Does Authenticity Matter Here?

[subdudeme13]

Hey! That was my offering... hands off!

I thought it was AI! Sorry!

 

[mickyp123]

Just be yourself otherwise people just get to know the person you are not. There is no point in that really.

 

[Lazaran]

It’s the same across most social media, but especially here, it can be very very performative. This conversation here might seem “performative” to some

As for the comments you mentioned (likely the ones under women’s pictures)… I don’t think those are always genuine either and it’s often pretty obvious when it’s surface-level ESPECIALLY those that are repeated over and over again.

For me, I don’t just post images… I share parts of my life, I write, I post audios I share my opinions… And there are a handful of people here who engage with me, not just what I look like. That’s the kind of authenticity I value!! And I know others do too.

I’m not expecting people to be identical to their offline selves since that wouldn’t be realistic whatsoever, but I do question what happens when the “real person underneath” stops mattering at all… which is why I asked the question in the first place. Does authenticity matter?

Because the wider issue here is people using images that don’t belong to them to gain attention, affection, or praise. And what I’ve realised from here is that a lot of people genuinely don’t seem to care… or expect them to be lying anyway…

As someone who is posting my own images, that does have an impact. It makes authenticity feel interchangeable. It raises the question of what is actually being valued?

What’s the point in putting yourself out there, insecurities included, if who you are doesn’t matter?

At that point, it stops being about the people here that come to escape reality, share images, share their stories and talk about kinks etc…

It literally becomes another site for content farming.

See, that ^ is what I like about authentic individuals: Their thoughts and words are…legitimate / meaningful / thoughtful.

Filet mignon as opposed to spam.

SpicyBean99 is definitely filet mignon.

A cut above….

 

[SpicyBean99]

On here it doesn't matter much, because vast majority here aren't looking for marriage. Authenticity and morals matter, when you're for someone to share your life with, not when you're just looking to bust a nut. It's unfortunate, but generally true

For you it might not matter.

If people genuinely don’t care about authenticity and are just here for a quick ‘outcome’, then… why has anyone replied here?

This isn’t just a scrolling site with images and videos out in the open, everything is hidden behind links. There are threads, conversations, stories, personalities, inside jokes… people follow each other, reply to each other, build familiarity over time spent engaging with each other. Even this conversation right now… I doubt anyone is getting anything out of it in that sense, yet people are still engaging. Because it’s interesting, and people here aren’t just looking to bust a nut.

So clearly, there’s more going on here than just that.

And that’s where my point comes in because for some people, it really DOES matter that there’s a real person behind an account sharing pictures, experiences and stories. Not in a “marriage” sense, or even in the “dating” sense…. but in a very basic, human interaction sense??

It’s important to some that what you’re responding to is actually ‘someone’ not Jerry stealing images from behind paywalled sites like OF and sharing them here.

And as you will read here there have been people who have met up with other litsters irl and had a great fucking time).

Us women that share ourselves here aren’t just content my dude. We’re real people… 20% of the time and I’d like to point out that you can have really fun online relationships with us if you treat us like women, and not just content!

 

[EyesOnHers]

For you it might not matter.

If people genuinely don’t care about authenticity and are just here for a quick ‘outcome’, then… why has anyone replied here?

This isn’t just a scrolling site with images and videos out in the open, everything is hidden behind links. There are threads, conversations, stories, personalities, inside jokes… people follow each other, reply to each other, build familiarity over time spent engaging with each other. Even this conversation right now… I doubt anyone is getting anything out of it in that sense, yet people are still engaging. Because it’s interesting, and people here aren’t just looking to bust a nut.

So clearly, there’s more going on here than just that.

And that’s where my point comes in because for some people, it really DOES matter that there’s a real person behind an account sharing pictures, experiences and stories. Not in a “marriage” sense, or even in the “dating” sense…. but in a very basic, human interaction sense??

It’s important to some that what you’re responding to is actually ‘someone’ not Jerry stealing images from behind paywalled sites like OF and sharing them here.

And as you will read here there have been people who have met up with other litsters irl and had a great fucking time).

Us women that share ourselves here aren’t just content my dude. We’re real people… 20% of the time and I’d like to point out that you can have really fun online relationships with us if you treat us like women, and not just content!

I know everyone has their own reasons for being on Lit.
But this comment summed up my reasons very eloquently.

