Do 10’s try as hard?

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I have been with under tens and closer to the bottom the better the sex. I had some those really close to a ten and the sex was good but the ones are 8 and bellow fuck my brains out.
 
First, yes, women are people. We shouldn't judge. etc.

My history is mostly having whatever sex I had with women I was in a relationship with. Thinking about those women, I see no correlation between looks and 'trying hard' in bed.

The few 'brief encounters' I had were didn't prove much either. A couple of real hotties were pretty passive.

Of the two women who were the most sexual and most 'aggressive' with me, one was very attractive, maybe a 10, and the other was not what most guys would call beautiful.

I think the way a woman was brought up and her early experiences with sex determine how 'hard they try'.
 
First, yes, women are people. We shouldn't judge. etc.

My history is mostly having whatever sex I had with women I was in a relationship with. Thinking about those women, I see no correlation between looks and 'trying hard' in bed.

The few 'brief encounters' I had were didn't prove much either. A couple of real hotties were pretty passive.

Of the two women who were the most sexual and most 'aggressive' with me, one was very attractive, maybe a 10, and the other was not what most guys would call beautiful.

I think the way a woman was brought up and her early experiences with sex determine how 'hard they try'.
Well said.
 
The hottest girl in a strip joint usually doesn’t put much effort into it because she doesn’t have to. She’ll still make money even if she doesn’t try.

There are a whole bunch of factors that play into how much a woman applies herself to stripping or fucking. The fact that she is hot enough to get away with not applying herself may be one of those factors but it is far from definitive. Are there women who coast on their good looks? Yes there are. Do good looking women usually coast on their good looks? No that is much too much of a generalization.

It is like asking if gifted athletes are more inclined to neglect their conditioning or practice or if naturally intelligent people are lazy because they can get away with it. Sure it happens but it is altogether unfair to make such a generalization.
 
I have been with under tens and closer to the bottom the better the sex. I had some those really close to a ten and the sex was good but the ones are 8 and bellow fuck my brains out.
First, what does try hard even mean? I'd hope that you are both putting in the effort 🤣 or it's just a waste of time.
Looks and ratings are arbitrary and very person to person(as was pointed out)

Maybe the ones “lower” on your scale are more interested in you...maybe you were intimidated by the “10’s” so your effort was less and the resulting sex reflected that.

There are too many factors that go into why sex is good or not. Tying it to “attractiveness” will only be anecdotal and apply to your experience because atractivness is subjective.

Find the right person(people 😜) and the reward will be soooooo worth it.
 
I’m a 5 when just out puttering around. But when I hit the beach…I’m a 10 baby. Don’t even have to try. People just stop and stare!😂

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Attitude…is everything😉
 
There are a whole bunch of factors that play into how much a woman applies herself to stripping or fucking. The fact that she is hot enough to get away with not applying herself may be one of those factors but it is far from definitive. Are there women who coast on their good looks? Yes there are. Do good looking women usually coast on their good looks? No that is much too much of a generalization.

It is like asking if gifted athletes are more inclined to neglect their conditioning or practice or if naturally intelligent people are lazy because they can get away with it. Sure it happens but it is altogether unfair to make such a generalization.
These typs of generalization about all members of a group, like all good looking women or all older men can interfere with our ability to see people as individuals.
 
growing up back in the old country - my aunt had a store and she carried playboy. us servicemen would go in there.
anyway, I'd look at those beautiful girls - and compare myself - just a skinny Chinese girl. my tits weren't much more than poky nipples.
I'd wonder how am I going to get a guy to like me.
I had to overcome feelings of inadequacy with super friendliness.

Don’t worry. As I am sure you discovered, there are plenty of guys like me who love small breasted women!
 
growing up back in the old country - my aunt had a store and she carried playboy. us servicemen would go in there.
anyway, I'd look at those beautiful girls - and compare myself - just a skinny Chinese girl. my tits weren't much more than poky nipples.
I'd wonder how am I going to get a guy to like me.
I had to overcome feelings of inadequacy with super friendliness.
You are beautiful
 
Be the best Fuck you can be. It has it's own rewards!
 
IME women reflect what they experience, i.e., how I act or vibe gets reflected. (Usually.) So if I'm relaxed she'll be relaxed. If I'm intense she'll be intense. Some guys might be more nervous or uptight around a woman they deem a "10." Can't prove that, just a possibility.
 
There are a whole bunch of factors that play into how much a woman applies herself to stripping or fucking. The fact that she is hot enough to get away with not applying herself may be one of those factors but it is far from definitive. Are there women who coast on their good looks? Yes there are. Do good looking women usually coast on their good looks? No that is much too much of a generalization.

It is like asking if gifted athletes are more inclined to neglect their conditioning or practice or if naturally intelligent people are lazy because they can get away with it. Sure it happens but it is altogether unfair to make such a generalization.
Apples and oranges
 
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