Do any men don't like going down on a woman?

[MsQuote]

Do any men not like going down on a woman?

I'm trying to address a question in for my Ms. Q & A column in my blog. I have a reader who says her boyfriend doesn't like going down on her. Any guys have these same qualms? Why?

 

[Suave_matt89]

i wouldn't as i would prefer to not get a secondary infection due to a compromised immune system and oral thrush. I'm not big on blowjobs as i've yet to get a good one so oral is non existent in my book.

 

[JoeZ1966]

I'm trying to address a question in for my Ms. Q & A column in my blog. I have a reader who says her boyfriend doesn't like going down on her. Any guys have these same qualms? Why?

I love to orally please my partner...I especially love a nice 69 session. Next favorite is having her ride my face. In my experience, the better the oral, the better the sex!

 

[kace53]

hell no!

This is my favourite part of foreplay.
I love it. Listening to her moans of pleasure.
Gets me hard without being touched

 

[suckonsimon]

I remember two things, way back ...

Thinking, 'what do I do here? I'll be lousy at this!'
Also, being not too sure about the taste.

For the first I listened to her, for the second, well, 'acquired' tastes are the ones you end up loving the most.

So, has this guy got stuck at one or both of the first hurdles? [actually, there aren't any more are there? ... yes there's another: avoiding injury to head and neck when close up to wildly bucking thighs and torso ...]

Si

ps another thought MsQ: There are a whole lot of guys out there who are basically selfish at a very deep level and want to 'take' a woman in order to enjoy the blast they get from first pinning her down and then dumping their seed. Do those guys want to go down on their woman? will they ever?

 

[fingermagic]

I like to go down on women, but if there is no cleanliness involved, it is certainly not pleasant. Men and women both are fun to have oral play with if you use some water and soap first.

 

[HussarVanburen]

Women service me, I do not service them. Oral is submissive.

 

[yossi]

Women service me, I do not service them. Oral is submissive.

I've received oral that in no way made the man feel like he was being submissive to me. So, I don't think it always needs to be shoved into that category.

 

[walkingeagle]

I love it!--

 

[suckonsimon]

Women service me, I do not service them. Oral is submissive.

I find that if I don't service my car I end up chugging along in the slow lane and if I take it off road is just konks out and I have to walk home.

 

[julius_1975ct]

i love love love going down on my wife... and I am not submissive at all

 

[Aphro]

Women service me, I do not service them. Oral is submissive.

Ooooh, aren't you just a ray of sunshine and light?

No soup for you!!!

 

[1Browneyedguy]

Waving - I Love it !

Besides foreplay is in many ways the BEST part of sex

 

[silverwhisper]

yes, there are men who don't like going down on women. there's even a word for them: lonely. :>



i love cunnilingus, but for those who don't, there may be some practical considerations. i find giving oral is a lot easier when the area's trimmed, which has the additional merit of sensitizing the area as well. just plain good hygiene is usually a good thing as well, although i'm aware that there are certainly some who feel differently.

this question might be better in how to rather than here on f&s central, msquote.

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[MsQuote]

Women service me, I do not service them. Oral is submissive.

You're not a Dom; you're a dick.

Given the tone of your attitude toward women on other posts on the Lit boards, I doubt if you would take my interpretation of what D/s and being a Dom is all about. I posted your comment in the Dick or Dom? thread on the BDSM Talk board and asked Doms and Dommes to reply.

Maybe you'll learn something, maybe you won't.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

I was still a very young man when I learned what would later become fairly obvious: women love receiving good oral sex. At a time of my life when I was young and single and only interested in one thing, having good oral skills was the factor that generated repeat business. I've been an avid practitioner ever since.

 

[gk6h]

I cant find any reason not to like it..****

 

[DarkLisa]

I was still a very young man when I learned what would later become fairly obvious: women love receiving good oral sex. At a time of my life when I was young and single and only interested in one thing, having good oral skills was the factor that generated repeat business. I've been an avid practitioner ever since.

So you don't mention if you actually like it or not. Do you do it to get repeat business, or because your partner enjoys it, or because you enjoy it? Or all of the above?

And did you start out liking it back when you were young and realized it made the ladies come back for more, or did it grow on you over time? Just curious.

 

[UhlBWett]

Lol

Women service me, I do not service them. Oral is submissive.

If you give oral submissively, you aren't doing it right...... Kiss it, lick it and suck it like you own it. Real Doms know the difference. Ignoring a woman's pleasure is submissive.......

 

[soflabbwlvr]

So you don't mention if you actually like it or not. Do you do it to get repeat business, or because your partner enjoys it, or because you enjoy it? Or all of the above?

And did you start out liking it back when you were young and realized it made the ladies come back for more, or did it grow on you over time? Just curious.

Good questions. I think I initially went down to satisfy my curiosity. I was young and trying to expedience all things sexual. At first if wasn't something I liked or disliked. I was experimenting. Of course, I had no idea what I was doing. I do remember that girls I went down on were more likely to go down on me. I liked receiving, so I had no qualms about giving.

As I gained experience, I became more skilled. I think it was around that time that I began to enjoy the pleasure I was giving to women. Since I was one of the few guys doing it I was getting plenty of practice, and getting better all the time. I guess I was in my early 20s when I realized I loved everything about it. I love the pleasure the woman receives, I love feeling her body respond, and I love how much more she enjoys fucking after she has been thoroughly and properly licked. When I go down , I stay down until she can't take any more.

 

[DarkLisa]

When I go down , I stay down until she can't take any more.

In my opinion, you need to put this quote in your signature. You'll be peeling the ladies off of your legs just to be able to walk anywhere.

Thanks for your answers, makes a lot of sense.

 

[eric60red]

cuningness

I love to taste of a woman, smell her, touch her, hear her moan, and will spend as long as it takes kissing, licking, sucking her until she begs me to stop and take her with my erectile missile.

My pleasure is in tasting her, and making her cum again and again. I suppose its a hobby of mine.

 

[eric60red]

Women service me, I do not service them. Oral is submissive.

Oh dear, dear, dear. Somebody has a lot to learn, and earn respect, I give lessons.
Oral sex is one of the most delightfull experiences, I like giving and receiving to both man and women. Part of the enjoyment is knowing that you have pleased somebody to the extent that they want to please you and will come back for more and more. Im not submissive in fact quite the opposite.

 

[soflabbwlvr]

In my opinion, you need to put this quote in your signature. You'll be peeling the ladies off of your legs just to be able to walk anywhere.

Thanks for your answers, makes a lot of sense.

That's the code I live by.

 

[heyrocky]

Does the sun rise in the east and set in the west. Go down and stay there as long as you like I'm sure she won't mind