Do older ladies become Bi curious ?

[hulmule]

My mind has been thinking about this. There is the post about why older men become bi curious. But i wander being in a sexless marriage, do older women become curious about being with another woman ? I see women looking at women but i think it's just to see how they dress and look. Thoughts from both side

 

[LadyJS]

My mind has been thinking about this. There is the post about why older men become bi curious. But i wander being in a sexless marriage, do older women become curious about being with another woman ? I see women looking at women but i think it's just to see how they dress and look. Thoughts from both side

Define "older women." Over 40? 50? Post menopause? Collecting Social Security?

Personally, I can appreciate how a woman looks as you referenced, how they dress, how their hair is styled, how they carry themselves when they walk. But that's not the same as looking at them with lustful thoughts like "I'd like to dine at her Y tonight!" I have zero interest in bedding a woman, just ain't in my DNA. An interesting question nonetheless. I hope you get some feedback.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I think it depends for sure..
I'm 48. Poly, bi,..

I was very bicurious as a teen. As an adult, I have had my share of being with different women. I used to only be able to get off to lesbian porn.
Jump ahead to now.
Perimenapause, widowed.. my needs and desires have changed. So for me, I've become LESS sexually attracted to women.
I still think all women are beautiful

 

[Valendon]

It’s a mixed bag, that’s for certain.

I’m sixty, umm, something, but discovered I’m bi at an early age.

In my age group I’ve met a few women who didn’t explore until recently.

Most, however, are either unquestionably hetero or lesbian, or discovered girls earlier in life.

That said, demographics don’t give meaning to your leanings in any event! Exploring can bring enlightenment—and fun!!

 

[hulmule]

Some great replies ! Thank you !Older women humm, in my mind i think older would be mid 50's to 60 and up. Being I'm in a sexless marriage and my wife has no interest in sex was wondering if women had an interest towards women. You see some posts and a lot of women look to be older that are exploring that life style. But i think you been exposed at an early age to something, then you go back to revisit at an later time in life.

 

[bunny4med]

I don't think it is that older women become bi curious, it's just that we finally don't give a f### and act on our feelings regardless of what anyone thinks and what sex the other person is.

 

[2tallpaul]

They don't give a f### and have a great time. A ton of fun.

 

[shrek100]

I am mid 40's now. Have had MMF and FFM and also solo with each. When I was younger with an old flat mate we played around abit.
Being Young always up for new adventure and pushing boundaries i guess. I did wonder if Bi and felt strange at the thought.
Now older, more mature and i don't think i am Bi or even Bi Curious. I just think i am happy to do things that I enjoy and i am no longer worried about labels or titles. If it feels good, everyone's up for it. . . crack on
Mr Shrek after a MMF struggled with the "Bi" bit but in the end he decided if it feels good why worry.

 

[BiWifeMyrtleBeach]

I have been bi since in my teens. I also have known women in their forties and fifties who thought about it but never pursued it till later in life. I suspect may women are curious though they may not confess so.

 

[Jeph77]

My mind has been thinking about this. There is the post about why older men become bi curious. But i wander being in a sexless marriage, do older women become curious about being with another woman ? I see women looking at women but i think it's just to see how they dress and look. Thoughts from both side

It's very hot to see an older woman devouring a young womans pussy. Their appreciation turns me the fuck on.

 

[Alderleaf]

My mind has been thinking about this. There is the post about why older men become bi curious. But i wander being in a sexless marriage, do older women become curious about being with another woman ? I see women looking at women but i think it's just to see how they dress and look. Thoughts from both side

I am an older female. In my 40s I knew that other women were erotically interesting to me, but I hadn't acted on my interests. In my 50s, I started to seek out and have sex with other women who were bicurious themselves. Because these were arranged encounters between strangers, we were often nervous and uncertain. Some of it was awkward. Some of it was good but all of it was way too much effort. Women younger than me were ready to have a good time with women their own age, not me. Women my age or older were good at disappearing just when things might get interesting.
My life is pretty busy and so I don't see a lot of realistic opportunities for sexual encounters or sexual friendships. And I'm okay with that too.

 

[AithusaTheWhite]

New bi-curious woman here! As an adult I’ve always been slightly curious about what it’s like to be pleasured by another woman. Now that I’m in my late 40’s I doubt I ever follow through with trying to find out…too self-conscious about my weight and appearance. The stories I read on this site sure get my imagination running. Hubby benefits a lot.
Would love to chat and hear stories of anyones girl encounters if they would like to share.

 

[Elite_Goblin]

I am an older female. In my 40s I knew that other women were erotically interesting to me, but I hadn't acted on my interests. In my 50s, I started to seek out and have sex with other women who were bicurious themselves. Because these were arranged encounters between strangers, we were often nervous and uncertain. Some of it was awkward. Some of it was good but all of it was way too much effort. Women younger than me were ready to have a good time with women their own age, not me. Women my age or older were good at disappearing just when things might get interesting.
My life is pretty busy and so I don't see a lot of realistic opportunities for sexual encounters or sexual friendships. And I'm okay with that too.

