do u girls find feminin men attractive?

ecstacey

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i hav a friend who is quite....feminin and he's been dying to get a girl but for some reason they wont give him any. hes a good looking kid so i myself dont really see the problem, so i got to thinking about it and i noticed how his voice sounds alot like a chick and maybe thats wat girls find a total turn off. so i have created this thread in hopes of getting answers....
 
That has nothing to do with it. I am not feminine and I have been told by quite a few people i am pretty good looking, yet I still dont get laid.
 
As you can tell by the popularity of actors like Orlando Bloom, pretty boys are extremely desired in certain circles.

Everyone's tastes are going to be different. I can find feminine males attractive aesthetically but unless they are giving off a seriously powerful vibe, I'm not going to be sexually attracted to them. But that's my perspective.
 
ecstacey said:
i hav a friend who is quite....feminin and he's been dying to get a girl but for some reason they wont give him any. hes a good looking kid so i myself dont really see the problem, so i got to thinking about it and i noticed how his voice sounds alot like a chick and maybe thats wat girls find a total turn off. so i have created this thread in hopes of getting answers....

i have found the exact opposite to be true in my case

for whatever tha't worth...
 
pretty-boys are nice to look at and fun to talk to (most times anyway) but i am not sexually attracted to them

i am submissive by nature and maybe that's part of it -
i cannot envision a pretty-boy being dominant -
especially in a sexual relationship
 
Femine type men

You must have a lot of free time to think up absurd questions.
I suggest that instead of getting as many postings as posssible that you learn to spell.
 
nope

NO

the way i think bout it
men should be manly not
pussy.
no offense to those that be this way.. just not waht i'm attracted to..
 
browncow said:
That has nothing to do with it. I am not feminine and I have been told by quite a few people i am pretty good looking, yet I still dont get laid.

Your logic makes no sense.

You must have other issues preventing you from getting laid.
 
I am mostly attracted to the more "feminine: pretty boy" type, however ever guy I've ever dated has been the exact opposite. I find the pretty boys tend to be more into their egos and more offputting but everyone is different. Maybe he needs to try and approach women from a different angle. It may not be his looks that are not attracting women - try something different. You know never know what might work . . .
 
badboy0 said:
Your logic makes no sense.

You must have other issues preventing you from getting laid.

Most likely it is my sarcastic attitude.



I still dont think being a feminine man should be a problem for this guy. For every one of these girls that hate it there are the same number or more girls who absolutely love it. Its just about how aggressive he is finding a girl and who he looks at.
 
I must say, it depends on the type of pretty boy, but a feminine voice? I don't like. A higher-toned voice is okay, but not a voice that could pass as a female voice.
 
Just how 'feminine' is he?

He just might be coming off as being stereotypically 'gay' which may be why women aren't giving him the time off day.
 
i like my guys a little beat up

not into the stud muffin or mocho guys

and a pretty boy na :devil:

I hate to have a b/f better looking then ME
 
I have always been attracted to sensitive men who are not afraid to let their feminine side show through.
 
Me, I like really masculine men.

My sister likes feminine men.

Each to their own.
 
I like girly boys. :p I think Orlando Bloom is gorgeous and I love guys with long hair.
 
For me the voice would be a problem. I am very attracted to a low or melodious voice. Its so much more important to me than physical looks. I mean - you can always just close your eyes and let them talk to you.....mmmmmmm.
 
ecstacey said:
i hav a friend who is quite....feminin and he's been dying to get a girl but for some reason they wont give him any. hes a good looking kid so i myself dont really see the problem, so i got to thinking about it and i noticed how his voice sounds alot like a chick and maybe thats wat girls find a total turn off. so i have created this thread in hopes of getting answers....

I've seen some even married with men like you described. So i think The guy u have mentioned needs to find a girl who finds him attractive or loves him. Maybe the time has not come yet.
 
assister49 said:
I have always been attracted to sensitive men who are not afraid to let their feminine side show through.

This pretty much sums up my wife and I. For a woman I'd label her as 75% feminine. Me? About 75% masculine. We're very capable of switching domme/femme roles in just about everything. The sex roles we're still learning, though. :cool:
 
assister49 said:
I have always been attracted to sensitive men who are not afraid to let their feminine side show through.


So what exacty is a man's feminine side?? Other than the obvious like mannerisms, clothing and such. I would assume you mean emotions and vunerablities. Could you elaborate ????
 
ecstacey said:
i hav a friend who is quite....feminin and he's been dying to get a girl but for some reason they wont give him any. hes a good looking kid so i myself dont really see the problem, so i got to thinking about it and i noticed how his voice sounds alot like a chick and maybe thats wat girls find a total turn off. so i have created this thread in hopes of getting answers....


I often appreciate feminine men. In many cases I find their feminine edge to be very attractive. But then I have a fetish for putting flowers into men's hair, watching them dance, etc. so...

p.s.
By "feminine" I'm assuming you mean his mannerisms or perhaps his appearance (eyeliner, long hair, etc).
 
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