Do You Find...

[His_kitty]

That you unconsciously sabotage relationships?

 

[J.B.]

yes.

 

[Bluesboy2]

Yes, but usually not my own.

 

[glamorilla]

what they said.

 

[Guest]

Yes, but usually not my own.

LOL

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I sometimes subconsiously sabotage nuclear submarines...relationships get screwed up on their own.

 

[JazzManJim]

I don't believe I do, but since my last two have ended rather messily - for me anyhow - perhaps I do.

I've avoided it all by staying out of one.

 

[Guest]

I sometimes subconsiously sabotage nuclear submarines...relationships get screwed up on their own.

Over-ambicious. Doesn't have the simplicity of bluesboy.

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[brokenbrainwave]

That you unconsciously sabotage relationships?

yes, I snore in my sleep. She is soooo about to kick me to the surb, damn the bitch...

 

[curious2c]

Funny you should bring this up.

um...I have sabotaged a relationship. It was probably for the best, since I was headed in a direction that would have hurt people close to me... eye opening experience. Didn't plan on it...it just happened...then I guess the ol' subconcious kicked in and I soon blew myself up.

 

[kidthor]

Not so much relationships as my life in general. I can definitely be my own worst enemy.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

Whenever I find myself sabotaging a relationship, I stop and reassess whether I should even be in the relationship in the first place. Usually my subconsious knows when things are over a whole lot earlier than I am willing to face the fact.

 

[Guest]

Unconsciously? No. Subconsciously? Yes, I feel I have sometimes.

 

[His_kitty]

I've started recognizing the pattern from my past relationships.

I push people away, I just know that it won't work out and so I nitpick just the tiniest of details.. not really in the other person but in myself.


I'd like to change this.

 

[kidthor]

I've started recognizing the pattern from my past relationships.

I push people away, I just know that it won't work out and so I nitpick just the tiniest of details.. not really in the other person but in myself.


I'd like to change this.

And that is half the battle.

 

[celiaKitten]

Yes, I have on a few occasions. I know exactly why I did it both times.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

I've started recognizing the pattern from my past relationships.

I push people away, I just know that it won't work out and so I nitpick just the tiniest of details.. not really in the other person but in myself.


I'd like to change this.

I'd offer to let you practice on me...but I probably deserve to be pushed away in the first place, so never mind...you already know how to do that !

 

[His_kitty]

Unconsciously? No. Subconsciously? Yes, I feel I have sometimes.

I'm sorry.. you're absolutely correct. Subconsciously.


I'm not having the best day. lol

 

[His_kitty]

I'd offer to let you practice on me...but I probably deserve to be pushed away in the first place, so never mind...you already know how to do that !

lmao


Thank you.. I need the laugh.

 

[Johnny Mayberry]

lmao


Thank you.. I need the laugh.

We aims to please, babe...and the fact that it is true has NOTHING to do with it!

 

[Guest]

I'm not having the best day. lol

It happens to everyone at some point!

 

[Gusty Wind]

<sigh>`` all the times.... awe...

 

[Carp]

Yes, I think I do- I seem to pick people who are unavailable, usually emotionally, sometimes in other ways, to try to stoke the fires with. I'm pretty gunshy about relationships right now, but am trying to both open up and to pick more available women to fixate on

 

[Oscuridad]

Psst. Turn on your MSN dammit

 

[Carp]

So, Kitty, is there something you want to tell us about your Valentines Day date?