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It depends on several factors, according to My wench & others:
1. Cleanliness. What does it smell like down there? sweat, dried pee, dried cum, or soap & water & maybe some cologne? Did you wash it after the last time you removed your clothes? Would you be happy sitting around sucking in the fumes from your underwear or sticking your nose in your own armpit for half an hour?
2. Choice. Are you pushing, yanking her head down or can she do this at her own pace?
3. Muscle soreness. Does she experience jaw discomfort? Does she have TMJ? Try putting a salami log into your mouth for 1/2 an hour and don't leave any teeth marks -- what's it feel like to your jaw muscles?
4. The cum itself: flavor, consistancy, texture. What do you eat & do you smoke? It changes the flavor... Some girls adore all male-cum, some only like certain flavors or consistancies, and some find the idea repulsive in general. Would you eat it? Don't ask her to do what you wouldn't.
Hope that clarifies the mysteries...
1. Cleanliness. What does it smell like down there? sweat, dried pee, dried cum, or soap & water & maybe some cologne? Did you wash it after the last time you removed your clothes? Would you be happy sitting around sucking in the fumes from your underwear or sticking your nose in your own armpit for half an hour?
2. Choice. Are you pushing, yanking her head down or can she do this at her own pace?
3. Muscle soreness. Does she experience jaw discomfort? Does she have TMJ? Try putting a salami log into your mouth for 1/2 an hour and don't leave any teeth marks -- what's it feel like to your jaw muscles?
4. The cum itself: flavor, consistancy, texture. What do you eat & do you smoke? It changes the flavor... Some girls adore all male-cum, some only like certain flavors or consistancies, and some find the idea repulsive in general. Would you eat it? Don't ask her to do what you wouldn't.
Hope that clarifies the mysteries...
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TheCyberPoet said:
LMAO.........
Ok that was just too much.....All of his points are very valid and true.....
Not all women like sucking dick as not all men like eating pussy...It is all about personal preferece. Possibly she reserves that for the man she will marry.....Maybe she just doesn't like it....Maybe she doesn't like the cum in her mouth....Maybe maybe.....
I think the only way you will truly know is to ask her why she doesn't like it...........
Good Luck,
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Well, i'm going to give my 2cents. I'm not a "dick sucker", i have done it a fair share, but i don't like it. Just like some men don't like eating pussy. Oral sex isn't for EVERYONE. Different strokes for different folks they say. I don't like to do it because i was FORCED to do it. And that has turned me off. And when i did do it, just because pornstar so and so likes to deep throat and have her mouth fucked and likes cum in her mouth, doesn't mean I like that. Maybe when the time is right i'll do it again, but for now, it's just not my forte. Talk to her, find out why she isn't into it. Be understanding, and make it fun for her if she decides to do it for you. Maybe edible oils, gels and whip creams might make it easier for her. If that still doesn't work after you've tried these things and have spoken to her, maybe you need to realize that not all women suck dick, just like all men don't eat pussy.
There are many different factors that can come into play like CyberPoet mentioned. I guess talk to your GF and see what she has to say, maybe she was raised thinking it was nasty, or maybe she was forced to do it, or had a bad experience, or the problem is your hygiene. You won't know the answer until you ask her.
In anycase, Good Luck to you.
There are many different factors that can come into play like CyberPoet mentioned. I guess talk to your GF and see what she has to say, maybe she was raised thinking it was nasty, or maybe she was forced to do it, or had a bad experience, or the problem is your hygiene. You won't know the answer until you ask her.
In anycase, Good Luck to you.
TheCyberPoet said:
This is a good point. Not many people are aware that jaw discomfort or disorders may be to blame. I personally have TMJ. My spine is out of alignment, as well as my jaw isn't set correctly and this limits how far I can open my mouth. Going any wider than my current "range of motion" provides me with chronic pain. So my fellatio practices have always been limited. I don't like it much anyway, because like TheCyberPoet said, try sucking off a sausage log for a half hour without leaving teeth marks. Heh.
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I know that all women don't like it. I love to suck cock but that doesn't mean that it is the only thing I want to do as far as sex goes though,or that I want to do it everyday.
All of the others have valid points too. When hubby and I were first married,I hated it,but as time has gone by...wellll let's just say we have fun with it now, so Good Luck and be patient with her,it may happen yet.
All of the others have valid points too. When hubby and I were first married,I hated it,but as time has gone by...wellll let's just say we have fun with it now, so Good Luck and be patient with her,it may happen yet.
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OMG Cipher my dear..yu hit the nail on the head...what is it a bout deep-throating...I do it if I feel he will enjoy it....I'm really into oral....because that is the easiest way for me to be satisfied....and again that is a personal choice....some men arent into that..and some enjoy that more that having themselves satisfied that way....I will do it for awhile but then I want to finish the *old fashioned way*...and never do I want to feel forced or have him feel forced....like my little one said..