*Offers some brie in return*

 

[EvaLane]

You’ve all been catfished so many times that you genuinely start believing real women should put on this phoney wet-to-go persona that the men (who’ve never even watched a romcom) have trained you to expect.

Sure, whatever, fine, I’m sure there are a few women here who literally cannot contain their fire hydrant pussies when you sext them some cliché bullshit, but most likely no, real women aren’t like that. It takes effort.

If you’re not into that effort, go fuck a man!

edit: haha this is not the catfish thread but I’ll leave it because real women will never live up to the false narrative male catfishes have thrust upon us! #keepmenoutofwomensonlinewhoring

 

[deft]

*Offers some brie in return*

Oh, God… hot women sharing brie again…

 

[SpicyBean99]

I know everyone has their own reasons for being on Lit.
But this comment summed up my reasons very eloquently.

*Offers some brie in return*

Now we have two Brie’s I believe all we’re missing is… all the other cheese + wine and maybe some tasty crackers?

 

[EyesOnHers]

Now we have two Brie’s I believe all we’re missing is… all the other cheese + wine and maybe some tasty crackers?

Tescos have just delivered so also have port salut, boursin, mature cheddar, crackers and Prosecco.

If I look I'm sure I've got an open jar of silverskin pickled onions somewhere in the cupboard

 

[SpicyBean99]

You’ve all been catfished so many times that you genuinely start believing real women should put on this phoney wet-to-go persona that the men (who’ve never even watched a romcom) have trained you to expect.

Sure, whatever, fine, I’m sure there are a few women here who literally cannot contain their fire hydrant pussies when you sext them some cliché bullshit, but most likely no, real women aren’t like that. It takes effort.

If you’re not into that effort, go fuck a man!
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Effort? In this economy?

No, no no. We (women) must always be readily available, legs spread and of course wet with absolutely no need for foreplay or other. (God forbid).

When it comes to communicating with the opposite sex we must make their job as easy as possible. Let them know how wet, (as before mentioned) wide and ready we are, and how the only thing on our mind has been their pulsating, huge and thick… then, we may proceed and send them a handful of pictures. (Oh and whether or not they belong to us doesn’t matter because I’m sure they’ll lap it all up anyway. )

(Not all men, of course.)

 

[SpicyBean99]

Tescos have just delivered so also have port salut, boursin, mature cheddar, crackers and Prosecco.

If I look I'm sure I've got an open jar of silverskin pickled onions somewhere in the cupboard

Fuck, I go feral for a silverskin pickled onion.

I’m even happier to find out you’re from the UK! (It’s almost picky bits weather and now I’m dreaming of pork pies and sausage rolls in the sun…)

 

[EvaLane]

Let them know how wet, (as before mentioned) wide and ready we are

My sexting game is lacking, I’ve never even considered mentioning how wide I am to accommodate their much-too-big cocks! Dumb whore, dumb whore, dumb whore!!!

Me, not you.

Unless…

 

[Cogan]

Tescos have just delivered so also have port salut, boursin, mature cheddar, crackers and Prosecco.

If I look I'm sure I've got an open jar of silverskin pickled onions somewhere in the cupboard

I'll bring the wine!!

https://media.tenor.com/GnFNT-_22qcAAAAM/on-my-way-forrest-gump.gif

 

[Jaws82]

Fuck, I go feral for a silverskin pickled onion.

I’m even happier to find out you’re from the UK! (It’s almost picky bits weather and now I’m dreaming of pork pies and sausage rolls in the sun…)

Ok we’ll have a picnic

You’ve convinced me

 

[Cogan]

Effort? In this economy?

No, no no. We (women) must always be readily available, legs spread and of course wet with absolutely no need for foreplay or other. (God forbid).

When it comes to communicating with the opposite sex we must make their job as easy as possible. Let them know how wet, (as before mentioned) wide and ready we are, and how the only thing on our mind has been their pulsating, huge and thick… then, we may proceed and send them a handful of pictures. (Oh and whether or not they belong to us doesn’t matter because I’m sure they’ll lap it all up anyway. )

(Not all men, of course.)

Have we met before?

 

[Hornymwtxn]

You’ve all been catfished so many times that you genuinely start believing real women should put on this phoney wet-to-go persona that the men (who’ve never even watched a romcom) have trained you to expect.

