Do other gals like to do this too? Or at least fantasize about it?

[LindaL]

Awhile back, in another thread about masturbation as sex play, I posted the following:

I love to masturbate for my husband, and he loves seeing it! It's part of our standard sex play, and we do it 2 or 3 times a week! I find the intensity and hunger of his stare for me such an added turnon, that I generally have at least one, if not two orgasms before he even touches (and even more after!)

In fact, now one of my biggest turnons is showing off my pussy and masturbating for him. I love to hear him ask me to show my clit, or to see "more pink", or to use a certain toy, or see my pussy from behind. And I love to see him stroke himself while I put on my display!

And I've adored putting on such performances for the occasional other folks who have joined us in play! The other guys seem to get soooooo into it! As have a couple of the other women. Seeing other guys stroke themselves because of me is an enormous compliment, and seeing the other gals stroke their guys or play with themselves while they watch is a real trip!

I admit it took a while for me to get comfortable with this. I was raised to believe that it was nasty as all hell for a woman to open up her legs and show off her pussy so blatantly. But I'm pretty much past that guilt/shame stuff now.

I wouldn't want to do it where strangers might see, though. Well, in fantasy I might, but not in reality.

Well, that comment sure engendered a lot of responses by mail, and a few in the thread too, all quite positive, but all by guys who said that they liked to do the same, or wished they knew women who enjoyed that sort of thing, or would I like to help them out? (yeah, right).

But I've not heard from other gals, and I'm still insecure enough to think that I must be sort of weird, doing this just so I can be some guy's ultimate wet dream. So I'm asking if other gals have done similar, or at least fantasized about it. I'd love to hear you gals' take on it!

Be aware, I'm not a hot young thang! I'm married over 25 years, 47 years old, and I never was of pin-up centerfold quality, even in Hustler. When, years ago, I was at my physically hottest (I could steam someone's glasses but not boil water) I had little interest in behaving this way.

And guys, I'm not in the market for penpals, email pals, webcam, etc etc. But thanks for thinking of me that way..........

 

[Swxytgrlly]

My husband and I don't do this as frequently as you and yours do, but it is certainly part of our play. It is not always lengthy, but definitely intense. It usually involves him telling me to rub my clit, while he sits back and watches, or sometimes he play with my nipples. I enjoy it because I know it turns him on. So, no, you are not alone

 

[cocktan]

my GF said that she loved to do that for me when we were in a long distance relationship, but now that we are closer (after college) she rarely talks about it, and i am always the one to bring it up in conversation.

 

[Vixandra]

I don't mind masturbating for my husband if I'm horney as hell and he's just too exhausted to do anything.

Also works the other way around- if I have no desire for sex at the time but want him to get off, he masturbates infront of me. While not a sexual pleasure, I truely enjoy watching him work himself until he cums simply because I wish him to. Though that could be the Domme in me.


I don't think your strange for enjoying it so much or for sharing with others who enjoy it. Heck, you're an adault- if you're having a good time, no one's getting hurt in a bad way and the authorities won't arrest you in most states for it, go ahead.

More of an exhibitionist then I, sure, but not strange or screwy in the head.
You love it, he loves it, your pals love it, rock on!

 

[sharpchick]

I don't think you're weird at all. I love mutual masturbation as well as just giving him a show, or getting one myself.

Very hot. . .

 

[rosebud5446]

i like to masturbate for my partner and watch him masturbate. it helps us learn exactly how the other one likes to be touched, plus it's hot! sometimes, when i'm horny, i'll just start playing with myself while we're watching tv, and he'll look over and be mesmorized. it always leads to some pretty hot sex.

 

[LindaL]

Thanks, all! That's reassuring to me.

Vixandra, when I've been "not in the mood" while hubby is raring to go, I've watched him, and generally find myself getting in the mood pretty quick. Hub has now learned to hold back his orgasm to see if my interest has changed.

There must be something about the mid-40's that has just supercharged my libido. Maybe the idea that my sexual clock is running out of time to do all the things I've been thinking of? LOL!

 

[holdbackman]

Female Masturbation

i love girls that masturbate,i like to watch them & listen to them.i have girl i call,have never met herand we masturbate over the phone together.JOHNNY.....

 

[Cakegirl]

Yep, you're not alone... I like to do it too!

 

[lord_bob]

Thanks, all! That's reassuring to me.

Vixandra, when I've been "not in the mood" while hubby is raring to go, I've watched him, and generally find myself getting in the mood pretty quick. Hub has now learned to hold back his orgasm to see if my interest has changed.

There must be something about the mid-40's that has just supercharged my libido. Maybe the idea that my sexual clock is running out of time to do all the things I've been thinking of? LOL!

nah, women get a nice sexual peak from about 40 to about 6 months after they're dead lol


and watching a woman pleasure herself is very hot so don't feel weird at all

 

[DeMilo]

I have to admit it was never anything I thought about doing until a lover asked me to. Watching him get off on it was such an empowering feeling that I'm usually the one to suggests it now!

 

[eudaemonia]

Be aware, I'm not a hot young thang! I'm married over 25 years, 47 years old, and I never was of pin-up centerfold quality, even in Hustler. When, years ago, I was at my physically hottest (I could steam someone's glasses but not boil water) I had little interest in behaving this way.

I do think there's something to that. When I got into my 40s (I'm almost 44) I noticed that my erotic side took a decided upswing (upshwing? <g>). I think once I accepted myself the way I am (I gained a lot of weight after I couldn't take ballet), my attitude really changed. Of course, just about anyone who hits a "porn" site like Lit is probably going to be more sexually open in the first place.

Just my $.02 worth.

 

[LindaL]

Of course, just about anyone who hits a "porn" site like Lit is probably going to be more sexually open in the first place.

Yeah, but I figured I could get more 'real' answers here than at church!

After hearing these nice affirming comments, it made me even more eager to put on another show for hubby! So I did!!

And I'm so grateful he responds to me this way. I did read the account of one woman who tried this and whose hubby just acted disgusted. That would have just crushed me at one time! But when I see the gleam in his eye, and the puptent going up, I swear I still feel like a hottie.

Thanks all!

 

[Eilan]

I never did this until I met my husband.

Hell, my ex masturbated for me one time shortly after we were married and was horribly embarrassed about it. Never happened again.

My husband, however, gets off watching me get off!

 

[Raidho]

Just recently, I was asked to do it for his viewing pleasure. I told him that I would, but only if I could watch him too.

I'm shy, not that comfortable in my skin yet, but discovered it's something I definitely can get into, especially if he's doing it himself while watching me, or even helping.

Definitely hot.

 

[BorednSexy]

I've been in the situation before, the guy wanted to watch, but... I felt a little imbarassed about it. Now I don't think I would mind it as much, but I don't think it's something I fantasize about.

 

[silverwhisper]

i've always been a fan of watching my partner masturbate. i find it highly erotic and at the early stages of a relationship, quite educational. :>

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