Distance Domination-Support Thread

[ecstaticsub]

Best visit ever.

 

[the captians wench]

Best visit ever.

*huggles*

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Best visit ever.

Hi ES, glad you had fun! *huggs*





Hi everyone!

It been a while since I posted here. I've been a mess lately so I wasn't around that much, rather lol. Sometimes the distance becomes too hard to bear and since theres not much you can do about it, I was just peevish/moody/teary/explosive, simply not in the best mood for any creative posts. I still am sometimes, my kids could tell.. Guess we all have bad days, mine tend to last for weeks without him by my side. I am better being left all alone when I get like this.

I feel pretty okay today, so thought I would pop up and say Hello to my old friends. I have not forgot about this site, it changed my life in so many ways. I've discovered about my submissive side on this site and learned a lot about D/s relationships in the past few years. And the most, I found my Daddy/love/man here with whom I will have a wee baby very soon! The docs said it seems it will be a girl, we agreed on a Rose name for her.

So no I can't really forget about Literotica. It's not just pixels on the screen for me. It's lots of people I love, respect and care about. I will always be somewhere around and in a touch.

Hope you all doing well and staying strong!!
*HUGGS and HUGGS*
~Kate

 

[the captians wench]

Hi ES, glad you had fun! *huggs*





Hi everyone!

It been a while since I posted here. I've been a mess lately so I wasn't around that much, rather lol. Sometimes the distance becomes too hard to bear and since theres not much you can do about it, I was just peevish/moody/teary/explosive, simply not in the best mood for any creative posts. I still am sometimes, my kids could tell.. Guess we all have bad days, mine tend to last for weeks without him by my side. I am better being left all alone when I get like this.

I feel pretty okay today, so thought I would pop up and say Hello to my old friends. I have not forgot about this site, it changed my life in so many ways. I've discovered about my submissive side on this site and learned a lot about D/s relationships in the past few years. And the most, I found my Daddy/love/man here with whom I will have a wee baby very soon! The docs said it seems it will be a girl, we agreed on a Rose name for her.

So no I can't really forget about Literotica. It's not just pixels on the screen for me. It's lots of people I love, respect and care about. I will always be somewhere around and in a touch.

Hope you all doing well and staying strong!!
*HUGGS and HUGGS*
~Kate

*pouning huggles*

So good to hear from you.

And I'm so excited about the baby!

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

*pouning huggles*

So good to hear from you.

And I'm so excited about the baby!

Hi Wenchie and thank you!!

I am very excited about the baby as well! A bit scared cuz of the labor, but excited.


Hope all is well with you! *huggs back*

 

[ecstaticsub]

Hi Wenchie and thank you!!

I am very excited about the baby as well! A bit scared cuz of the labor, but excited.


Hope all is well with you! *huggs back*

Glad you stopped by here. Rose is such a sweet name, I love it.

I know your life is busy, but you and your relationship with Jockdom is an inspiration for people in LDRs. It is so wonderful that he will be moving to be together with you as a family along with your girls and your new baby.

Please come back when you can and keep us updated.

 

[KoPilot]

Hi Wenchie and thank you!!

I am very excited about the baby as well! A bit scared cuz of the labor, but excited.


Hope all is well with you! *huggs back*

I don't think I know you, but I agree with everyone else: I'm super glad all of everything worked out for you so wonderfully! It really does give hope and inspiration to the rest of us.

 

[BiaTcHiNFiRe]

Glad you stopped by here. Rose is such a sweet name, I love it.

I know your life is busy, but you and your relationship with Jockdom is an inspiration for people in LDRs. It is so wonderful that he will be moving to be together with you as a family along with your girls and your new baby.

Please come back when you can and keep us updated.

Thank you, ES!

I love the Rose name very much as well. Cannot wait to have them both here with me!!

Roll on February, roll on!!!

I don't think I know you, but I agree with everyone else: I'm super glad all of everything worked out for you so wonderfully! It really does give hope and inspiration to the rest of us.

Thank you, KoPilot!

 

[the captians wench]

There are some days that I need so badly that I think I'm going to fall apart and I start questioning everything.

Then I get a text out of no where, my heart flutters, and I remember why I keep pushing on.

How does he know when I need that? It's uncanny.

 

[ecstaticsub]

There are some days that I need so badly that I think I'm going to fall apart and I start questioning everything.

Then I get a text out of no where, my heart flutters, and I remember why I keep pushing on.

How does he know when I need that? It's uncanny.

It is, isn't it? I've experienced the same. (except we don't text, so it's usually a link to a song that he puts on my wall or IM's me. )

I try to remember that it works both ways. I try to make sure i send him off little reminders of how much I love him, need him and miss him other than our usual phone chatting.

 

[the captians wench]

It is, isn't it? I've experienced the same. (except we don't text, so it's usually a link to a song that he puts on my wall or IM's me. )

I try to remember that it works both ways. I try to make sure i send him off little reminders of how much I love him, need him and miss him other than our usual phone chatting.

I've been having a "crazy life" week and a half where it seems like I'm never home except to sleep and even that's not for long, so we've been texting a lot more than usual.

And I think it might have a bit to do with the second part of your comment. I've been so stressed out and angry with the world that I haven't been as good about sending him reminders that I'm thinking about him like I usually am.

