Do you REALLY enjoy Doggie style?

[wellnow]

For some time I have noticed that doggy style seems to be quite popular with the ladies who answered the recent Sex Survey. Would some of you ladies please help me understand the advantages:

• What makes it special for you? psychologically and/or physically.

• Do you prefer it with or without clitoral stimulation by either you or your partner?

• Do you prefer to do the stimulation or that your partner do it?

• Are their exceptions or preferences for very large or very small penis?

Please share any other comments that you might have.

Thanks

 

[NomadLady]

What makes it special for you? psychologically and/or physically.
I think this was a matter of "conditioning" with me since I was married/with my ex for 16 years who wasn't well endowed. After getting into more of the BDSM world though it's more of a position of submissiveness as well.

Do you prefer it with or without clitoral stimulation by either you or your partner?
With or without is fine with me, depending on how hot the intercourse is whether it's really necessary.

Do you prefer to do the stimulation or that your partner do it?
If it's needed I prefer my partner to do it.

Are their exceptions or preferences for very large or very small penis?
That's the good thing about this position....size doesn't matter so much.

 

[YourPlaydoll]

• What makes it special for you? psychologically and/or physically.

IDK, the angle is good I guess And it's also a turn on to know your guy is turned on by such position (because of the view I guess )

• Do you prefer it with or without clitoral stimulation by either you or your partner?

With.

• Do you prefer to do the stimulation or that your partner do it?

By my BF.

• Are their exceptions or preferences for very large or very small penis?

Well, if a penis is small, doggy is one of the best positions cause the guy can get it all in. If the guy has the big one, it's great if he's not too rough (unless that's what you wnat ).

 

[sunandshadow]

Can't be arsed to fill out the survey properly, sorry, but for me I learned how to masturbate laying on my stomach and did it that way for the first several years, with the result that trying to have sex in the missionary position was really distracting at first because I felt upside-down. Also with doggy I'm free to close my eyes and focus on how it feels and my imagination, while with missionary you're expected to maintain eye contact with your partner and it's difficult to imagine the situation to be anything but exactly what's in front of your eyes.

 

[satindesire]

Can't be arsed to fill out the survey properly, sorry, but for me I learned how to masturbate laying on my stomach and did it that way for the first several years, with the result that trying to have sex in the missionary position was really distracting at first because I felt upside-down. Also with doggy I'm free to close my eyes and focus on how it feels and my imagination, while with missionary you're expected to maintain eye contact with your partner and it's difficult to imagine the situation to be anything but exactly what's in front of your eyes.

Uh, who 'expects' you to maintain eye contact through the whole time?! That'd just be creepy.

 

[PertPerth]

• What makes it special for you? psychologically and/or physically.

I find it such a turn on when he holds my hands behind my back, or pulls on my hair, or holds my waist or shoulders really tightly....it's all good! It definitely makes me feel more submissive which I need at times with my current boyfriend.

• Do you prefer it with or without clitoral stimulation by either you or your partner?

With or without...depending on my mood

• Do you prefer to do the stimulation or that your partner do it?

Usually I have to do it myself.

• Are their exceptions or preferences for very large or very small penis?

I'm a small lady, so the smaller the better IMHO.

 

[goddessoflove]

Because it is just a much better position then missionary. Deeper thrusts into my wet pussy, able to spank my ass or hold hips, maybe pull my hair hard. I can have eye contact with foreplay as we kiss etc. Doggie for me.

 

[sfcurly]

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[goddessoflove]

Physcologically it is better because you feel as if you don't have any control over the situation. At all.

Clitoral stimulation is always better when it is done by someone else

Any size really is amazing because they can go deeper, harder faster, so you don't even notice if they are smaller

Yes the deeper, harder, faster plus access for a good spanking. Also I love when my breasts bounce against each other as the thrusts get faster and harder as the cock get's realy to release hot cum.

 

[simplegirl]

I find there's something very primal about the position. He can be gentle, caressing my breasts or clit or even my back; or he can be rough, holding onto my hips tightly, probing my anus, grabbing a fistful of hair. It's all good.

 

[sunandshadow]

Uh, who 'expects' you to maintain eye contact through the whole time?! That'd just be creepy.

Not the whole time, but it's romantic to gaze deep into each others' eyes occasionally throughout lovemaking. It would be creepy to never make eye contact with a person when you're supposedly trying to please each other.

 

[goddessoflove]

Not the whole time, but it's romantic to gaze deep into each others' eyes occasionally throughout lovemaking. It would be creepy to never make eye contact with a person when you're supposedly trying to please each other.

That's why a mirror is a very handy thing. Romantic gaze I would call a look of lust. Romatic gazes are for a candle lit daughter.

 

[satindesire]

Not the whole time, but it's romantic to gaze deep into each others' eyes occasionally throughout lovemaking. It would be creepy to never make eye contact with a person when you're supposedly trying to please each other.

I never implied that you should NEVER make eye contact. I just thought it was pretty odd that you said YOU were EXPECTED to MAINTAIN eye contact. That's...I mean. I dunno, that would make me laugh, not make me hot. And I'd probably never sleep with that person again.

 

[Trixabell]

* What makes it special for you? psychologically and/or physically.