Different strokes for different folks....and it must be a 2-way street!!..That's what it's all about...pleasure....and of course cleanliness is a big PLUS!!!! Nothing turns me off faster...then a bad smell and women need to be aware of that also....
Different strokes for different folks....and it must be a 2-way street!!..That's what it's all about...pleasure....and of course cleanliness is a big PLUS!!!! Nothing turns me off faster...then a bad smell and women need to be aware of that also....
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I realize now, that in my sleepy state last night, that I missed a few possible reasons...
Cipher mentioned one: upbringing and perception of the act as something less than desirable. Did her mother possibly say "That is disgusting, I can't imagine how any woman could take that thing in their mouth!?! They pee through it!" or perhaps "it's only for making babies -- waste not his seed"?
39_Keeper mentioned another indirectly: lack of positive or overwhelming response from the recipient. How inclined would you be to give your partner a backrub if she simply didn't get much from it (or at least appeared not to get much from it)? Do you turn off the TV, put down the book, remove anything that could be considered a distraction, or are you hoping for a quickie bj between 1st and 4th down color commentary on ESPN? Extend this thought even further -- are you providing her adequet warning that you are about to cum, or just popping off in her mouth (possibly gagging her in the process) without any warning?
[oh, by the way, 39_Keeper: I used to feel the way you do about them until I met a woman who loved to give head and who I loved & let down the barriers for; she is gone on her way, but the concept remains].
Cipher mentioned one: upbringing and perception of the act as something less than desirable. Did her mother possibly say "That is disgusting, I can't imagine how any woman could take that thing in their mouth!?! They pee through it!" or perhaps "it's only for making babies -- waste not his seed"?
39_Keeper mentioned another indirectly: lack of positive or overwhelming response from the recipient. How inclined would you be to give your partner a backrub if she simply didn't get much from it (or at least appeared not to get much from it)? Do you turn off the TV, put down the book, remove anything that could be considered a distraction, or are you hoping for a quickie bj between 1st and 4th down color commentary on ESPN? Extend this thought even further -- are you providing her adequet warning that you are about to cum, or just popping off in her mouth (possibly gagging her in the process) without any warning?
[oh, by the way, 39_Keeper: I used to feel the way you do about them until I met a woman who loved to give head and who I loved & let down the barriers for; she is gone on her way, but the concept remains].
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guess ill toss in my 5 sents <inflation>
ive had women who did, did not/refused, did it strictly for my benefit, for arousal only, or they were jsut plain smitten with sucking.
ive cum from a blowjob, ive been teased relentlessly, or just plain old teased and left hanging...or not...umm you get the meaning
for myself, to receove or not to receive....every occasion is different as is every women. go with the flow
and i have done the same for women, teased, pleased, and just plain kept licking until they begged for me to finally stop then gave them a kiss and let em fall asleep.
hell, take each moment as it comes, every time is different regardless if youve been together 40 years, if its not...then try starting some changes.....feel your partner out
damn, dr spock i am not...dont mind the ramblings of this poor old grizzled pup
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ive had women who did, did not/refused, did it strictly for my benefit, for arousal only, or they were jsut plain smitten with sucking.
ive cum from a blowjob, ive been teased relentlessly, or just plain old teased and left hanging...or not...umm you get the meaning
for myself, to receove or not to receive....every occasion is different as is every women. go with the flow
and i have done the same for women, teased, pleased, and just plain kept licking until they begged for me to finally stop then gave them a kiss and let em fall asleep.
hell, take each moment as it comes, every time is different regardless if youve been together 40 years, if its not...then try starting some changes.....feel your partner out
damn, dr spock i am not...dont mind the ramblings of this poor old grizzled pup
Wolf
There was another reason that I have found about not liking to "suck him off." I had an ex who could only become erect for a short time. Once he came, his recovery time took hours. So if it came down to me giving him a blowjob or penetration......guess which choice usually won out?
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well naturally i would go down oon her even if she wont. not just for her pleasure, its an extreme turn on. between the taste, the smell, the physical touch and feeling, and her reactions.
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Prefered sucking:
According to slave p, her preference in cocks is straight-as-a-nail cocks with no mottling (changes in skin coloration), which are freshly washed & dried, and she added -- in some senses, smaller is better, since there's less fatigue and if it's small enough, deep-throating is possible/easy. According to her, her preference in pussy is: clean, shaved from the clit down, less intense flavors are better.
Now, as for My opinions on the matter:
Cock -- I don't suck 'em (sorry guys -- tried once in my youth; wasn't my thing), and therefore will not permit Myself an opinion beyond that shared by others who do more regularly.
Pussy -- Ok, there's a variety of answers to parts of this.
Hair: I prefer smooth and shaved across the labia, but am not disagreeable to hair, as it's not so long as to poke Me in the eye, nor so course as to be patently rough against My lips.
