Do you have a good sex life but still crave naughty talk?

[goraingirl]

For me, it is like 2 different sex lives. I love sharing naughty fantasies, and masturbating to them. I wonder if I am the only one. I used to think only people without sex lives craved dirty, but I am a girl who has found out otherwise. I guess I can get get nasty online about taboo etc., but would not do in real life?

 

[ceoscott]

No I think you're pretty normal really. I share the same thoughts you do, so at least you now know you're not the only one

 

[ceoscott]

Feel free to PM me if you'd like to discuss ANYTHING

 

[yesidid]

For me, it is like 2 different sex lives. I love sharing naughty fantasies, and masturbating to them. I wonder if I am the only one. I used to think only people without sex lives craved dirty, but I am a girl who has found out otherwise. I guess I can get get nasty online about taboo etc., but would not do in real life?

I think that's really the nature of a healthy fantasy life. There is a difference between imagining and doing. I'll never fly but imagining it feels wonderful.

More to the point, sexual fantasizing, or virtual explorations, afford a broader freedom with much less risk. Make sense?

 

[rick77bln]

I am totally with you. I feel very often in the same situation: nothing to complain in my real life sex. I'm married to a great and sexy woman. But I still sometimes crave the excitement of as you say breaking taboos, fanaticising about forbidden fruit ( yes I'm thinking breasts rigt now ;-)) ... I have to say it helps me also to relax from busy days and clears my mind. I prefer thinkithose out a hot and forbidden fantasy potentially with a person i will never meeg but that likes to roleplay too than thinking about my work day.
I actually find it stimulating. BTW Goraingirl If you like to discuss further please PM me. Always happy to meet new people.

 

[Bandant]

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[Doctor Joe]

I am totally with you. I feel very often in the same situation: nothing to complain in my real life sex. I'm married to a great and sexy woman. But I still sometimes crave the excitement of as you say breaking taboos, fanaticising about forbidden fruit ( yes I'm thinking breasts rigt now ;-)) ... I have to say it helps me also to relax from busy days and clears my mind. I prefer thinkithose out a hot and forbidden fantasy potentially with a person i will never meeg but that likes to roleplay too than thinking about my work day.
I actually find it stimulating. BTW Goraingirl If you like to discuss further please M me. Always happy to meet new people.

I think I echo what Rick said. We've been married for a long time and have a good sex life (mostly weekends because of work schedules) But I still enjoy the naughty chats and cyber plays and fantasies that go along with them. I am always fascinated with the way another woman experiences sex, her turn-ons, and her willingness to let me turn her on.

 

[Beck31]

I like occasional risque talk but I wouldn't say I crave it.

 

[TonyAndSuzy]

Hi,

Have a great sex life but me and my partner love talkign about sex too, both in a matter of fact and fantasy way.

We just love sex both physical and mental.

 

[Beck31]

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[IARainman]

i have a pretty good sex life now, wasn't always that way. I still enjoy new online flirts and fun...

 

[Beck31]

yeppers

 

[Youremine]

I have the same thing and I think one enhances the other

 

[Davesmith42]

Sure craving some naughty talk today

 

[Beck31]

Naughty talk enhances the sex but I always find myself not wanting to get too dirty.

 

[MrsTaylor27]

Glad I'm not the only one .... I was starting to worry I was a sex addict.

 

[gabriel16]

goraingirl

Good thread you started!

Thanks.

G

 

[julius_1975ct]

I def agree with you all.. sex life is great, but I like to chat and find out what naughty tings others are up to

 

[nakedplay]

I have an okay sex life, that being said there is a time and it is often that I enjoy some solo time. I love erotic chat, I enjoy chatting about past experiences and fantasies. It makes me realize that there are a bunch of different things out there to enjoy and perhaps some day try.

 

[shelbakk]

Naughty SMS

My sex life is ok, but we never have naughty or nasty talk. My wife went out of town recently on a xmas shopping trip. I decided to try a naughty message. she was at some mall some place and just sat down for a coffee. I started with a rather tame message, but ended up with some very explicit messages.

my wife was shocked and thought i should start writing porn stories LOL. She actually got rather wet right there in the mall.

I will continue to try improving my naughty messages. Give it a try.

 

[luvnmyboys]

yes, i have a great sex life but i enjoy a good chat also. i think a little extra helps me stay in the mood and builds my anticipation. it would be nice to chat with people that have a good sex life and have some fun stories to share.

 

[HeyAll]

Dirty talk pushes buttons that can't be pushed physically. So why the heck not?

 

[amofiga]

For me, it is like 2 different sex lives. I love sharing naughty fantasies, and masturbating to them. I wonder if I am the only one. I used to think only people without sex lives craved dirty, but I am a girl who has found out otherwise. I guess I can get get nasty online about taboo etc., but would not do in real life?

Sweetheart, nothing I love more than nasty dirty talking sex and have been fortunate to find some women who also love it for real, not just online. Too bad it's not more of you lovely sexy ladies out there. If you only knew how much that's a turn on for many guys.......the public professional lady or soccer mom that's really the secret slut and gets off on knowing she's fooling a lot of people.

 

[jusgoodcleanfun]

yea but the main problem is I have a wife who hates dirty talk.... I'm screwed!

 

[WylieBCoyote]

Dirty chat is a lot of fun, as long as folks understand the boundaries, particularly that it is fantasy. Please send me a PM if you're interested in talking with a nice older fellow that has a wicked imagination (and writes well). LOL