What a question for a sex-talk board, huh?
Seriously...do you find it difficult to talk about sex after you have done the deed? What is the aftermath like for you? Do you become shy, or reflective, or simply drop off to sleep? And if your woman (or man) wants to bring it up the next morning, do you stumble around and wonder what to say?
I have noticed several friends of mine who have no problem dishing all about sex with their women...but their SOs seem to think that they clam up and won't talk about it. Is it easier to discuss sex with a friend than with your lover? And if so, why?
If you get shy and bashful after having sex, what do you think causes that reaction?
And perhaps most importantly...if you have a lover who becomes shy in the afterglow, how do you gently break them out of that shell?
Lots of questions.
(As you can tell, my curious streak isn't over yet. )
S.
Seriously...do you find it difficult to talk about sex after you have done the deed? What is the aftermath like for you? Do you become shy, or reflective, or simply drop off to sleep? And if your woman (or man) wants to bring it up the next morning, do you stumble around and wonder what to say?
I have noticed several friends of mine who have no problem dishing all about sex with their women...but their SOs seem to think that they clam up and won't talk about it. Is it easier to discuss sex with a friend than with your lover? And if so, why?
If you get shy and bashful after having sex, what do you think causes that reaction?
And perhaps most importantly...if you have a lover who becomes shy in the afterglow, how do you gently break them out of that shell?
Lots of questions.
(As you can tell, my curious streak isn't over yet. )
S.