Taste: I tend to find that the lighter the hair color, the better the natural pussy juices taste (a generalization, but in a range from sweet as honey to very musky-intense and bitter-tangy, I've generally found true blondes sweeter and black-haired women muskier [esp. many black women]).
Health & Cleanliness: Healthiness and cleanliness is a big must (I don't want to smell excess yeast, a bacterial infection, iodine & vinniger, nor your last trip to the bathroom), but I don't object to what might be referred to as 'sloppy seconds' (i.e. after the pussy has been filled with cum from penetration), nor your natural juices in massive quantities.
Reactiveness: Obviously, I'd prefer a woman who enjoys the sensation, and who isn't going to get burned out right away either (too sensitive), but simultanously isn't going to need Me to chew directly on her clit for her to feel anything. My lips go numb after about 45 minutes of good licking, so that better be soon enough! If you're having multiple orgasms [MO], great, I'm all for it, but if I can give you at least one good one (for those of you who aren't MO-capable all the time), I'm happy.
Labia: longer, wider, thinner is better. Strictly matter of opinion. Then again, I've never met a labia I hated. Like sucking on them.
Clit & hood: No cliterdectomies, please. And, yes, I know enough to know that different women have different pressure-pleasure threshholds, and not all like direct clitoral stimulation, but I do prefer women who can enjoy at least very light direct contact so I don't have to go out of my way to avoid it all together.
Big No-No's: nonoxyl-anything (especially nonoxyl-9) -- lips burning and going numb, face all contorted in pain!
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According to slave p, her preference in cocks is straight-as-a-nail cocks with no mottling (changes in skin coloration), which are freshly washed & dried, and she added -- in some senses, smaller is better, since there's less fatigue and if it's small enough, deep-throating is possible/easy. According to her, her preference in pussy is: clean, shaved from the clit down, less intense flavors are better.
Now, as for My opinions on the matter:
Cock -- I don't suck 'em (sorry guys -- tried once in my youth; wasn't my thing), and therefore will not permit Myself an opinion beyond that shared by others who do more regularly.
Pussy -- Ok, there's a variety of answers to parts of this.
Hair: I prefer smooth and shaved across the labia, but am not disagreeable to hair, as it's not so long as to poke Me in the eye, nor so course as to be patently rough against My lips.
Taste: I tend to find that the lighter the hair color, the better the natural pussy juices taste (a generalization, but in a range from sweet as honey to very musky-intense and bitter-tangy, I've generally found true blondes sweeter and black-haired women muskier [esp. many black women]).
Health & Cleanliness: Healthiness and cleanliness is a big must (I don't want to smell excess yeast, a bacterial infection, iodine & vinniger, nor your last trip to the bathroom), but I don't object to what might be referred to as 'sloppy seconds' (i.e. after the pussy has been filled with cum from penetration), nor your natural juices in massive quantities.
Reactiveness: Obviously, I'd prefer a woman who enjoys the sensation, and who isn't going to get burned out right away either (too sensitive), but simultanously isn't going to need Me to chew directly on her clit for her to feel anything. My lips go numb after about 45 minutes of good licking, so that better be soon enough! If you're having multiple orgasms [MO], great, I'm all for it, but if I can give you at least one good one (for those of you who aren't MO-capable all the time), I'm happy.
Labia: longer, wider, thinner is better. Strictly matter of opinion. Then again, I've never met a labia I hated. Like sucking on them.
Clit & hood: No cliterdectomies, please. And, yes, I know enough to know that different women have different pressure-pleasure threshholds, and not all like direct clitoral stimulation, but I do prefer women who can enjoy at least very light direct contact so I don't have to go out of my way to avoid it all together.
Big No-No's: nonoxyl-anything (especially nonoxyl-9) -- lips burning and going numb, face all contorted in pain!
=-= The CyberPoet
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while i would have to agree on the nonoxyl9, i havnt figured out my preference yet so i guess ill just have to keep trying <g>
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I don't hate giving a blow job. Actually the thought of it turns me on quite alot. But I do have one problem. I have a very bad gag reflex. If I'm really turned on it seems to go away but if I'm not, even if I want to, I just can't do it. I've never had anyone cum in my mouth for that reason. I'm just afraid of what might happen. Precum doesn't bother me though.
It's also interesting how people see giving or receiving a blow job so differently. 39_Keeper said that the man gives up control when getting a blow job but I always saw it more as a very submissive position to be in for the female. Maybe for that reason also I've always seen it as a more intimate act to perform then actually having intercourse.
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It's also interesting how people see giving or receiving a blow job so differently. 39_Keeper said that the man gives up control when getting a blow job but I always saw it more as a very submissive position to be in for the female. Maybe for that reason also I've always seen it as a more intimate act to perform then actually having intercourse.
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