Does jealousy turn you on?

[FurryFury]

LOL, I agree. Sheeesh his ex is still sending e cards and the occasional email after all this time...of course she addresses them to both of us though I think perhaps she is waiting for things to go bust with us so she can try to get him back as that was how the recontact started before she knew I existed. He was mean and sent her a link to our neglected website which has some explicit pics on..maybe because we have been neglecting it she thinks perhaps we are finished already. I did email her and tell her we could chat online but she never shows up on my screen.

Catalina

Sounds like a passive aggressive twit. I've dealt with that kind a few times in my life.

Fury

Well I am not so bad, i don't get jealous about ex's and never had that type of mentality.

Atfter all they are 'ex' right.

I also work on the premise that we often choose similiar types of people. I liked all my ex husbands ex partners (except one, who had her head far up her own ass), after all he chooses nice people to be with, therefore i must be ok too. A strange logic but it makes a warped sort of sense to me.

In Andantes case we met after his wife died. What kind of person would I be if I struggled when he talked about her & missed her? How can you be jealous of somone who is no longer living yet loved him, as he did her?
I would worry alot more if he didnt talk about her or miss her.

As for him looking at other women, no that doesn't bring out jealousy in me either. He can't help but look at womens asses as the wiggle past
I was driving one day and he was clearly watching three women on the other side of the road. My eldest son suddenly realised and blurted out 'Are you looking at those birds??' His reply 'Yep' I almost wet myself laughing. I am glad he is not discreet or furtive about his watching and admiring, after all its only looking.

My jealousy comes from a complex mix of conversations and very close friendships he has with women, whom I don't know. But it is lessening.

I confess, I have been jealous of the dead. It's lead to some great and unusual sex to "compete."

Fury

*<snip> I almost went nuts the other day when we were dog-sitting and he was giving the bitch commands and telling her "Good girl!" when she did them right. It sure made me want to prove how much better I could obey, which was actually quite a turn-on as well.

*giggles* I can't help it that's so funny in a cute kinda way! I love that comment!

Fury

Don't do jealousy. I think it is damaging to my self esteem. Its something out of my control anyway. I see it as a waste of energy.
My bestest friend in high school offerred herself to and fucked my then b/f in front of me..I was mildly annoyed but we competed at everything. I would have been as irritated if she got a better mark in the math exam..
I was bridesmaid at her wedding and am godmother to her daughter.
She even tried to seduce my husband, lol, some years later ( and he was an even worse lover,I think he was intimidated by her. )
I didn't fancy hers at all so didn't bother.

We are still best friends and they are all long gone.

I like you a lot but I don't have friends like this, I don't understand it and I don't want friends like this. One of the first rules for a female and me being friends is we don't fuck each other's men and we don't back stab each other. That's rarely a problem for me because I've heard all the crap about their men and don't find them attractive usually from the get go!

Fury

Both stunts get quick slapdown.

I agree that is a niiiice hot av.

Fury

Thanks for the rose darlin'!

*blows kiss*

I think it's because I feel guilty about feeling sick or tired and want to serve his needs to make up for it. *shrugs*

It could also be that my natural resistance is lowered from being sick and/or tired.

Fury

 

[shy slave]

The reverse is kind of true as well. I found recently that although I have very, very rarely been jealous of T's lust for other women, I almost went nuts the other day when we were dog-sitting and he was giving the bitch commands and telling her "Good girl!" when she did them right. It sure made me want to prove how much better I could obey, which was actually quite a turn-on as well.

This should go into the Subs 2005 Hall of Fame ~ Priceless



Thanks Quint

 

[Quint]

This should go into the Subs 2005 Hall of Fame ~ Priceless



Thanks Quint

Suuuure...glad my random acts of neurosis bring smiles to the masses!

 

[Xelebes]

I find that a lot of negative emotions can serve as aphrodisiacs for me, jealousy being a prime culprit.

Anyone else experience this?

Marquis is a cuckold.

 

[Quint]

Marquis is a cuckold.

Shhh! You shouldn't say the "c" word! You'll get in trouble!

The thought crossed my mind as well...

 

[landcruisergal]

My friendship with her is a bit unique. We have known each other since we were 2, and she's the only one I would take it from.For some reason I can always find it in my heart to forgive her anything, and it was over a decade ago now.
We clung to each other as we grew up under family dramas and stress through school, and I can accept her sometimes innapropriate behavior.
And she's been a exclusive lesbian for years now anyway.

