Does it make a difference ?

[SilverVeil]

I was just wondering if it makes a difference in how you post if your S/O also joins up ?

Would you not answer certain threads ? If you flirt, would you stop ? Would you still post pics of yourself ?

Would you make a secret alter-ego to post some things under ?


I have been posting since Nov and although he has read almost all of my posts, my boyfriend has finally decided to speak up and be seen here. I am wondering how it will affect me

 

[SexySlut2]

Depends, is he jealous? Will it cause problems if you do these things?
Personally, I think you should always be yourself, you shouldn't change just because your S/O is here.

 

[naudiz]

If my SO started posting? I'd probably post more often and hold back less because he just encourages my bad behavior.

 

[Guest]

 

[SilverVeil]

Depends, is he jealous? Will it cause problems if you do these things?
Personally, I think you should always be yourself, you shouldn't change just because your S/O is here.

LOL like I said ... he has been reading almost everything I have posted so I have not held back. I am looking forward to reading his posts.

 

[Guest]

Yes, it does make a difference as to the way I post. I don't put pictures of myself up, I don't flirt in situations that tempt me a bit (even though it would, of course, only be in fun), and I don't always post on threads that are more overtly personal. I respect his wishes, and I choose not to act these ways because I know it makes him happier and more comfortable -- and a happier, more comfortable him means a happier and more comfortable me. Sometimes I wish I hadn't told him about the board, but I spend so much time here it would be impossible for him not to know what I was doing.

 

[CarolineOh]

My boyfriend used to peek in once in a while. He got jealous that I was posting pics of men I found on the net, so I put his pic in the thread too, and he was happy. Since then he says he hasn't looked in, and I don't worry about him checking up on me, we just don't have that kind of relationship.

 

[Jewelz]

my hubby has read stuff i have posted here, he has heard about my cyber experiences etc....i would definately continue to be myself. He knows me and how wicked I really am *muahahahahaaha* and we have posted pics of us together

 

[sabbathstorm]

My partner and I share this login so he sees everything I post. I have nothing to hide from him so it's no big deal. He'll read the thread updates and get ideas He knows I flirt a little but he also knows where I draw the line.

I don't see the need for an alter ego because things are open. Doing something like that can only lead to problems in the end, especially if you left yourself cookied in and he found the login.