Being a submissive makes this position that much more enjoyable for all the reasons listed above - hair pulling, spanking, neck bites and I love the force of his hands on my shoulders.

* Do you prefer it with or without clitoral stimulation by either you or your partner?

With is wonderful and I need it if I am going to cum but this position feels so great that I normally dont care if I cum or not. For me this position hits my g-spot the entire time, the intensity can be mind blowing.

* Do you prefer to do the stimulation or that your partner do it?
I cant do it myself unless its with a toy and having it done by my partner is always preferable.

* Are their exceptions or preferences for very large or very small penis?
Not that I have noticed.

 

[wellnow]

First I want to think all of you for replying.


Wow, you wonderful ladies have taught and helped me understand more about the doggie position than I could ever have imagined possible.

How can I ever thank you enough?

I also want to apologize for not having responded earlier but we were away yesterday.

Have a great week. You are the best.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Also I love when my breasts bounce against each other as the thrusts get faster and harder as the cock get's realy to release hot cum.

I love to watch the swaying of breasts! Of course this is pretty difficult from my position during the interlude, but the mental imagery. Oh the mental imagery!

My partner is a little on the plus size and she likes to have her head and neck down on the bed while we're in this position, so I find the reach around very awkward to do the clitoral stimulation for her. Once in a while she'll stimulate herself, but not often.

 

[NomadLady]

I love to watch the swaying of breasts! Of course this is pretty difficult from my position during the interlude, but the mental imagery. Oh the mental imagery!

My partner is a little on the plus size and she likes to have her head and neck down on the bed while we're in this position, so I find the reach around very awkward to do the clitoral stimulation for her. Once in a while she'll stimulate herself, but not often.

What position would you prefer? being plus sized I'd like to know for future reference if you don't mind....

 

[NippleMuncher]

What position would you prefer? being plus sized I'd like to know for future reference if you don't mind....

How do you mean, for watching the breast sway or clitoral stimuli? The best position for me to watch (and play ) is probably cowgirl. Best for stimulation would be when doing oral.

I love everything about the female form. It's like going to Disneyland, there's so much to see and do. And as long as she gets her cookie, or two, I get a pretty free reign.

 

[NomadLady]

How do you mean, for watching the breast sway or clitoral stimuli? The best position for me to watch (and play ) is probably cowgirl. Best for stimulation would be when doing oral.

I love everything about the female form. It's like going to Disneyland, there's so much to see and do. And as long as she gets her cookie, or two, I get a pretty free reign.

I was actually thinking more specifically about doggy and the male trying for the clitoral stimulation. Don't put your head down on the bed so far...try to stay on hands and knees....etc??????

 

[NippleMuncher]

I was actually thinking more specifically about doggy and the male trying for the clitoral stimulation. Don't put your head down on the bed so far...try to stay on hands and knees....etc??????

Unfortunately, we've never experimented with different from behind positions to find one that works easier for me to stimulate her. She's not very communicative when it comes to such things.

 

[BongoGal]

* What makes it special for you? psychologically and/or physically.
I can't say that it's better or worse than most of the other common positions, but I sure do enjoy it. One aspect that makes it unique is not being able to see the thrust coming (as it were). You can wait, wait, wait...then *wham*.

* Do you prefer it with or without clitoral stimulation by either you or your partner?
I don't necessarily need it, but it isn't unwelcome.

* Do you prefer to do the stimulation or that your partner do it?
If he's good at it, then I prefer him to do it, I guess.

* Are their exceptions or preferences for very large or very small penis?
It's a preferred position if he's very large. I don't have any experience with very small, but I'm guessing that it'd be worth a shot.

 

[gothic_nymph]

What makes it special for you? psychologically and/or physically.
I love this position because he can go as fast and hard as he wants and he can go deeper... And I love hard, fast and deep!!!

Do you prefer it with or without clitoral stimulation by either you or your partner?
With or without is fine with me

Do you prefer to do the stimulation or that your partner do it?
That depends on the mood I guess... Most of the time I do it so he can just concentrate on speed

Are their exceptions or preferences for very large or very small penis?
If he's large.. I prefer him to start off slower..and work up to fast and hard...

 

[KoPilot]

1. I fucken love it because he can do whatever the hell he wants. He can be upright and deliver some good spanks, grab my hip with one hand and push me down with the other for leverage, or lay on top of me and kiss my back. I love everything about it. It makes me feel small and at his mercy n' shit~

2. I can take it or leave it.

3. Him, preferably.

4. Nope!

 

[MsDeanne]

* What makes it special for you? psychologically and/or physically.

Special for me....its makes me feel like I am being taken....and....the thrusts seem harder..can put some force behind it..that and love when my nipples rub against the carpet or bed floor...whatever is there...

hmmm...and imagine he watches his cock slowly in and out at first...making me moan and pussy weep is a turn on..

* Do you prefer it with or without clitoral stimulation by either you or your partner?

hmmm with is good but hands smacking my ass, pulling me back and telling me I am a good dirty little whore that loves being bent over and fucked and gripping me harder are better....

* Do you prefer to do the stimulation or that your partner do it?

that would depend if my hands were free...

* Are their exceptions or preferences for very large or very small penis?

personally...larger....girth....anything over 8 inches in...lol..pushing it...

 

[DawnAngel]

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