Do you remember ...

[impressive]

... your very first orgasm? Solo? With a partner?

I was talking about this with a friend earlier this morning. I was 10 years old. I and my best friend & next door neighbor (same age & gender) used to masturbate together -- racing to see who could finish first. To the best of my recollection, there was never anything between us in terms of desiring one another. While we watched each other, we never touched. It was more of an exercise in auto-erotic enjoyment than any sort of mutual endeavor.

It was several years later when I first experienced lust for another person (and the resulting first non-solo orgasm from his tongue).

Do tell your stories!

 

[ABSTRUSE]

I don't remember what I did two hours ago.

 

[Op_Cit]

I don't remember what I did two hours ago.

Ah, good. Then you wont mind if I post the photos...

 

[ABSTRUSE]

Ah, good. Then you wont mind if I post the photos...

Hell no, just don't show the ones in the sheep costume, my ass looks fat in wool.

Sorry Imp.

 

[Op_Cit]

Hell no, just don't show the ones in the sheep costume, my ass looks fat in wool.

Sorry Imp.

Sorry, by way of apology:

I do remember it but nothing to tell: by myself, maybe 12, and I was still pretty ignorant about it all up until then, but the lightbulb of understanding that whole birds & bees thing finally went off when I saw the results.

As for ABS: You can't remember the anaconda that wouldn't fit in frame, but the sheep costume comes back?

 

[matriarch]

... your very first orgasm? Solo? With a partner?

I was talking about this with a friend earlier this morning. I was 10 years old. I and my best friend & next door neighbor (same age & gender) used to masturbate together -- racing to see who could finish first. To the best of my recollection, there was never anything between us in terms of desiring one another. While we watched each other, we never touched. It was more of an exercise in auto-erotic enjoyment than any sort of mutual endeavor.

It was several years later when I first experienced lust for another person (and the resulting first non-solo orgasm from his tongue).

Do tell your stories!

10 !!!!!!!!!!!!???????????????????
Bloody hell !!!!!

 

[impressive]

10 !!!!!!!!!!!!???????????????????
Bloody hell !!!!!

I was a precocious child.

 

[rgraham666]

Nope. That's close to forty years ago now. It's kinda lost in the mists of time now.

 

[Goldie Munro]

'Do you remember the first time?
I remember the last time...'

Sorry just reminded me of the Pulp song!!

 

[lucky-E-leven]

Yep. I remember it. Scared the hell out of me.

I was alone, got carried away, came, passed out, woke up thinking I'd peed myself.



~lucky

 

[OhMissScarlett]

I was nineteen and it was during oral sex with a guy. I never masturbated for whatever reason, even though I knew how and I had no idea how to have an orgasm until then. He used just the right amount of pressure and speed and it was a revelation for me.

Later, an older female friend taught me all about the joys of masturbation and sex toys and I'm forever grateful to her.

 

[impressive]

Yep. I remember it. Scared the hell out of me.

I was alone, got carried away, came, passed out, woke up thinking I'd peed myself.



~lucky

So -- did you do it again soon?

 

[lucky-E-leven]

So -- did you do it again soon?

Of course. I'm a perfectionist.

Maybe it's just me, but I make distinctions between orgasm firsts. First with fingers was far different from first with partner orally or first with vibrator, etc...

 

[sophia jane]

I don't remember my first solo, tho I was probably around 10 too. I do remember my first with another person. I was 17 and it was my first time with a woman, as well as my first time to receive oral. Shocked the hell out of me that I finally came with another person!

SJ

 

[impressive]

Later, an older female friend taught me all about the joys of masturbation and sex toys and I'm forever grateful to her.

And you thanked her, how?

 

[impressive]

Shocked the hell out of me that I finally came with another person!

SJ

I had that feeling with one guy I dated in college! I didn't think he could POSSIBLY get me off -- EVER.

 

[OhMissScarlett]

And you thanked her, how?

Hallmark didn't have a card, so I had to give her oral.

 

[lil_elvis]

Eighth grade, so must have been around 14. With this "older" girl of 16 who was babysitting my aunt's kids. Totally clueless as to what was happening, kinda scared. She was rubbing me off in my jeans, felt good until I came, then. "oh my god, what's happening to me?" What a mess and embarassed as hell with my now sloppy jeans.

But in the end, I decided that it felt pretty damned good. I didn't cum (with a partner, that is,) for another 2 years.

 

[LadyJeanne]

Late bloomer here...first was when I was 19 or so, with the shower attachment in the bath. Never could figure out how things worked before then, though I'd tried.

With a person...my second 'real' boyfriend in college, but I gave it to myself. Show, not tell; I thought that might help him figure out how to do it.

 

[impressive]

Hallmark didn't have a card, so I had to give her oral.

Remind me to send you a birthday present.

 

[impressive]

Show, not tell; I thought that might help him figure out how to do it.

And, did it?

 

[OhMissScarlett]

Remind me to send you a birthday present.

Oh, it's on Thursday, I can't wait!

 

[Goldie Munro]

To be honest I don't remember my first solo orgasm - I used to masterbate as a child even before I knew what it was!

My first orgasm with a partner was with a one night stand and he made me orgasm with his tongue - it was a bit of a shock because it was so different to my solo affairs!

 

[impressive]

Oh, it's on Thursday, I can't wait!

If you send me a Hallmark 'Thank You' card, I'm going to be crushed.

 

[LadyJeanne]

And, did it?

Well, he tried. I'll give him snaps for trying and trying and trying. We were together six years, so he eventually got the hang of it.