Thanks Fury, I like you too.

 

[FurryFury]

My friendship with her is a bit unique. We have known each other since we were 2, and she's the only one I would take it from.For some reason I can always find it in my heart to forgive her anything, and it was over a decade ago now.
We clung to each other as we grew up under family dramas and stress through school, and I can accept her sometimes innapropriate behavior.
And she's been a exclusive lesbian for years now anyway.

Thanks Fury, I like you too.

 

[esclave_PP]

I find that a lot of negative emotions can serve as aphrodisiacs for me, jealousy being a prime culprit.

Anyone else experience this?

Hell no! I think jealousy (no offense to you or your emotions Marquis, this is just purely on the emotion itself) is something better not felt. I think it leads to such destructive behavior. It would be best if people could be happy for others, and be open enough to understand what is happening to them rather than coveting what they don't have.

Jealousy sucks, I had enough of that with my ex-husband...icky. I would rather not experience it or be the person that is jealous of. If that makes sense. Excellent question though.

How does it work as a turn on for you?

 

[Marquis]

The sublimation of sorrow into anger seems to make titilation as a waste product.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Any type of sublimation creates waste products.

Just ask the middle aged woman who sublimated her need for submission for a career.

The sublimation of sorrow into anger seems to make titilation as a waste product.

 

[Marquis]

I think most careers require a good degree of subbing.

 

[MechaBlade]

I find that a lot of negative emotions can serve as aphrodisiacs for me, jealousy being a prime culprit.

Anyone else experience this?

Anger and humiliation bring out the dom in me. Sometimes I deliberately try to get good and angry so that I can write good erotica soon afterwards.

 

[Marquis]

Anger and humiliation bring out the dom in me. Sometimes I deliberately try to get good and angry so that I can write good erotica soon afterwards.

This is how the whole problem starts. I try to get angry, but it always feels so thin. I vastly prefer genuine release. So what do you do when simple things aren't giving you the kind of rage that erotic stories are made of?

Maybe you watch the mosquito land on your shoulder and stay still so you can scratch the ensuing bump with your grimy fingernails until it bleeds.

Sometimes I wonder if this BDSM stuff is really all that healthy.

 

[naughtygirl69s]

Hell no! I think jealousy (no offense to you or your emotions Marquis, this is just purely on the emotion itself) is something better not felt. I think it leads to such destructive behavior. It would be best if people could be happy for others, and be open enough to understand what is happening to them rather than coveting what they don't have.

Jealousy sucks, I had enough of that with my ex-husband...icky. I would rather not experience it or be the person that is jealous of. If that makes sense. Excellent question though.

How does it work as a turn on for you?

Jelousy isn't always a bad thing. I kinda see what marquis is saying, it can fuel you, in a way. If a guy was with acted jealous because someone was flirting with me, I would be flattered and probably tease him about it.

If it doesn't get out of hand and your'e honest about your feelings I can see where it can be healthy.

Sometimes I deliberately try to get good and angry so that I can write good erotica soon afterwards.

and sometimes I like to make them angry for good hot aggressive angry fucking

 

[Blushing Bottom]

I think most careers require a good degree of subbing.

Yes perhaps but not with the desired erotic results.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Marquis is a cuckold.

There's a lot to be said for cuckoldry (sp.?), but masters respond differently to the emotions involved.

 

[FurryFury]

So I never said I was perfect right? I get jealous of strange things at strange times. It hasn't happened for a while but it did Friday night.

The other night we are sitting with the kids at the table candles flickering. It was lovely. He is eating some meat and whatever and moaning.

"Oh, this is so good. Umm. Ohh."

All the obsession he has with food just sort of boiled over into a little jealous snit.

I said, "I think you like your food better than me."

"What?" He said looking at me like a peevish owl.

"You don't go on and on like that with me."

His eyes changed into twinkly devilish looking things.

"Oh yes I do!" He said.

"Y'all are sick!" chimed in our son.

Which made us all laugh.

Later though he gave it to me good. So, in this case, jealousy may have turned him on or made him want to punish me in a goooood way.

Fury

 

[graceanne]

So I never said I was perfect right? I get jealous of strange things at strange times. It hasn't happened for a while but it did Friday night.

