Distance Domination-Support Thread

[the captians wench]

Well, I've been waiting for this for about 3 weeks now. I have never been interested in world economy, but I've found myself watching, reading, and listening very closely to anything about the economy in Ireland. Guess what. It sucks. More to the point, Jounar is still not working steady. So last night he brought up that there is the possiblity that we'll need to post pone this trip in October.

So I'm holding out hope that my hair will sell for good money, and my costumes will pick up, and it would be great if his work picked up. *sigh*

 

[ecstaticsub]

Well, I've been waiting for this for about 3 weeks now. I have never been interested in world economy, but I've found myself watching, reading, and listening very closely to anything about the economy in Ireland. Guess what. It sucks. More to the point, Jounar is still not working steady. So last night he brought up that there is the possiblity that we'll need to post pone this trip in October.

So I'm holding out hope that my hair will sell for good money, and my costumes will pick up, and it would be great if his work picked up. *sigh*

I fully understand your frustration. The economy is the main reason Daddy and I haven't been able to get together more often. Daddy has his own business so when he isn't working he isn't making money. He can't take anytime off for us to meet.

Fortunately I am in the process of moving closer to him. (being homeless and in transition right now ) I still won't be in the same state but at least I should be able to visit more frequently and he won't have to take a whole day off from work, at this point I'll be happy with just an evening.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Well, I've been waiting for this for about 3 weeks now. I have never been interested in world economy, but I've found myself watching, reading, and listening very closely to anything about the economy in Ireland. Guess what. It sucks. More to the point, Jounar is still not working steady. So last night he brought up that there is the possiblity that we'll need to post pone this trip in October.

So I'm holding out hope that my hair will sell for good money, and my costumes will pick up, and it would be great if his work picked up. *sigh*

I believe their unemployment rate is around 11% now. Last year was the highest ever at 4%.

 

[the captians wench]

I believe their unemployment rate is around 11% now. Last year was the highest ever at 4%.

Last I saw it was 15% and they're projecting it to get up to 25%. Really bad. He's not in as bad shape as a lot of people are, but disposible income is just non existant.

I've brought up the idea of me financing my entire visit, I just wouldn't be able to stay as long. He didn't totally bunk the idea this time. But we agreed to wait until it's a little closer to the date to talk about it too much.

 

[the captians wench]

I fully understand your frustration. The economy is the main reason Daddy and I haven't been able to get together more often. Daddy has his own business so when he isn't working he isn't making money. He can't take anytime off for us to meet.

Fortunately I am in the process of moving closer to him. (being homeless and in transition right now ) I still won't be in the same state but at least I should be able to visit more frequently and he won't have to take a whole day off from work, at this point I'll be happy with just an evening.

*huggles* thanks. I'm planing on being a bit more stubborn this time, but I have a feeling I won't have to be. He's an anxous to get me there as I am to be there. I just have to convince him that it's okay to let me finance more and that we don't have to do it up like we did the first time. I just want time with him.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Long holiday weekends mean little to no contact with Daddy. It sucks. I am going into serious Daddy withdrawal right now. It's made worse because my internet connection is unreliable, my kids are off from school, he has been wicked busy and also seemingly very distracted but we haven't had the time to really talk. Not to mention we are getting close to 6 months since we have last seen each other which is about our usual point where we get real antsy and wanting to see each other turns to needing to see each other.

I love my family, and I swear one of the things I love about Daddy so much is that he puts his family first but I am craving to be able to put him first, and him to put me first...if even for a little while.

I miss him so much right now

 

[the captians wench]

Long holiday weekends mean little to no contact with Daddy. It sucks. I am going into serious Daddy withdrawal right now. It's made worse because my internet connection is unreliable, my kids are off from school, he has been wicked busy and also seemingly very distracted but we haven't had the time to really talk. Not to mention we are getting close to 6 months since we have last seen each other which is about our usual point where we get real antsy and wanting to see each other turns to needing to see each other.

I love my family, and I swear one of the things I love about Daddy so much is that he puts his family first but I am craving to be able to put him first, and him to put me first...if even for a little while.

I miss him so much right now

*hugs* I can totally relate.

The vontage has made it easier, but my schedule is still unpredictable at best, and me working weekends cuts into the time he's at home to talk to me.

