Do women find straight guys that like anal play sexy or disgusting?

[jab309]

Just a quick question that i was wondering about

 

[Cattypuss]

I think you'll find it varies enormously from woman to woman, just like most things do.

I can only speak for myself. I don't find it sexy or unsexy per se. But on balance I find a man who is not scared to explore through the back door sexier than a man who is afraid. My current partner is very into receiving anal stuff and I'm happy to oblige. If he weren't into it I'd be happy to leave him alone.

No big deal either way, really.

 

[jab309]

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this is my toy, the blown up version is the biggest i have taken it so far (ten pumps)

 

[Cattypuss]

I kind of feel like you're on the wrong board.... how is this BDSM?

 

[Felix_Jones]

I kind of feel like you're on the wrong board.... how is this BDSM?

Bondage
Domination
Sadism
Masochism

You're right, doesn't really fit. (no pun intended)

You don't have to be any of those things to enjoy a good rogering.

 

[chy_girl]

I kind of feel like you're on the wrong board.... how is this BDSM?

If it isn't male/female sex in the missionary position it must be ours?

At least that's what the trend seems to point to.

As for the OP... That would depend on the woman.

 

[BiBunny]

It involves sex toys, so that automatically makes it BDSM. Damn, y'all, get with the program.

 

[ArchLady03]

Like Cattypuss put it, I don't find it one way or the other.

 

[midwestyankee]

It involves sex toys, so that automatically makes it BDSM. Damn, y'all, get with the program.

Cool. I'm really looking forward to seeing this very special BDSM movie:

http://i53.photobucket.com/albums/g68/mwy_photos/lars.jpg

 

[NomadLady]

Doesn't matter either way to me but I agree, the ones that aren't afraid to try it are usually more open-minded, hence like-minded with me. If they ask to try it with me I've been more than willing to help them explore and it they don't like it after at least trying....not a big deal.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Well, you've got two things going here.
1) Does she think playing with butts is sexy?
2)Does she think this particular guy is sexy?

If the answers to both questions is "Yes" then it's a go. If the answer to either question is "no" then there ain't no sexy butt action.

 

[the captians wench]

I like giving pleasure, anyway he likes. If he likes his ass fingered, a strap on plowing him, or if he has a big "no fucking way" sign up, I'm cool with it. What ever gets him off.

Of course if I can keep my lips around his dick while I'm doing i, all the better.

 

[SirLeo]

I kind of feel like you're on the wrong board.... how is this BDSM?

Umm, if he enjoys being tied down and forced to take it up the ass?

 

[princesssuzanne]

I agree with CattyPuss and NomadLady, being open-minded enough to try this is usually the turn on for me. It takes a secure man to be able to admit something like this. So right on!

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Umm, if he enjoys being tied down and forced to take it up the ass?

Well, he needs to say that then, rather than showing off pics of his ass toys.

 

[djyak]

(wife) I love it when hubby wants me to finger him a bit while I suck his cock. I love getting aroused. He doesn't like more than that,but still hot to me.

 

[Ravenwind]

Personally, I enjoy anal play (both giving and receiving), and it took quite a while to warm my Husband up to the idea of anything backdoor... quite a *long* while, IIRC... but either way, when he didn't or now that he does, it's all good.

 

[oldkinky]

Personally, I enjoy anal play (both giving and receiving), and it took quite a while to warm my Husband up to the idea of anything backdoor... quite a *long* while, IIRC... but either way, when he didn't or now that he does, it's all good.

DW loves fucking me in the ass. She also like giving me a blowjob while she massages my prostate.

 

[FurryFury]

I find men that are not homophobic, who are intelligent, also deep thinking, sometimes wise, caring and who are open to exploring, to be a HUGE turn ON.

FF

 

[CarnageSIS]

I find men that are not homophobic, who are intelligent, also deep thinking, sometimes wise, caring and who are open to exploring, to be a HUGE turn ON.

I very much agree with that, that is a huge part of it.

Another big part for me is pleasure, if it is something else that will turn him on and make him beg/moan for me even better.

 

[sb2009]

I enjoy playing with asses...male and female ;-) But even if I didn't I wouldn't find it disgusting...everyone likes different things.

 

[radepor]

Ain't a woman; but, observing...I'd say this...

My spouse was about as "normal" as it gets, when we married. By nornal, I mean, not into this.

After years of exposure to me, I detected a somewhat relenting attitude toward this activity; then, I began to sense a real purpose and even relish for screwing me with a strap-on.

Any conclusions? Nope; I'm an observer of one data point. She could have simply enjoyed it; or, she could have been permanently pissed-off at me and enjoyed it for that reason.

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Just a quick question that i was wondering about

 

[switchbitch]

For me it is definitely hot.Owning his arse? yes please!

 

[miaction69]

For me it is definitely hot.Owning his arse? yes please!

you're an aussie too....we think alike

 

[MisstressOfPain]

I Dont think there is anything wrong with it. I cant really fathum a rim job but nothing sexier than a man whos got the balls to take it up the ass. By a women no less. I cant wait to get mine!