Do You Put Up with Somebody's Shit?
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i'll take it once, maybe twice... but after that, i tell them to change the way they're treating me or else... they never ask or else what, and usually dont change their attitude towards me, and i give them the "or else" and either quit talking to them or give them the verbal beating of a lifetime
Dixon Carter Lee
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No.
Shy Tall Guy
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Only if I am paid to, and then only very infrequently. Ask my ex-wife. 
estevie
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Depends on who is giving me shit...if its a friend, I let it slide..I give them shit, so its only fair 
If its some cranky overpaid McDonalds worker or the like, then no. I will stop someone in mid sentence if I don't like the first few words out of their mouth. I don't need to hear the crap so I don't let them even get it out of their mouth.
If its some cranky overpaid McDonalds worker or the like, then no. I will stop someone in mid sentence if I don't like the first few words out of their mouth. I don't need to hear the crap so I don't let them even get it out of their mouth.
LukkyKnight
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Been there, done that, got the t-shirt.
It's about context, Juicidy, and balance. It's about listening when the stewardess tells you that, "...in the event of a sudden loss of cabin-pressure... put your own mask on before attemtping to help others."
Anybody can put up with a little shit, now and then, but when you get to feeling it's lop-sided, and can't see that it will ever even out, you have to decide what the benefit is which kept you putting up with it this long... and is it time to practice tough love on the person, or time to see to your own mask?
juicylips said:
It's about context, Juicidy, and balance. It's about listening when the stewardess tells you that, "...in the event of a sudden loss of cabin-pressure... put your own mask on before attemtping to help others."
Anybody can put up with a little shit, now and then, but when you get to feeling it's lop-sided, and can't see that it will ever even out, you have to decide what the benefit is which kept you putting up with it this long... and is it time to practice tough love on the person, or time to see to your own mask?
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No I dont take shit...well I do to a point.
But continueing taunts, insults and being presented in a less than flattering light, gets on my nerve big time.
Then there was 2 weeks ago when someone thought I was a push-over, and threw a punch at me at a halloween party.
I got a rattled jaw..and he had to take a trip to sleep-city.
No I dont take shit for long.
But continueing taunts, insults and being presented in a less than flattering light, gets on my nerve big time.
Then there was 2 weeks ago when someone thought I was a push-over, and threw a punch at me at a halloween party.
I got a rattled jaw..and he had to take a trip to sleep-city.
No I dont take shit for long.
KillerMuffin
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Yes, I take shit from everyone. I am the crap encrusted doormat of life and lit. *sighs* I'm thinking that maybe I should take some classes, you know, in how to be more assertive or something.
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You gonna smack me in the head with a Danish?
I'll bet the ghetto New York bitch fight style against your Breakfast Pastry ass any day.
And hey, when you lose, I'm sure there'll be some chick on the sidelines that will be more than happy to tend your wounds.
I whoop your ass, and you get some one night pussy on the side. Win/Win situation.
I'll bet the ghetto New York bitch fight style against your Breakfast Pastry ass any day.
And hey, when you lose, I'm sure there'll be some chick on the sidelines that will be more than happy to tend your wounds.
I whoop your ass, and you get some one night pussy on the side. Win/Win situation.
Xander
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Angel said:You gonna smack me in the head with a Danish?
I'll bet the ghetto New York bitch fight style against your Breakfast Pastry ass any day.
And hey, when you lose, I'm sure there'll be some chick on the sidelines that will be more than happy to tend your wounds.
I whoop your ass, and you get some one night pussy on the side. Win/Win situation.
LOL
Thats a dare Angel.
Bring it the fuck on!! I wont lose....fuck the tender piece of ass on the side...Lose...nope I wont lose!!
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No, I don't take shit. However, I do have a hard time with telling somebody they didn't do something to my satisfaction.
For instance, I had a new cleaning crew in today. I was told that they would be very thorough and spend approximately 2-1/2 hours here (3 girls). They are charging me $119.
