Distance Domination-Support Thread

[sinnocence]

Thursday Thursday Thursday.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Thursday Thursday Thursday.

First two and a half years together....no visits.

Last four months....TWO visits.

Tis the crazy world of LDRs.

Another amazing, great, fun, fulfilling, and perfect time with my girl.

Can NOT wait for the next time.

 

[kimuk]

Hi

i met my Master here on new years day this year. In the terms of a LDR we live fairly near 120miles apart. But we have our own restrictions.
So in 3weeks time were going to meet.
i'm terrified and excited and have a million other thoughts and emotions going through my head.
But first meet tips? i'd be greatful to know how your first meeting went .......?
wish me luck

 

[ecstaticsub]

First two and a half years together....no visits.

Last four months....TWO visits.

Tis the crazy world of LDRs.

Another amazing, great, fun, fulfilling, and perfect time with my girl.

Can NOT wait for the next time.

I am so happy for the two of you. I hope your next time comes soon.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Hi

i met my Master here on new years day this year. In the terms of a LDR we live fairly near 120miles apart. But we have our own restrictions.
So in 3weeks time were going to meet.
i'm terrified and excited and have a million other thoughts and emotions going through my head.
But first meet tips? i'd be greatful to know how your first meeting went .......?
wish me luck

We had been talking almost daily for about 4-5 months before our first meeting. I was also very nervous but excited. I did all the recommended safety measures. When it came down to the first minutes of being together it felt like we had known each other forever. My nervousness went away instantly and I was just excited.

Welcome and good luck.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

I am so happy for the two of you. I hope your next time comes soon.

Thank you. Me too.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Le sigh.

I miss her terribly.

 

[the captians wench]

More bad news on Ireland's economy today.

Means this time line is going to get longer.

That's getting very hard.

 

[KoPilot]

More bad news on Ireland's economy today.

Means this time line is going to get longer.

That's getting very hard.

-hugs-

Hang in there! Dx

 

[the captians wench]

-hugs-

Hang in there! Dx

Thanks.

The thing about it is that as the economy falls, it gets cheaper to travel and stay there, but that also means that he has work troubles because as the economy slips so does the amount of hours he gets at work. So while it's a great time for me financially to make the trip, it's just as poor a time for him to have me there to entertain.

Nasty little circle it is.

And I can't even begin to imagin what this does to that "m" word conversation.

 

[the captians wench]

And I realized an hour ago that it's been 5 years since I first offered myself as Jounar's.

We never do anything special really, but I usually look forward to the marker. Can't believe I nearly missed it this year. Man am I off my game.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

More bad news on Ireland's economy today.

Means this time line is going to get longer.

That's getting very hard.

Ok, random Q... but why doesn't he come to you?

 

[the captians wench]

Ok, random Q... but why doesn't he come to you?

Very complicated. Sending PM.

 

[sinnocence]

Le sigh.

I miss her terribly.

And I miss you terribly.

 

[the captians wench]

grrr. just grr

 

[KoPilot]

grrr. just grr

-more hugs- :<

 

[ecstaticsub]

It's only been two months since the last visit. That visit seems so long ago though. Maybe because it was just a quick 24 hr visit? I don't know.

It looks like there is a very good chance I will see him in Oct. It will most likely be another quick visit. If I have to make a choice I think I like having the 24 hour visits every 10 weeks then the 48 hr visits every 6 months.

Either way, I can't wait to see him.

 

[kimuk]

I have to tell someone and its not the sort of thing you can pop into conversation in the coffee break at work.....i met my Dom for the first time today!!!! 4hours of bliss ...that passed in an instant but felt SOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! good.

Contented , happy, used , abused and truly owned !!

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

I have to tell someone and its not the sort of thing you can pop into conversation in the coffee break at work.....i met my Dom for the first time today!!!! 4hours of bliss ...that passed in an instant but felt SOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! good.

Contented , happy, used , abused and truly owned !!

Great to hear.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I have to tell someone and its not the sort of thing you can pop into conversation in the coffee break at work.....i met my Dom for the first time today!!!! 4hours of bliss ...that passed in an instant but felt SOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! good.

Contented , happy, used , abused and truly owned !!

