Do you ever wonder...

[rosebud5446]

 

[daylightwarrior]

I remember reading all the time, be on the look out for something better. I don't think they meant this if your married. It seemed at the time, a cop out, instead of trying to make things work with who your with.

 

[rosebud5446]

 

[KokopelliRises]

Yes I did wonder if there was someone out there better for me. It was one of the factors that made my last breakup so nasty (after the fact). I wanted to see if there was anybody out there who was better for me, I wanted new experiences with new people, not just new experiences with the same old person. I can't say anything about the second part, the only real reason I stayed in my last relationship as long as I did was for stability, not the fact that I was happy in it.

 

[pleasteasme]

Considering I am perpetually single... I sure hope there is someone out there that IS good for me!

*and not currently in a relationship*

 

[M's girl]

........I don't know why I don't, but I fucking hate it. I feel bad and we have had sex a few times but it's mainly because I feel like there is something wrong with me and I feel bad and think he won't think I'm attracted to him anymore. i don't know what's wrong with me. No change in diet, been on the pill for over a year, have had some stress, but it's never affected me this much. I want to be horny again!

So.... do something about it! If you think like this it aint going to happen. While in a phase like this you have to just decide to make things fun and spicy again and set up the scene. Looking out for someone else is only going to fix this temporarily because most couples go through periods like this at one time or another. So the next "Mr Right" will be all wrong too after a while if you don't put in the effort.