do you take cybering seriously...

[Jason_2006]

or is it just quick fun. thoughts anyone?

 

[Kain__Thornn]

Quick fun, no harm no foul

 

[Jason_2006]

thats what i thought. is it the same if its with someone that you met that you care about?

 

[pink]

It depends on each individual person. With some it's just for fun, a way to express your sexuality. With others, your heart might be involved.

 

[Jason_2006]

It depends on each individual person. With some it's just for fun, a way to express your sexuality. With others, your heart might be involved.

yeah, thats what i thought. it was just a friend of mine said i was crazy for putting emotion into it.lol

 

[poppy1963]

yeah, thats what i thought. it was just a friend of mine said i was crazy for putting emotion into it.lol

Well it does seem kinda crazy doesn't it? But some people have found real life significant others or spouses from online contacts...can't speak to how much of it was cybering.

That's a good question...I wonder how much cybering was involved in those relationships prior to it getting really serious?

 

[Diamond_Girl]

For me, it used to be all fun. I'd chat in a chat room and cyber with 6 guys a day, easily. Now, I don't bother if there isn't at least the potention for some emotional involvement. For my current online lover, as well as my last one, cybering/phone sex probably only accounts for about 10% of our time together. There's way too much learning about each other to do. However, because of that 90%, the 10% is phenomenal!!!

 

[Jason_2006]

For me, it used to be all fun. I'd chat in a chat room and cyber with 6 guys a day, easily. Now, I don't bother if there isn't at least the potention for some emotional involvement. For my current online lover, as well as my last one, cybering/phone sex probably only accounts for about 10% of our time together. There's way too much learning about each other to do. However, because of that 90%, the 10% is phenomenal!!!

Bravo. you pretty much expressed how i feel on it.