I'm so happy for you! That first visit is so special. When it goes well, when that chemistry you feel on-line or on the phone is then confirmed when you actually meet...well, it is sooo sweet.

Congratulations

 

[KoPilot]

Okay so, instead of eloping, we've decided to do this with some semblance of normalcy and formality.

He's going to propose when he comes to visit me in NYC next spring. Good lord, the idea of calling up my folks to tell them scares the hell out of me. xD


"Look. If I gotta do all this kneeling and asking, and picking of a good place and time while we're out and about, then you'd at least better fuckin' get me your damn finger size."
"...yessir."
"And you'd also better take us someplace picturesque so I can do it."
"...yessir."

 

[the captians wench]

Okay so, instead of eloping, we've decided to do this with some semblance of normalcy and formality.

He's going to propose when he comes to visit me in NYC next spring. Good lord, the idea of calling up my folks to tell them scares the hell out of me. xD


"Look. If I gotta do all this kneeling and asking, and picking of a good place and time while we're out and about, then you'd at least better fuckin' get me your damn finger size."
"...yessir."
"And you'd also better take us someplace picturesque so I can do it."
"...yessir."

I'm a very ceremonial type so I would be in hog heaven. *giggles*

As some one who has eloped, I must say I think it's better to go ahead with the pomp and circumstance even if you don't think you want it. I'm sure there are some out there some where, but I personally have yet to meet some one that regretted having some sort of formal ceremony instead of eloping. They might during the planing, but once it's all said and done with they are happier.

I've been thinking about making the wedding dress I picked out 10 years ago for a wedding that ended up not happening (we eloped instead). I've been feeling kind of cheated lately, so I'm wondering if making the dress might help me get over some of those left over feelings. I'm not even sure if I'd want that same dress if and when I get married again.

But. . . I love planing weddings and events, and while I don't know that area I can help you get organized if you want a professional look with out hiring a planer.

 

[KoPilot]

I'm a very ceremonial type so I would be in hog heaven. *giggles*

As some one who has eloped, I must say I think it's better to go ahead with the pomp and circumstance even if you don't think you want it. I'm sure there are some out there some where, but I personally have yet to meet some one that regretted having some sort of formal ceremony instead of eloping. They might during the planing, but once it's all said and done with they are happier.

I've been thinking about making the wedding dress I picked out 10 years ago for a wedding that ended up not happening (we eloped instead). I've been feeling kind of cheated lately, so I'm wondering if making the dress might help me get over some of those left over feelings. I'm not even sure if I'd want that same dress if and when I get married again.

But. . . I love planing weddings and events, and while I don't know that area I can help you get organized if you want a professional look with out hiring a planer.

Yeeeaaah I'm a sucker for the theatricality of things. x3

Unfortunately, our plan is to get me into Canada as quickly, and non-elopy as possible, so that means a march proposal, and a visit to a justice of the peace (or whatever they've got up there) in Vancouver in june, so we can start my paperwork. I think after everything's said, done, and settled, we'd sit down and start thinking about something more wedding-like.

 

[insearch41]

I have to tell someone and its not the sort of thing you can pop into conversation in the coffee break at work.....i met my Dom for the first time today!!!! 4hours of bliss ...that passed in an instant but felt SOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! good.

Contented , happy, used , abused and truly owned !!

I know exactly how you feel! i met my Dom for the first time 10/13/10. W/we had one meal in 48 hours and very little sleep. I have never felt so safe, happy, used, satisfied, controlled in all my life. I am happy to hear you also had a wonderful experience....looking forward to the next time.

 

[ecstaticsub]

If all goes according to plan I will be seeing Daddy later this week.

In some ways I miss when I had to make plane reservations. Once those reservations were made then I could get excited. I miss the anticipation and knowing, without any doubt, that the visit would take place. Now we live closer. But the visits are more last minute. More squeezing in a day or even a few hours when we can. Also, more likely to get canceled. So I don't allow myself to get excited, fearing the crash if it doesn't happen.

I'm not complaining. More being the hopeless romantic. I know things are better this way. I would rather have more frequent last minute visits then my two a year planned visits. My finances appreciate it, too.