don't have pms
That and to learn how to use his mouth, tongue, and hands and the size won't matter, but I like your sarcastic reply better.
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Brain size matters a hell of a lot more than dick size.
For fucks sake, 5 inches is AVERAGE. No matter what you think, everybody can't be above average.
Now, if you still have questions, do a search on the subject and you can read the same responses in 15 different threads from the past month.
For fucks sake, 5 inches is AVERAGE. No matter what you think, everybody can't be above average.
Now, if you still have questions, do a search on the subject and you can read the same responses in 15 different threads from the past month.
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relax
does size really matter? to some women yes and thats ok.some guys want big tits and each to their own.I enjoy a woman whose comfortable with the equipment the good lord gave her and hopefully she enjoys mine..oral sex doesnt require any dick size.and there are many ways to enjoy fuking regardless of size..but then I enjoy lots of foreplay lol..
does size really matter? to some women yes and thats ok.some guys want big tits and each to their own.I enjoy a woman whose comfortable with the equipment the good lord gave her and hopefully she enjoys mine..oral sex doesnt require any dick size.and there are many ways to enjoy fuking regardless of size..but then I enjoy lots of foreplay lol..
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camohog1 said:
Learn the girly drill:
90% of what you can do in bed with a woman to turn her on leaves your 5 inches out in the cold.
Make her comfortable, treat her like you give a shit and listen to some of what she says, stroke her with your hands and notice the ones who start to stroke back. (They will be your keepers.) Hunt women you can start with some common ground with. Maybe ones where you would laugh at the same movie. If she's into Bondage and you're not, don't assume it's your magic 5 that broke the deal. Some folks are just not meant for each other.
You know what I mean? If you have the rest of the package that makes woman want to give you their time, your 5 inches will probably be very happy inches too,
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Re: Camohog
I like that. Good point.
TXappeal said:
I like that. Good point.
Dude been big isnt that great! I have been with 3 different girls that have all said that it was alittle to big for them. With my ex i was with her for 2 year and she never got use to it and it always hurt her so i always had to be careful and i really couldnt get into it because if i went in to deep i would hurt her and i was over for that time. There also is alot of guys that are bigger then me too!
Learn how to use your tough really good!! and she wont even care if you got a dick or not.
Learn how to use your tough really good!! and she wont even care if you got a dick or not.
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i think he needs to change his sig line -
American by birth Southern by the Grace of God!! and stupid by intention!!!!!
American by birth Southern by the Grace of God!! and stupid by intention!!!!!
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There are some things a big dick isn't good for......for instance, I had 2 lovers who I never let anywhere near my butt, because the size of them scared the hell out of me. It's also difficult to give good oral when you can't fit more than the head in your mouth......
One of those guys didn't do a thing for me in bed, because he had the attitude that his 8 inches of dick was all he needed to fuck me silly......needless to say he didn't last too long with me!
One of those guys didn't do a thing for me in bed, because he had the attitude that his 8 inches of dick was all he needed to fuck me silly......needless to say he didn't last too long with me!
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Amen Bandit!
warrior queen, I have a question for ya, what is your problem with me ? I realize this question has been asked before, but it is revelant to me, and that should be enough to warrant posting it, so I am sorry if you are unable to see past the fact that I am not as experienced as you are in all the ways of lit, but for christ sake give me a chance.
and to all those that took me seriously thanks you guys have deffiently reassured. and have halped out my self esteem
and to all those that took me seriously thanks you guys have deffiently reassured. and have halped out my self esteem
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to me size doesn't matter.
it's like the saying goes "it's not what you have, it's how you use it."
it's like the saying goes "it's not what you have, it's how you use it."
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saw a guy,only once,who tried to compensate for size by ...lets just say,i thought of it as fucking like a rabbit...like i said,only saw him once.
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camohog1 said:
I won't answer for warrior queen, but I will answer for me. It is a question that is posted at least once a day and on one day that I can remember there were like 4 threads all asking the same question.
So as someone that posts here on a regular basis it is just a tired subject and the answer is always the same. If you did a search on it using size as the subject and searching only the how to board I can't imagine the number of threads that you would get that have been started.
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anyways.....................whether it's one thread or 4, everyone is different. An answer for one isn't gonna be the same for the next guy, is it? God i hope not, lol. Would really suck if every guy had the same dick, wouldn't it.
Camohog, like everyone said it's not the size it's how you work it. Look at it this way if she doesn't like the size then she can go get her vibrator and play by herself.
Camohog, like everyone said it's not the size it's how you work it. Look at it this way if she doesn't like the size then she can go get her vibrator and play by herself.
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jaded_lily said:
Jaded, what you just typed as a reply to him is the same thing that everyone has been saying to everyone who has posted the same question that he has.
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yeah i just noticed that lol, i tend to do that a lot and most of the time i don't even notice it. Thanks for pointing that out.
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You know what I think the problem is? The way this forum is constructed. If threads aren't bumped periodically, they disappear and are very, very, very hard to find again. I have another forum where all you have to do is go to the folder the thread was in, click on where it says to reactivate inactive threads, and there it is. And it's the original thread. When a thread dies here, and no one can find it, other people who are new to the forum have no choice but to bring up the topic again, and it's new to them because they're new, but those of us who have been here for years are going Oh, no, not again...
I think Bandit said it most cogently. My husband's equipment is in the top 30% as far as size, and I'm quite happy with it, but due to my small mouth and TMJ, and backdoor medical issues, it only has to go in one place. If he really liked blowjobs and being on the giving end of anal, I'd be in trouble.
Like the old blues song goes, "It's not the meat, it's the motion."
I think Bandit said it most cogently. My husband's equipment is in the top 30% as far as size, and I'm quite happy with it, but due to my small mouth and TMJ, and backdoor medical issues, it only has to go in one place. If he really liked blowjobs and being on the giving end of anal, I'd be in trouble.
Like the old blues song goes, "It's not the meat, it's the motion."
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SlickTony said:
I'm new here, too, but I read the sticky notes first. Everything his heart desires is likely in the Blank Manual, and conveniently organized by subject and gender.
(PS - this is not a flame.)
Metal_Monkey said:
I agree, that Blank Manual is a wonderful thing.
On that same note: I think we also have to remember that every day, someone is new to the world of sex. Every day, someone young and impressionable visits Literotica for advice. I think a lot of questions like this one really are valid...they seem old hat to those of us who have been around the block a time or two...but to a young virgin who is scared to death of the sexual realm, they really do see a reason to ask the same questions over and over.
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