The other night we are sitting with the kids at the table candles flickering. It was lovely. He is eating some meat and whatever and moaning.

"Oh, this is so good. Umm. Ohh."

All the obsession he has with food just sort of boiled over into a little jealous snit.

I said, "I think you like your food better than me."

"What?" He said looking at me like a peevish owl.

"You don't go on and on like that with me."

His eyes changed into twinkly devilish looking things.

"Oh yes I do!" He said.

"Y'all are sick!" chimed in our son.

Which made us all laugh.

Later though he gave it to me good. So, in this case, jealousy may have turned him on or made him want to punish me in a goooood way.

Fury

LOL Poor guy that musta seemed to come from outta left field.

 

[FurryFury]

LOL Poor guy that musta seemed to come from outta left field.

Hey life's a bitch and sometimes so am I. I'm human. I am flawed. I fuck up.

If he obsesses about something for too long it's going to eventually get to me. Particularly if I don't share that interest. I love food don't get me wrong but I don't eat meat. Frankly I'm tried of all the time and attention he pours into meals.

Not long ago when he came home from work he said what had kept him going. It wasn't me or the kids, no, it was thinking about his food. *grr*

The nice and surprising thing about this, for me, was that it made him totally into doing what he wanted with me. I loved that.

Fury

 

[graceanne]

Hey life's a bitch and sometimes so am I. I'm human. I am flawed. I fuck up.

If he obsesses about something for too long it's going to eventually get to me. Particularly if I don't share that interest. I love food don't get me wrong but I don't eat meat. Frankly I'm tried of all the time and attention he pours into meals.

Not long ago when he came home from work he said what had kept him going. It wasn't me or the kids, no, it was thinking about his food. *grr*

The nice and surprising thing about this, for me, was that it made him totally into doing what he wanted with me. I loved that.

Fury

Actually I understand where you're coming from. I was just giggling thinking of his face. Eating his meat and then you're mad. Of course us women, being the logical creatures we are, can see it coming. But men are much more simple. He probably had no idea that a storm was brewing.

 

[FurryFury]

Actually I understand where you're coming from. I was just giggling thinking of his face. Eating his meat and then you're mad. Of course us women, being the logical creatures we are, can see it coming. But men are much more simple. He probably had no idea that a storm was brewing.

*nods*

Yep, men wouldn't tend to notice such things I guess. Poor dears.

Fury

 

[chris9]

I can way understand Fury's man. Fury, you were quite cruel, I mean, we're talking food here, which is WAAAAYYYYYYY up the importance list.

 

[FurryFury]

I can way understand Fury's man. Fury, you were quite cruel, I mean, we're talking food here, which is WAAAAYYYYYYY up the importance list.

Being that passionate about food can and will get one in trouble, mark my words.

I'm not saying I was right, cause I wasn't but dayum, there are much healthier things to obsessing about. Like sex! *nods a lot*

Fury

 

[chris9]

Being that passionate about food can and will get one in trouble, mark my words.

I'm not saying I was right, cause I wasn't but dayum, there are much healthier things to obsessing about. Like sex! *nods a lot*

Fury

I do. Both are good. But if I have not eaten in too long I get very moody and close to depressed. Doesn't happen with sex. And I'm better myself getting off than getting food if it's a bad food day. I'm learning though to get better about it.
Though food it most certainly the most potent aphrodisiacum for me

 

[FurryFury]

I do. Both are good. But if I have not eaten in too long I get very moody and close to depressed. Doesn't happen with sex. And I'm better myself getting off than getting food if it's a bad food day. I'm learning though to get better about it.
Though food it most certainly the most potent aphrodisiacum for me

LMAO!

Sure food can totally be a turn on but my goodness if you only knew how much he thinks about it, how much effort he puts into it. It's nuts!

I mean sometimes I just wanna say, let's throw some chips and hot dogs on the table and relax! You know? (Veggie dogs for me, naturally.)

Now ply me with fresh cherries and sour dough and who knows what will happen. *purrs*

Then again you never know what I will do anyway. *c*

Oh I can always find some lil something to eat but now sex? Sure I can get myself off quite handily but that is not what I crave! LOL!

I can get jealous of a lot of things that I shouldn't, come to think of it. I'm a passionate fucked up creature. *nods muchly*

Fury