I noticed many things they didn't do to my satisfaction, but couldn't bring myself to say anything to them. They left after 1-1/2 hours.
I'm thinking of calling the supervisor tomorrow to come look at the house. What do you think?
It's all about guilt I think. I feel a little bad having somebody else clean my toilets, even if they are getting paid.
*sigh*
Ruby
For instance, I had a new cleaning crew in today. I was told that they would be very thorough and spend approximately 2-1/2 hours here (3 girls). They are charging me $119.
I noticed many things they didn't do to my satisfaction, but couldn't bring myself to say anything to them. They left after 1-1/2 hours.
I'm thinking of calling the supervisor tomorrow to come look at the house. What do you think?
It's all about guilt I think. I feel a little bad having somebody else clean my toilets, even if they are getting paid.
*sigh*
Ruby
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Angel said:
Hey now, leave my ass out of it. Or I'll have to whoop some ass. And I can kick it, baby.
Speaking of ass, is it just me or does the Iron Giant suck ass?
ToddHwrd
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Taking Shit??
Taking shit is my cross to bear in life, I get it at work and I get it at home. Sometimes it does not pay to be a nice guy (in fact it never pays that I can tell).
If you care about this person and don't want to lose the relationship then you can either deal with the shit or just take it and go on. I know it doesn't sound very promising but hey most of the time it works for me. I think I heard a comedian call it "The kick the dog syndrome", you get tired of getting shit on and finally you find someone else to shit on.
Oh god I'm rambling
Todd
Taking shit is my cross to bear in life, I get it at work and I get it at home. Sometimes it does not pay to be a nice guy (in fact it never pays that I can tell).
If you care about this person and don't want to lose the relationship then you can either deal with the shit or just take it and go on. I know it doesn't sound very promising but hey most of the time it works for me. I think I heard a comedian call it "The kick the dog syndrome", you get tired of getting shit on and finally you find someone else to shit on.
Oh god I'm rambling
Todd
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TMI, angelface, TMI. *sprays the lysol* Your, er, activites precedes you.
Hey, when you whoop up on Xman, can I watch? Will it be a clothes ripping cat fight or do you intend to just take him out?
Hey, when you whoop up on Xman, can I watch? Will it be a clothes ripping cat fight or do you intend to just take him out?
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do you take shit?
it depends on the mood i'm in and who's dishing it out.
one time i took load after load of shit from a couple of work mates
because i was working a couple twelve step programs for say two years. THEN I FINISHED. (WEG) and drug out my trusty double barreled shit shooter and cut down on their asses!
I had warned them. after all they had known me for years and knew i had a rep for slinging shit with the best of them, but nooo! they had to take advantage of me when it was not in my best interst to fight back.
one quit about eight ago (not related to me) and the other i give hell everytime i get the chance.
about the worst thing a person can to is to draw first blood in the giving out shit department with me.
i remenber on time i was transferred to another building at work. i knew i was in for a lot of shit so i just walk over to a water hose and wet down the whole crew. i thought i might as well get the first lick in. lol the s.o.b's damn near drowned me.
it depends on the mood i'm in and who's dishing it out.
one time i took load after load of shit from a couple of work mates
because i was working a couple twelve step programs for say two years. THEN I FINISHED. (WEG) and drug out my trusty double barreled shit shooter and cut down on their asses!
I had warned them. after all they had known me for years and knew i had a rep for slinging shit with the best of them, but nooo! they had to take advantage of me when it was not in my best interst to fight back.
one quit about eight ago (not related to me) and the other i give hell everytime i get the chance.
about the worst thing a person can to is to draw first blood in the giving out shit department with me.
i remenber on time i was transferred to another building at work. i knew i was in for a lot of shit so i just walk over to a water hose and wet down the whole crew. i thought i might as well get the first lick in. lol the s.o.b's damn near drowned me.
