Do ladies like knowing?

[ShaneoD]

How do ladies feel about being told that a guy "enjoyed themselves" to pictures, gifs or links they posted, do ladies care for this type of feedback?

 

[Lady2020]

Depends on the man.

 

[ShaneoD]

Depends on the man.

That makes sense, am I going out on a limb by assuming there's a connection beforehand, and assuming that their level of respect would also be a factor.

 

[Chillygirl]

For the most part I’m flattered.

 

[Lady2020]

This is Lit. Learn on your own.

 

[Jada59]

Depends on the man.

Right.

 

[Acktion]

Speaking as a man, I don't typically bother a lady I don't know with what she is showing unless it was done for me privately. I can only recall maybe three times in all my years on Lit that I even bothered complimenting a lady I didn't previously know when she shared her image publicly. And then, I was very...mmm... careful, I guess, to keep my compliments to the more chivalrous style learned pre-internet.

However...

However, I do have a rather subtle sadistic stripe to my nature. And when someone I do know and know well shares an image, I have sometimes gleefully pointed out what the people commenting (and many who don't) are doing with those images.

***shrug*** I've been wrong a few times about just how the lady in question would take it.

But, when I'm not... oh, I have very much enjoyed how they squirm and blush and then go right back to the well, giving me more ammunition to tease her (always privately) about just what people are probably fantasizing about doing based on the image shared.

 

[Micio_Lambire]

How do ladies feel about being told that a guy "enjoyed themselves" to pictures, gifs or links they posted, do ladies care for this type of feedback?

Really depends on the wording for me

 

[SassySheDevil]

How do ladies feel about being told that a guy "enjoyed themselves" to pictures, gifs or links they posted, do ladies care for this type of feedback?

This is a hard one to answer with a simple answer.

On here. From a random person. Not a fan. Some form of flattery comes from compliments. But it depends on who's giving the compliments. If it comes from someone who compliments everything that breathes, it has very little value.
If it comes from someone you know doesn't comment to a lot of people, or you know is being genuine. It is flattering.
If it is someone that you know genuinely cares about you, is friendly with you, honestly means what they are saying. Then yes. I'm flattered.


But women come here for different things. Often times seeking different forms of attention/conversation/friendship etc.

So it depends on what she is seeking.

 

[SummerStar]

The more intimately I’m involved with the act, the more arousing it is.

Someone touching themself to my pic thread? Flattering, but doesn’t do much for me.

A picture or video I sent them directly? Love it.

Watching me in person drives me wild.

 

[occasional_lovers]

Do ladies like knowing? Yes, we do.
How do ladies feel about being told that a guy "enjoyed themselves" to pictures, gifs or links they posted. Speaking for myself, I feel flattered. And sometimes aroused, if I 'm told in the right manner.
Do ladies care for this type of feedback? If we didn't, I don't think the majority of us would post.

 

[marriedpervs]

How do ladies feel about being told that a guy "enjoyed themselves" to pictures, gifs or links they posted, do ladies care for this type of feedback?

I have to say I love knowing. I started posting on here and on Voyeurweb years ago and found it totally hot to read what men thought. Still doing it. Hot for me....

 

[marriedpervs]

Do ladies like knowing? Yes, we do.
How do ladies feel about being told that a guy "enjoyed themselves" to pictures, gifs or links they posted. Speaking for myself, I feel flattered. And sometimes aroused, if I 'm told in the right manner.
Do ladies care for this type of feedback? If we didn't, I don't think the majority of us would post.

Soooo true!! I feel exactly the same......

 

[CarlyAnn]

Depends on the man.

Ditto

 

[SCcouple1990]

Generally yes. There are however occasional creepy PMs that kind of make you wonder what they were thinking.

 

[MysteryMan2014]

My wife enjoys it. As others have said, it depends on the man and the circumstances but he does like knowing that other men still find her attractive and sexually desirable.

 

[rororochellle]

This is a hard one to answer with a simple answer.

On here. From a random person. Not a fan. Some form of flattery comes from compliments. But it depends on who's giving the compliments. If it comes from someone who compliments everything that breathes, it has very little value.
If it comes from someone you know doesn't comment to a lot of people, or you know is being genuine. It is flattering.
If it is someone that you know genuinely cares about you, is friendly with you, honestly means what they are saying. Then yes. I'm flattered.


But women come here for different things. Often times seeking different forms of attention/conversation/friendship etc.

So it depends on what she is seeking.

This.

 

[Tinycutie]

Generally yes.

 

[Mr_bogey]

The more intimately I’m involved with the act, the more arousing it is.

Someone touching themself to my pic thread? Flattering, but doesn’t do much for me.

A picture or video I sent them directly? Love it.

Watching me in person drives me wild.

I'm ready for this progression when you are.

 

[king04]

If I know the girl well enough I enjoy telling her how turned on i get from her pics

 

[Rockymtnman]

As a man, I can’t say how woman take the comments they get but I’ll say most are quite cringe worthy.

 

[Com9licity]

How do ladies feel about being told that a guy "enjoyed themselves" to pictures, gifs or links they posted, do ladies care for this type of feedback?

If my lady is in the mood yes she does.

 

[born2blossom]

I love knowing, it also lets me know I’m on the right track with my photos, especially when getting new ones taken