Does it turn you on?

[LittleIndianGrl]

I am 28, female. I mastrubate almost every day, and my husband very rarely does. I find this unusual. I was wondering how people felt about a woman who masturbates (a lot or a little bit). Is it a turn-on or a turn-off?

 

[looking4fun]

definitely a turn on!!

 

[lovetoread]

Well since I do it every frigging day,I'd say its a turn on.

 

[matt_vancouver]

This is my first time responding to a post. I have been a reader and follower of posts and discussions for many months. But seeing this discussion I felt I needed to respond.

It may be one of the most erotic things to do. Watching a woman masterbate and see her pleasing herself. Nothing turns me on more than watching a woman cum by touching herself.....

So definately a huge turn on...

Matt

 

[dreamer]

turn on

I vote huge turn on here. It's actually a resonably big part of my current girlfriends and my 'play time.'

 

[steffy]

Most definitely a turn on! I masturbate very day, for a variety of reasons. One is I'm a very horny girl. Another reason, by masturbating, I can be with anyone I want to be with, or be anyone I want to be, and it's totally safe. The only requirement is an imagination. I love to be watched when I masturbate, and I love to watch someone, man or woman, do the same. What a turn on watching a man stroke his cock, or watching a woman spread her lips and dip a finger inside while rubbing her clit. Mmmmmmm
<kisses> Steffy

 

[sport]

turn on

To me it would be a turn on if i got to watch or give a hand too!!

 

[Richard49]

I am 28, female. I mastrubate almost every day, and my husband very rarely does. I find this unusual. I was wondering how people felt about a woman who masturbates (a lot or a little bit). Is it a turn-on or a turn-off?

It turns me on to watch.......
Even if I am not watching it tells me she is hot

Richard

 

[Different Guy]

Yeah major turn on

Nice Av pic lovetoread!!!

 

[DartmouthCouple]

Masturbation is one of my favorite things to do when my husband is at work. I love to imagine him watching me to do it....always helps me to get off quicker!

 

[lovetoread]

Yeah major turn on

Nice Av pic lovetoread!!!

Thank you.

 

[Tribbin]

It's a turn-on most definately. I just recently saw a statisic where watching a woman masterbate is the second highest male fantasy, lesbians being the first. Does your husband know know how often you do it? If it was me I don't think I would be able to stand that without getting increadibly hot.

Trib

 

[Drifter014]

a turn on for sure, nothing gets me in the mood quicker than watching a woman pleasure herself, plus you can learn alot about what she likes by watching her....

 

[coolr]

i'd say it's a huge turn on too, maybe to surprise your husband sometime, when he comes home be masturbating on your bed, don't answer his calls, and let him walk in on you..... see what happens

 

[LittleIndianGrl]

I've masturbated in front of him several times, right next to him on the bed, and he does not seem to be affected. So i thought maybe it was just a weird thing I do, but that "normal" women don't. Also, it seemed to me that women don't really do it. But I love it!

 

[coolr]

even though i'm not a woman, i think i speak for all when they masturbate just as much as men, if not more........so keep on at it !

 

[steffy]

All of the women in my circle of friends, those with whom I'm comfortable enough to discuss these issues anyway, readily acknowledge that they masturbate frequently. It's not really an issue that they're not being satisfied by their partners, but a necessary part of, or extension of, their sex lives. For most of us, if our partners wish to participate in our masturbation, great, and if they wish not to, great as well. I've not had a lover, whether male or female, who didn't respond when I masturbated in front of them.
<kisses> Steffy

 

[Richard49]

I've masturbated in front of him several times, right next to him on the bed, and he does not seem to be affected. So i thought maybe it was just a weird thing I do, but that "normal" women don't. Also, it seemed to me that women don't really do it. But I love it!

If you did it in front of me...beside me....it would turn me on...make me very hot

Richard

 

[ExtacyCouple]

Major turn on

Watching my wife masturbate is one of the sexiest things that I have ever seen. It is amazing to watch her when she really gets into it. I also love to watch when she breaks out the toys.

She recently told me about a night she had while I was out of town and she broke out her rubber cock and used it in the bath tub. I couldn't get that story out of my head for a couple of days. It was such a turn on to think about her fucking herself with this thing and finding such pleasure in it.

 

[ApplesMcgee]

No matter how you slice it...

....or spread it, or finger it, or open it, or play with it...watching a women play with herself is a HUGE turn on.

PowrDragn

p.s. Hello to everyone as this is one of my first few posts.

 

[flawed_ethics]

I'd hate to play the spoiler - I too find masturbating women very much a turn-on, but this question doesn't garner a fair response on these boards. People registered and responding to these posts are for the most part sexually charged people - we participate in erotic literature and other discussion on sex. I would think it natural that such a group of people would find such an act a turn-on.

It's like asking if we like sex. Of course we do! There will be some exceptions (gay men who are turned off by the female form or incredibly chaste heterosexual women here who find touching themselves out of the question), but for the most part these responses are skewed.

But hey - if it floats your boat, why sink it? Keep 'em goin'!

 

[DDebby]

A woman masterbating is the most natural and beautiful thing in the world. So you are definately NOT weird. It is absolutely a turn on, and if your husband doesnt see it that way, maybe you need to look at his sexual orientation.

 

[lovetoread]

Re: No matter how you slice it...

p.s. Hello to everyone as this is one of my first few posts.

Hello to you,have fun here.

 

[LittleIndianGrl]

We've been married only a couple of years, but we've been a couple for many... maybe we've just gotten boring! He's turning into a person who is not comfortable with his own body, and I don't know how to stop it. He won't touch himself in front of me ever. So mutual masturbation is out. We used to do it together very early in our sexual relationship, but he's cganged as he's gotten older.

 

[Vinny]

Masterbating in Texas

It must be something in the water here LOL. I masterbate nearly everyday as well. I hate doing it alone but the feeling when my cock pulsates in my hand is awesome. Little you are perfectly normal and I also enjoy watching a woman masterbate. It is a big turn on for me.