 

[SubKekiLee]

Its been a LONG time since I checked in with all my friends here.. I hope everyone is getting what you need or desire... So much has changed that sometimes I forget how I should check in..

In Oct 2010 3 big things happened.. I turned 40 and the night of my birthday party at my Favorite Dungeon... Sir Collared me I am now his Owned and Collared submissive/slave... and we Celebrated 3 years together.. I can remember when people who post here thought it was a faze and a flash in the pan.. We are making plans now to move in together.. I had surgery... and am recovering nicely now..

I can remember the night I met him.. and I look at us now.. and cant imagine my life without him..

So to all those here that are my sisters in submission.. Hang on love tightly and enjoy your life..


So waving HI.. from Sunny Florida..

 

[BindnCufTite]

I was delighted to find this thread, I have attempted and failed at distant Dom'ing. Yet the one time I didn't TRY I was blown away with the result.

 

[the captians wench]

I'm feeling settled into the distance again. That bothers me. I'm not sure why feeling comfortable in the distance eats at me more than missing him constantly does, but it does. I don't like it. Any of it.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I'm feeling settled into the distance again. That bothers me. I'm not sure why feeling comfortable in the distance eats at me more than missing him constantly does, but it does. I don't like it. Any of it.

Because it feels like you should be missing him constantly, so when you don't you're like "why the fuck aren't I missing him constantly??" and you get all balled up in your head. It's like all the misery of missing, but with the addition of guilt and/or coming up short of perceived expectation.

And yah...both suck

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

I should be with her right now, but the visit had to be canceled. I even had a dream last night that I was with her.

Sucks, to say the least.

 

[the captians wench]

Because it feels like you should be missing him constantly, so when you don't you're like "why the fuck aren't I missing him constantly??" and you get all balled up in your head. It's like all the misery of missing, but with the addition of guilt and/or coming up short of perceived expectation.

And yah...both suck

I think it's more than that. I'm a fighter, I don't like just settling when I'm not getting my way. And not fighting to be there feels like giving up. I don't like that feeling.

I should be with her right now, but the visit had to be canceled. I even had a dream last night that I was with her.

Sucks, to say the least.

I'm sorry to hear that dear. Will you be able to reschedule soon?



More bad news this week. Ireland is looking like it's heading for bankruptsy.

 

[CurlyKat]

I'm feeling settled into the distance again. That bothers me. I'm not sure why feeling comfortable in the distance eats at me more than missing him constantly does, but it does. I don't like it. Any of it.

I wish I could get back to this part of things. At first I was disappointed when we were both in the same state, because I felt like things should be different, but they weren't. Nine hours of driving is still a long way when we're both busy as all get out with school, and since we're both grad students living on stipends, money is an issue as well. The missing him and feeling like there should be something I can do about it is driving me crazy. I need to be able to just acknowledge that it's there, then put that aside to be able to keep doing what I need to do here.

It's bad because missing him so intensely so often makes me feel like I need something... more? extra? different? I'm not really sure what I need.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

I'm sorry to hear that dear. Will you be able to reschedule soon?

Thanks.

Not sure. Just have to play it by ear for now. Hopefully it won't be too long.

And hopefully you'll get to visit your man soon. I know it's far overdue.

 

[the captians wench]

Thanks.

Not sure. Just have to play it by ear for now. Hopefully it won't be too long.

And hopefully you'll get to visit your man soon. I know it's far overdue.

Understatement of the year.

The euro zone is pretty well fucked right now, and just as every one's eyes were on Greece durring the begining of the year, they're all on Ireland now. If Ireland goes bankrupt, or accepts the euro zone bail out, no one is sure how that will impact the ecconomy. When Greece went under, euro dropped low enough that I got a pretty nice stash stored away. Could mean the same if Ireland does, but then there is likely to not be as many businesses to spend my money in either, so I might not even need it.

Just don't know yet. But I think he's understanding just how much I need a visit now. And how little I care what we do.

 

[Mine2Sir]

Was very glad to find this thread, I'm in a LDR and sometimes it seems like I'm going a little crazy with missing my Master. I'm seeing him in 12 days and it seems to be the longest 12 days of my life. Glad to be here,

 

[mardin]

Coming in late, hope this thread is alive and well

Well I have been D/s LDR for over a year. We supplement our contact using a online virtual world, but for all actual purposes we are just distance extended, I have to catchup before I start throwing my two cents in.

Just so the reference is correct I am the Dom and in a open all cards up relationship with another, she is the sub and in a relationship where I am unknown. We spend of average 7 hours a day chatting via the internet. If you have any questions I'll be glad to try and answer them.

 

[mardin]

Disappointment comes for both sides

With less that 3 week till out next time together, today i found out the all is postponed until January ....I took it well but inside I was totally pissed i have waited all year ...sigh guess I will make it.

 

[Mine2Sir]

With less that 3 week till out next time together, today i found out the all is postponed until January ....I took it well but inside I was totally pissed i have waited all year ...sigh guess I will make it.

Very sorry to hear your plans fell thru.
.

 

[ecstaticsub]

With less that 3 week till out next time together, today i found out the all is postponed until January ....I took it well but inside I was totally pissed i have waited all year ...sigh guess I will make it.

Sorry to hear that. Cancellations suck. Welcome to the thread and the ups and downs of LDRs.