Do you talk about the sex you just had?

[bbwAlexa]

Six years of monogamy. Always have had plenty of sex. (Well, I'd like more but thats a topic for a new day.) Anyway, since we had our second child sex is usually middle of the night variety.
So we have night sex. Then fall asleep no talking. Next day hubby can't wait to rehash it. He has always had to reference it even like 15 hours later. I find this hilarious. Admittedly our usual vanilla sex has a tinge more spice to it did to a variety of reasons. But still. Is this weird? Do other people talk about it?

Just curious.

 

[Taliane]

My boyfriend always asks me if it was good after we had sex. And if I say it was okay then he wants to know what was wrong

 

[FGB]

Sure.

Did.

Going to.

Want to.

 

[Jada59]

Not always but sometimes. Just turns me on to talk about it.

 

[KimGordon67]

Lots of debriefing ... but we were in full 'exploration' through most of our relationship, so it was good to do a 'what worked for you?' discussion.

Husband (prior relationship) hated talking about sex. Drove me mad.

 

[lucky_guy_49]

I talk about it if we pushed a new boundary or revisited an old favorite but infrequently used technique. Mrs talks about it if it was particularly good for her. She talked about this afternoon for hours!

 

[HampshireBoy]

Not always but sometimes. Just turns me on to talk about it.

Likewise. We talk more if we've tried something new, something was particularly good or didn't work. For instance we've been talking quite alot about swimming pool sex, positions to try etc, as something new for us.

 

[Gelista]

Not every time, but often my wife will talk about the strength of her orgasm

 

[SissySalina]

Most of the time, but usually a while later not just right after. Always when sissy has had sex with someone else, She sometimes relates Her extra sex but can tell by Her smirk.

 

[Cindy69love]

We always talk about it!!

 

[OneAuthor]

Absolutely

My wife and I almost always talk about it afterward.

If it went REALLY well, there isn't too much to say...except "Wow, can we do that again?"

But there are times when we tell each other what we could do to make it better. And I really like that, because I definitely want to make the experience as awesome for her as possible.

 

[curiouschattycouple]

Sometimes that aftertalk initiates the next round

 

[Dreamer110]

Sometimes that aftertalk initiates the next round

Definitely. Especially the next morning. Right back to bed. Or wherever.

 

[OldFred65]

My wife and I always talk about the sex we just had. We compare notes so we know if we want to switch partners and go at it again.

 

[Asian_Flower]

Yes, either several hours later or the next day. Usually in a feeble attempt by one of us to get more. It rarely fails!

 

[mjolnir_1]

Sure you talk about it, learn, laugh, and enjoy the company of the other.

I'm one for paying attention to details and don't like to waste my time on things that aren't enjoyed. I like to listen and other non verbal cues.

 

[Snowbunnie12]

We will always chat about it, it necessary immediately afterwards but if was incredibly good and we both know it we may say what we liked about it so much

 

[SubtleFriction]

My wife and I are getting back into having frequent sex after a long stretch of not, so we've been comparing notes after:

"This thing I did ... it seemed like you really liked it ... ?"

"It was good ... but even better was when you did it deeper and more to the side... ."

 

[doowdniw]

We spend more time talking about what we're going to do, rather than what we just did.

 

[anniebaby10]

First time I had sex with my husband he went down on me before intercourse and he was so damn good at it. Slow, covered my inner and outer lips, tongue fucked my pussy, made my clit tingle.... all kinds of things I never felt before. I came so damn hard I could hardly move. Once I could speak I just looked at him and said "that was a ten... can we do that again?" And ever since, I tell him all the things I like and he does the same for me. And our sex keeps getting better

 

[GD88]

Not really. We just sort of "clean up" and then cuddle in bed next to each other watching youtube on our smartphones.

If we wanted something new, we normally have the talk as the sex is happening rather than after sex.

 

[Satinfan162]

Before, During, and After

Talking about past sex is the best part of foreplay.

Sometimes after intercourse we look at our fitbits afterwards and discuss heartrate.
I always expend more energy even if she is riding me.

If my wife uses her fitbit hand for a hand job it logs steps and we laugh. I told her, "I don't think my cock can make it a half mile without lube."

Last night we were exploring 1983 adventures. Thank you to HBO's The Duece for making us reminisce.

My interrogation met zero resistance, hopefully I can continue this line of questioning all day today. We have a long car trip planned.

 

[Crownvic]

My wife and I almost always talk about it afterward.

If it went REALLY well, there isn't too much to say...except "Wow, can we do that again?"

But there are times when we tell each other what we could do to make it better. And I really like that, because I definitely want to make the experience as awesome for her as possible.

I love to savor it after...hold her and kiss her....and tell her how much I enjoy her...

 

[amofiga]

Most of my "talking about it" has been with women other than my wife who seem to be able to talk about it with enjoyment or excitement or just casually. Talk with my wife usually ends up badly so we don't talk. It's not that the sex is bad, she just doesn't like to talk about it. For her I suppose, sex is something you DO and not something you TALK about. Whatever. I stopped trying to go there.

 

[suckonsimon]

Yep 41 years of active sex life in marriage and more often than not some talk about it afterwards, whether immediately or next morning. Some sessions still talked about years later! How many times did talking about it lead to another romp? Totally lost count!