Sure, whatever, fine, I’m sure there are a few women here who literally cannot contain their fire hydrant pussies when you sext them some cliché bullshit, but most likely no, real women aren’t like that. It takes effort.

If you’re not into that effort, go fuck a man!
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edit: haha this is not the catfish thread but I’ll leave it because real women will never live up to the false narrative male catfishes have thrust upon us! #keepmenoutofwomensonlinewhoring

Hu hu hu you said "thrust"

 

[Hornymwtxn]

Effort? In this economy?

No, no no. We (women) must always be readily available, legs spread and of course wet with absolutely no need for foreplay or other. (God forbid).

When it comes to communicating with the opposite sex we must make their job as easy as possible. Let them know how wet, (as before mentioned) wide and ready we are, and how the only thing on our mind has been their pulsating, huge and thick… then, we may proceed and send them a handful of pictures. (Oh and whether or not they belong to us doesn’t matter because I’m sure they’ll lap it all up anyway. )

(Not all men, of course.)

Pulsing, huge, thick well obviously I haven't sent you a dick pic lol

 

[subdudeme13]

I object!

 

[mickyp123]

Hate to be a Dinosaur but another factor here is years ago there were no HaHa or Like buttons so if you came across anything that piqued your interest you would be more likely to respond which would encourage communication, as convenient as they are, like buttons are not the best thing.

 

[jonnoback]

Tescos have just delivered so also have port salut, boursin, mature cheddar, crackers and Prosecco.

If I look I'm sure I've got an open jar of silverskin pickled onions somewhere in the cupboard

Yep. Had a fab cheese board and stuff last night.

I’m in for wherever there’s another

 

[jonnoback]

Fuck, I go feral for a silverskin pickled onion.

I’m even happier to find out you’re from the UK! (It’s almost picky bits weather and now I’m dreaming of pork pies and sausage rolls in the sun…)

Picky bits yes please!

 

[Dribble]

Hate to be a Dinosaur but another factor here is years ago there were no HaHa or Like buttons so if you came across anything that piqued your interest you would be more likely to respond which would encourage communication, as convenient as they are, like buttons are not the best thing.

This is actually a good point. Only time I use them is when I don’t know you and you said something I related to...or agree with....or see how you could see it that way....and I want you to know I read the post. I rarely bother with a PM any more...unless it is me opening a door to someone that is struggling with life...again wanting them to know I see them....cause feeling alone fucking sucks

 

[mickyp123]

This is actually a good point. Only time I use them is when I don’t know you and you said something I related to...or agree with....or see how you could see it that way....and I want you to know I read the post. I rarely bother with a PM any more...unless it is me opening a door to someone that is struggling with life...again wanting them to know I see them....cause feeling alone fucking sucks

Used to love that when you got an email saying You have a new Private message from……‘it’s DM now lol

 

[ShaneoD]

My sexting game is lacking, I’ve never even considered mentioning how wide I am to accommodate their much-too-big cocks! Dumb whore, dumb whore, dumb whore!!!

Me, not you.

Unless…

If anyone needs me I'll be hurting myself imagining what those last four words could lead to

 

[rick_j21]

For you it might not matter.

If people genuinely don’t care about authenticity and are just here for a quick ‘outcome’, then… why has anyone replied here?

This isn’t just a scrolling site with images and videos out in the open, everything is hidden behind links. There are threads, conversations, stories, personalities, inside jokes… people follow each other, reply to each other, build familiarity over time spent engaging with each other. Even this conversation right now… I doubt anyone is getting anything out of it in that sense, yet people are still engaging. Because it’s interesting, and people here aren’t just looking to bust a nut.

So clearly, there’s more going on here than just that.

And that’s where my point comes in because for some people, it really DOES matter that there’s a real person behind an account sharing pictures, experiences and stories. Not in a “marriage” sense, or even in the “dating” sense…. but in a very basic, human interaction sense??

It’s important to some that what you’re responding to is actually ‘someone’ not Jerry stealing images from behind paywalled sites like OF and sharing them here.

And as you will read here there have been people who have met up with other litsters irl and had a great fucking time).

Us women that share ourselves here aren’t just content my dude. We’re real people… 20% of the time and I’d like to point out that you can have really fun online relationships with us if you treat us like women, and not just content!

This is so well put. You get into things what you put into them. If you aren’t authentic then you shouldn’t expect authenticity back. Some people are here hoping to make real and authentic relationships with other people for a variety of reasons.