It is good that you are OK with the current situation. It is a pity how complicated it can be, to have your sexual desires fulfilled.
In these days of quick tests, it would be nice if you could take a test at the door, swap your clothes for an armband, then have some fun.
But reality is it is way too much effort. I am married, but sometimes wonder if the sacrificing and efforts are worth the bi-monthly end results.

 

[HornyMarriedMale]

I hope they do, I’d be happy if my wife became bi curious

 

[hulmule]

New bi-curious woman here! As an adult I’ve always been slightly curious about what it’s like to be pleasured by another woman. Now that I’m in my late 40’s I doubt I ever follow through with trying to find out…too self-conscious about my weight and appearance. The stories I read on this site sure get my imagination running. Hubby benefits a lot.
Would love to chat and hear stories of anyones girl encounters if they would like to share.

I wouldnt worry about your weight and appearance.People need to like you for your personality, thats what is a turn on for me.

 

[Cherry_Brandy]

My mind has been thinking about this. There is the post about why older men become bi curious. But i wander being in a sexless marriage, do older women become curious about being with another woman ? I see women looking at women but i think it's just to see how they dress and look. Thoughts from both side

I think I'm hardwired straight. I can appreciate our womanly wonders and quirky personalities but I've never looked at one had a tingle or thought 'mmmm' and forgot to breath.

 

[drobert44]

I think I'm hardwired straight. I can appreciate our womanly wonders and quirky personalities but I've never looked at one had a tingle or thought 'mmmm' and forgot to breath.

Some ladies get curious, and go for a girl........

 

[chame1eon]

I am mid 40's now. Have had MMF and FFM and also solo with each. When I was younger with an old flat mate we played around abit.
Being Young always up for new adventure and pushing boundaries i guess. I did wonder if Bi and felt strange at the thought.
Now older, more mature and i don't think i am Bi or even Bi Curious. I just think i am happy to do things that I enjoy and i am no longer worried about labels or titles. If it feels good, everyone's up for it. . . crack on
Mr Shrek after a MMF struggled with the "Bi" bit but in the end he decided if it feels good why worry.

Found this thread as a similar thread under the one about older men becoming bicurious and saw your avatar and I had to say something. It is beautiful. I will try to not to be jealous

 

[Marielani]

My mind has been thinking about this. There is the post about why older men become bi curious. But i wander being in a sexless marriage, do older women become curious about being with another woman ? I see women looking at women but i think it's just to see how they dress and look. Thoughts from both side

In my 40’s now and I find myself very bi curious.
im a professional women And find my mind wandering to what that co worker might be like.
im married(15 years) and straight.
but I find myself thinking more about women now then men.
my husband of course if I told him this would be thrilled. He would think he’s automatically invited to join.
but I would want to exclude him from it. Not even know I’m doing it.
my thing.. but where to begin.. maybe just my fantasy

 

[2tallpaul]

I've been divorced for a year and a half. Of the dates I've had, three said they were bi right up front, one totally straight and loves sex and one I didn't want to know. Youngest being 31 and that didn't surprise me, other than asked out as I'm 61. All the others in the 52 to 56 age range and the straight is 61. Two loved group sex and I noticed the Baby Boomers were not into it. I do feel the sexually active leaving bad marriages seem to enjoy the same sex. Listening to men complain, I certainly understand why.

It's too easy to ask are they turning bi. Look at the professions, dating and so many other variables. The lessening of sexual taboos and the joy in companionship have parts to play. A would guess by what I've been around are the sexually active older women are still alive and enjoying life more. If the partner is same sex, most are more active and love to travel. The actions are far greater than sex.

I find the greater question as why more men don't make a better effort with older women? I did not sleep with all of them but the communication was better than I ever had in marriage. So far, I'm finding the best sex of my life.

Hope you receive more feedback from women.

 

[hulmule]

In my 40’s now and I find myself very bi curious.
im a professional women And find my mind wandering to what that co worker might be like.
im married(15 years) and straight.
but I find myself thinking more about women now then men.
my husband of course if I told him this would be thrilled. He would think he’s automatically invited to join.
but I would want to exclude him from it. Not even know I’m doing it.
my thing.. but where to begin.. maybe just my fantasy

So what do you think drives this feeling in you?

 

[mad825]

I don't think it is that older women become bi curious, it's just that we finally don't give a f### and act on our feelings regardless of what anyone thinks and what sex the other person is.

That is an interesting point you make!

I like that idea.

 

[Cherry_Brandy]

Some ladies get curious, and go for a girl........

Yes and I have friends and family who do. But it's as alien to me, as me suddenly liking onions and spinach after 60 years. Everything is vaguely possible, life can hold surprises but highly unlikely.

 

[drobert44]

Yes and I have friends and family who do. But it's as alien to me, as me suddenly liking onions and spinach after 60 years. Everything is vaguely possible, life can hold surprises but highly unlikely.

I was surprised when, at 70, and widowed, I began dating sissies....

 

[shrek100]

Found this thread as a similar thread under the one about older men becoming bicurious and saw your avatar and I had to say something. It is beautiful. I will try to not to be jealous

As is yours

Found this thread as a similar thread under the one about older men becoming bicurious and saw your avatar and I had to say something. It is beautiful. I will try to not to be jealous