And I'm missing being held most of all. I miss having some one to snuggle with at night. Maybe I need SKL to visit me again *giggles*

I'm still looking into how I can make my next trip work. I'm queen of the budget making. And it looks like my bonus will come through before my trip. Not a big one, but a couple hundred anyway. Every little bit helps. They all know I'm selling my hair at work, so that's making the whole getting what I'm suposed to even more of an imidiate need. And I do pretty good living on peanutbutter....of course he's allergic to it, but except when we were out all I ever saw him eat was "crisps" and "sweeties". *giggles*

I just miss everything about being there. It's starting to feel like it was all a dream again.

 

[Lady_Fiona]

Looks like theres a few of us in the same boat at the moment. I am missing Daddy so much at the moment that it hurts. As has been said the economy in Eire at the moment is pants to say the least, I am having to save really hard for my trip next year ALREADY. It cuts down on our phone time because we both use cells and it either has the effect of whacking up my bill or he tops up WAY too much. Thank god for the internet and my shifts which allows us more time together.

I hate long weekends as well, little or no contact much which leaves us both angsty and in dire need of each other, more so than usual. Usually has the net result of making me needy and tearful and then I feel awful about doing it because I know he has no control over it and somehow I want to MAKE him do something about it..."You're the Daddy YOU fix it" unfair to say the least.

The heat is not helping at the moment. I dont do heat well and end up turning into a full foot stomping, pouting brat. All in all I end up not very proud of myself.

 

[minx1]

*hugs* to all those missing their PYLs/pyls. Hope you manage to get visits planned soon!

Has anyone heard from Kaykat? Not seen her around for a while....hope she is ok

 

[HisSexyPet]

I miss B's cuddles and kisses. It has been far too long. He has so many responsibilities atm and saving for a trip down. We both have playmates to help with the immediate physical needs, but it isn't the same as having His arms around me, His lips kissing mine.

 

[ecstaticsub]

*hugs* to all those missing their PYLs/pyls. Hope you manage to get visits planned soon!

Has anyone heard from Kaykat? Not seen her around for a while....hope she is ok

Thanks, I hope I do too.


And no, I haven't heard from Kaykat. I was thinking of her the other day though. I hope she is alright, too.

 

[ecstaticsub]

He always comes through just in time I haven't heard from him in so long (well, to me so long...since we usually talk every day a couple times a day, going 4 days without any contact is very unusual) My mind starts to wander at these times..is he hurt, in the hospital, did I do something to piss him off..LOL My brain knows better, he's busy, it's a holiday, he has a large family and group of friends that is is hanging with until late in the evening. Even though my brain knows that is most likely the reason I haven't heard from him, I can't help craving just one tiny text or off-line IM.

And then I wake up this morning, turn on the computer and find the perfect off-line.

All is well in the world.

 

[minx1]

Thanks, I hope I do too.


And no, I haven't heard from Kaykat. I was thinking of her the other day though. I hope she is alright, too.

I'm not sure she is.... I think she has changed her profile.

I will message her and hopefully she will get it.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I'm not sure she is.... I think she has changed her profile.

I will message her and hopefully she will get it.

Send her my hugs, please.

 

[minx1]

Send her my hugs, please.

no worries ES, will do

 

[the captians wench]

I'm not sure she is.... I think she has changed her profile.

I will message her and hopefully she will get it.

I haven't heard from her since a certain anouncement on Fetlife. She may just need some time. But send mylove as well minxie.

 

[minx1]

I haven't heard from her since a certain anouncement on Fetlife. She may just need some time. But send mylove as well minxie.

ah I missed that announcement

Will definitely do that hon

 

[the captians wench]

Sometimes it's very frusterating to feel like he's so close when I know he's so far.

With all the texts and phone calls, and just generally more time lately it's made the gap seem not so far, but then when something comes up and I want to talk to him or be with him but can't just makes it harder.

I don't want less time, I want less distance.

 

[Hisbeauty]

Hello. May i join in this thread?

i have a wonderful Sir. But He lives 4 hours from me, and His work takes Him all over the country. We don't get to see each other nearly as much as we would like. So i can relate to all the emotions in this thread.

i am hoping to learn something and to lend support too.

Thanks and hugs!

