Does anyone take these ads seriously?

[Literotti]

I would only like to ask a legitimate question, which is:

Does anyone take these ads seriously, or are they just a way of mentally and physically jerking off?

Note: Replies will be responded to with intelligence and respect for those of you who may or may not take offense at my question; but a non-response will only prove my point. So, whatever...

 

[Evil_Geoff]

Some take them seriously, some do not.

For some it's just a chance to get other people to provide wanking fodder.

For others, like me, the ad itself may be serious, but we don't really expect to get any serious replies. Some of us are of the opinion that very few people on this site are interested in anything beyond cyber/phone/fantasy sex. And the ones that are serious about it aren't trolling personal ads.

*grins and shrugs*

There are lots and lots of people looking for kinky sex. Kiss enough frogs and you'll get warts on your lips.

 

[Yang4yin]

Kiss enough frogs and you'll get warts on your lips.

So that's what those bumps are!

 

[littleone77]

Some take them seriously, some do not.

For some it's just a chance to get other people to provide wanking fodder.

For others, like me, the ad itself may be serious, but we don't really expect to get any serious replies. Some of us are of the opinion that very few people on this site are interested in anything beyond cyber/phone/fantasy sex. And the ones that are serious about it aren't trolling personal ads.

*grins and shrugs*

There are lots and lots of people looking for kinky sex. Kiss enough frogs and you'll get warts on your lips.

Which lips

 

[reignophelia]

Seriously...

I think this is a case of "like begets like". If there is a serious add posted I'll take it seriously. If someone writes the equivalent of a verbal wank I'll write something sarcastic in response (if the mood so suits me of course).

 

[Auraka6669]

I would only like to ask a legitimate question, which is:

Does anyone take these ads seriously, or are they just a way of mentally and physically jerking off?

Note: Replies will be responded to with intelligence and respect for those of you who may or may not take offense at my question; but a non-response will only prove my point. So, whatever...

No we don't take ads seriously or like to follow any rules... like posting discussion threads in the personals section...

Now that would just be silly wouldn't it. Jesus, everyone here MUST be here just for beating off!

(PS. Yes I'm just one day over 18 like everyone else on these boards.)

 

[Pseudonomic]

No we don't take ads seriously or like to follow any rules... like posting discussion threads in the personals section...

Now that would just be silly wouldn't it. Jesus, everyone here MUST be here just for beating off!

(PS. Yes I'm just one day over 18 like everyone else on these boards.)

You mean people are here for mentally stimulating conversation and the occasional quiet latte in an ambient atmosphere? /scoff

 

[FluteMaster]

I would only like to ask a legitimate question, which is:

Does anyone take these ads seriously, or are they just a way of mentally and physically jerking off?

Note: Replies will be responded to with intelligence and respect for those of you who may or may not take offense at my question; but a non-response will only prove my point. So, whatever...

There are some who do post serious ads, and take the responses seriously. There are those who are jerk offs who are doing it for no other reason than their own selfish desires. And there are the bulk who are just having a good time and posting to see what happens.

Like the rest of life...there are those who are honest, and those who prefer to hide behind playing games.

And by the way...I fail to see how a non response can prove anything...except that you didn't get a response; unless you are just looking for reasons to confirm a prejudice.

 

[Pseudonomic]

Like Flute said, you can't generalize and say everyone is here for the same reasons. I personally just love meeting new people and reading the stories so that's why I'm here. Some people might be lecherous old fools, and some might be innocent naive virgins (we can all wish).

 

[Auraka6669]

You mean people are here for mentally stimulating conversation and the occasional quiet latte in an ambient atmosphere? /scoff

I did not insinuate that at all!

Stop with your witty remarks... your interrupting my masturbation.

 

[Pseudonomic]

Sorry, didn't mean to break your rhythm. That was rude of me, I'll go hide in my closet now with all my toys. /puts up Do Not Disturb sign

 

[justwantmore]

I would only like to ask a legitimate question, which is:

Does anyone take these ads seriously, or are they just a way of mentally and physically jerking off?

Note: Replies will be responded to with intelligence and respect for those of you who may or may not take offense at my question; but a non-response will only prove my point. So, whatever...

I received a pm from someone and I can honestly tell you that given the right circumstances, I would try to accomodate this person as well as relieve a fantasy ( or 2, 3 or 4+ ) of mine at the same time.

I think. It's not that I'm not for real. It's partially fear, as well as potential issues which I'm sure has effected all mwm's at one time or another.

But is IS a fantasy and since this place is here, I can assure you that MY ad is for real. Now whether or not it happens, or that someone else here is for real and experienced enough to guide me thru it, we'll see.

 

[piacasso_moon02]

I would only like to ask a legitimate question, which is:

Does anyone take these ads seriously, or are they just a way of mentally and physically jerking off?

Note: Replies will be responded to with intelligence and respect for those of you who may or may not take offense at my question; but a non-response will only prove my point. So, whatever...

Is it your state of mind and what you are looking for, that is the question you much ask of yourself. At what part of your journey are you

I wish you well

 

[BedtimeStories77]

(Thread moved because it is not a personal ad, but was posted in a BDSM community.)

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Hmmm... this gives me an idea. When I've got a little time, I think I'll create a couple of alts - one male, one female - and post personals in the BDSM Personals section. Within a day or two, maybe I'll finally have something to contribute to the Asshat PMs/E-mails thread, instead of just reading it and being jealous of all of y'all who've gotten such great stuff!

 

[JupitersGirl]

Hmmm... this gives me an idea. When I've got a little time, I think I'll create a couple of alts - one male, one female - and post personals in the BDSM Personals section. Within a day or two, maybe I'll finally have something to contribute to the Asshat PMs/E-mails thread, instead of just reading it and being jealous of all of y'all who've gotten such great stuff!

I was one of the first to respond to a post in that forum and it ended in a relationship that helped form my bdsm life. There are many people who take it seriously and there are those who don't. You just have to learn to tell the difference.

 

[Evil_Geoff]

So far I've had all of ZERO asshat's to my personal ad... except for the bi-sexual lesbian that botted everyone I think...

 

[intothewoods]

So far I've had all of ZERO asshat's to my personal ad... except for the bi-sexual lesbian that botted everyone I think...

Bisexual lesbian?

 

[Life_Noir]

For others, like me, the ad itself may be serious, but we don't really expect to get any serious replies. Some of us are of the opinion that very few people on this site are interested in anything beyond cyber/phone/fantasy sex. And the ones that are serious about it aren't trolling personal ads.

Pretty much ditto for me... WHich is why I don't have an add on here...
*sigh*
While I periodicly contemplate the idea.... Well.......... *shrug* Too much listening to others PM horror stories... Combined with my own bad experiences.. I'm in no hurry..

 

[justwantmore]

Actually I received another email last night and the fellow has quite a nice cock. I hope we proceed further and I get a chance to see if indeed I can be made to serve

 

[FurryFury]

My own ad and a few others, yes, I take them very seriously.

The majority? No.

It's pretty easy to tell the BS from the real seekers.

 

[AndrewKay]

Real responses

Yeah I got some real responses with a serious ad. That doesn't mean everything will work out to where there will be something meaningful long-term with every serious response. It all depends on if interests, and circumstances align properly.

 

[Krinaia]

There are lots and lots of people looking for kinky sex. Kiss enough frogs and you'll get warts on your lips.

someone please squegee this image from my brain.

does anyone pay attention to the "places to look" sticky i got started there so very long ago? maybe it's time to update it.