Do you always masturbate to orgasm?

[LegsOpenedWide]

Or do you stop yourself just short of orgasm? And if so, how long do you wait before going at it again?

 

[510mike]

No...

I would say about half the time at most. I love to edge, sometimes for days on end. I've gone 40+plus days of almost daily edge sessions before cumming.

I look at it as two separate activities, masturbating and cumming. There are times where I just need to masturbate..to feel my hand gliding up and down my greased up cock. Then there are times (though much less often) where I just need to pop off a load and get on with things.

 

[Dreamer110]

The last two days I didn't. Close but no. Today however......

 

[LucyCanyon]

Or do you stop yourself just short of orgasm? And if so, how long do you wait before going at it again?

Lots of edging days where I play but never quite finish. Love this, makes the eventual orgasm even better, but can only play for a few days before release is mandatory!

 

[Simone808619]

Agreed. Edging myself

 

[screwher]

myself...

For me I like to hold off on orgasming for as long as possible. When I'm actually masturbating I'll go until im about to cum but then stop just short then start again. I like to make each session last as long as possible. no "Wham, Bam, Thank you, Self" LOL.

I get the edging thing though. Sometimes when i'm watch porn or even just on this site I'll find myself unknowingly rubbing myself through my underwear. The rubbing will sometimes almost make me ejaculate but I stop short and get on with my day. Then later when my wife and I are getting amorous I'm definitely ready to go.

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

Okay so for those that manage to edge, how the heck do you stop yourself when you're so close? I try but then seem to hit the point of no return and there isn't any stopping me then, I NEED to cum.
And does it really make your orgasms even better??

 

[irishblade]

Okay so for those that manage to edge, how the heck do you stop yourself when you're so close? I try but then seem to hit the point of no return and there isn't any stopping me then, I NEED to cum.
And does it really make your orgasms even better??

It's mind over matter. I rarely cum when i masturbate. But when I do cum whether it be sex or solo, its more intense and so much more cum.

 

[Dreamer110]

Okay so for those that manage to edge, how the heck do you stop yourself when you're so close? I try but then seem to hit the point of no return and there isn't any stopping me then, I NEED to cum.
And does it really make your orgasms even better??

Not always successful but usually. And for me it makes it much more intense.

 

[LegsOpenedWide]

Okay Clearly I need to work on this!

 

[Kitschshaman]

Oh no, not even frequently. It's not that I purposefully edge (though that is enticing as well, particularly if you're doing it for the love of your life to make being with her .. well ... edgier) but sometimes I just don't feel like climaxing. Whether it's being tired from all day at the office or just feeling blah, those days I usually don't. On days where I'm particularly randy though, I'll go a couple or three times. Just feel what you're feeling and go for it, there's no right answer here.

 

[Liz3223]

I dont always have an orgasm sometimes it is just nice to feel my hands on my body and to just enjoy a selfish caress . When i masturbate in the car i often dont cum i just like how it feels

 

[TipsyAngelus]

Always. I have no self control in that area.

 

[mnbreastluver]

Most of the time, although edging can be very rewarding!

 

[DarkrSide]

Yes I do. I mean it's kind of like non-alcoholic beer... what's the point if you don't orgasm?

 

[Matthew82]

Sometimes life has a funny way of interrupting.

 

[TipsyAngelus]

Yes I do. I mean it's kind of like non-alcoholic beer... what's the point if you don't orgasm?

Exactly. I can count the number of times I've orgasmed from non-alcoholic beer on 3 hands.

 

[Joel_Stark]

☆☆☆☆☆☆☆

 

[southern_gal]

No I don't stop myself. For one it takes me a bit to have an O and I like to build to it while reading or playing slowly. Why bake a cake and not put on the icing? If we are talking sex then it's a different story. Have I gotten him to cum and not had an orgasm myself? Goodness yes but when it comes to that, I am more concerned about him than me.

 

[Joel_Stark]

No I don't stop myself. For one it takes me a bit to have an O and I like to build to it while reading or playing slowly. Why bake a cake and not put on the icing? If we are talking sex then it's a different story. Have I gotten him to cum and not had an orgasm myself? Goodness yes but when it comes to that, I am more concerned about him than me.

You should just come for yourself hon. Btw are you still pouting?

 

[southern_gal]

You should just come for yourself hon. Btw are you still pouting?

I have plenty of O's trust me. And as for the pouting thing........I am usually smiling but I have no problem pouting if it gets me what I want.

 

[eric60red]

There is no point in masturbating if I don't cum, its the reason i cant stop doing it

 

[Kitschshaman]

I dont always have an orgasm sometimes it is just nice to feel my hands on my body and to just enjoy a selfish caress . When i masturbate in the car i often dont cum i just like how it feels

How lovely is that .. oh my.

 

[jakereeder22]

Na nnniejshahajaj

 

[LincolnDuncan]

I get the edging but I can't imagine not cumming.