HB

 

[HisSexyPet]

This has been a rough week. Hormones raging and emotions got the best of me.
I pushed and hit and kicked against Him because I knew he was far away and couldn't physically do anything to me. I bit and scratched and threw a royal tantrum, which He cut off sharply with a few choice words. His punishment for my bad behavior was well thought out and something that He knew would be very hard on me and make me appreciate more of the freedom He allows. I can't chat with my playmates for three days. It has been one day and has been humiliating to have to tell my playmates why I can't play. He had a playdate last night which made me feel the punishment even more.

I feel like a slave. I feel owned. :caning: I feel loved.

 

[the captians wench]

Hello. May i join in this thread?

i have a wonderful Sir. But He lives 4 hours from me, and His work takes Him all over the country. We don't get to see each other nearly as much as we would like. So i can relate to all the emotions in this thread.

i am hoping to learn something and to lend support too.

Thanks and hugs!

HB

Welcome

This has been a rough week. Hormones raging and emotions got the best of me.
I pushed and hit and kicked against Him because I knew he was far away and couldn't physically do anything to me. I bit and scratched and threw a royal tantrum, which He cut off sharply with a few choice words. His punishment for my bad behavior was well thought out and something that He knew would be very hard on me and make me appreciate more of the freedom He allows. I can't chat with my playmates for three days. It has been one day and has been humiliating to have to tell my playmates why I can't play. He had a playdate last night which made me feel the punishment even more.

I feel like a slave. I feel owned. :caning: I feel loved.

Some times I think I'm just weird because I very rarely feel the slightest bit of embarassment, let alone humiliation.

 

[the captians wench]

This week has been a real bear...well this month really.

I've been workiing tons of hours, and he's had family over this week so we've barely had any contact at all.

Thank God for vontage.

Yesterday he surprized me by calling me. I was at work at that moment, but we got to chat for a bit and then I rang him on my way home. It was so nice just to hear his voice, but he really surprised me with some impromtue play. We reminised on things that we did when I was there, and made plans for next time (with out bringing up the subject of when that will be).

It was amazing, and I went to bed a happy slut.

 

[mistyrydher]

i have been away from the computer for quite a bit, what with packing and organizing for the move to NZ. *beams* i am finally here with my One. Anyway, i wanted to offer my belated congratulations to You and Yours, Sir. May health, happiness, and love surround you all.

Friday
8am - drag my folded ass outta bed
1030am - Finally able to hit the road for work, after fielding calls, doing paperwork, etc
515pm - Get home from fieldwork, quickly hit the email, calls, etc
610pm - Leave to go to Cub Scout thing (eldest son bridged up into the next rank)
830pm - leave cub scout thing with my parents to go over work issues with my dad
950pm - Mom drives me to the store to handle a return, then to the bus stop (My folks have been really cool lately)
1150pm - hit the road on the bus

Saturday
2am - Get about 25-30 minutes sleep, maybe. I don't sleep when traveling.
4am - Get about 10 minutes sleep, maybe
7am - arrive in NYC, Chinatown. Hit a chinese bakery, and have a coupla Pork Buns (on MIS' suggestion), and a cup of iced coffee. Best $3 breakfast I've had in a long, long time.
710-830am - a combination of walking, subways and metro trains to get to MIS' hometown
835am - Find my girl waiting on me at the train station
930am or so - breakfast with her family, went surprisingly well.
1030am - back on the road, driving MIS and her car back to VA. Shopping first though.
1015pm - after torrential rains, regular rain, absurd traffic, and a lot of stops because she couldn't stay cooped up due to the chest/shoulder issues, we finally pull into home. What should have taken 7.5-8 hours to drive took almost 12. Ugh.

I don't think I made it another hour before passing out, and didn't really wake up until about 9am this morning. That is a LOT of sleep for me.

A bit of a rough day, well, two days, but worth it. She's home. That's what matters.

 

[the captians wench]

i have been away from the computer for quite a bit, what with packing and organizing for the move to NZ. *beams* i am finally here with my One. Anyway, i wanted to offer my belated congratulations to You and Yours, Sir. May health, happiness, and love surround you all.

Congrats to you.

 

[ecstaticsub]

Congrats to you.

Ditto ! How was the move?