Just wanted to say that while Daddy has been great at easing my worries of going back to being without him after we see one another, these words from my closest friend were definitely a blessing and a much needed inspiration.
Hugs to you for your friendship, Homburg and knowing what I needed to hear
Rose, my goal is absolutely *not* to question the commitment, devotion, or love inherent in your relationship. Yes, you are "taking it wrong". I'll try again to explain.
I am talking about an hypothetical woman who is involved with an online Dom whom she has never met. She desperately wants for the relationship to thrive, to be his one and only, to meet in the physical world, etc., but none of these things have happened yet.
Maybe he sent her a picture. How does she know it is really him?
Maybe she saw him on webcam. How does she know whether he only turns on the webcam when his wife is asleep or at PTA meetings?
He says he has a steady job at XYZ Corporation. How does she know if this is true?
These are the types of questions that I am asking. This is why I asked you, ChromeCollar, Wench, and others for suggestions on smelling out rats in the virtual world.
At the beginning of a relationship, there is a *huge* difference in the opportunities for gathering information in the online vs. physical world, long before anybody has their heart set on romantic visions of life with anybody else.
If you have spoken to his sister, mother, step father, and brothers, and spent a week with him in the physical world, then you are absolutely *not* the type of woman to whom I am referring with this hypothetical.
I am talking about an hypothetical woman who devotes herself, heart and soul, to a person she has never met or possibly never even seen.
He wasn't Dom he wasn't anything. I spent three mths looking at the back of his head while he was on the computer. He was very arrogant and IMO ignorant but Dom? No way 
***walks into room, sinks into a comfy chair cringing a little with soreness, smiles broadly and sighs ***
What I learned from this last visit was that even though we had gone so long without being with each other when we finally were in each others arms, it really didn't matter how long it had been. We are such a awesome fit. We know each other so well. It was such a wonderful vist. However, hopefully we won't have to wait so long for out next visit.
***floats back off to look again at the pictures and videos of our visit and write up my reflections ***
***walks into room, sinks into a comfy chair cringing a little with soreness, smiles broadly and sighs ***
What I learned from this last visit was that even though we had gone so long without being with each other when we finally were in each others arms, it really didn't matter how long it had been. We are such a awesome fit. We know each other so well. It was such a wonderful vist. However, hopefully we won't have to wait so long for out next visit.
***floats back off to look again at the pictures and videos of our visit and write up my reflections ***
Savor all your moments...
***walks into room, sinks into a comfy chair cringing a little with soreness, smiles broadly and sighs ***
What I learned from this last visit was that even though we had gone so long without being with each other when we finally were in each others arms, it really didn't matter how long it had been. We are such a awesome fit. We know each other so well. It was such a wonderful vist. However, hopefully we won't have to wait so long for out next visit.
***floats back off to look again at the pictures and videos of our visit and write up my reflections ***
WOW... LMDS you are lucky and he is right be glad you had the time you did.. I know how you feel... I know exactly I havent seen my Sir since the first week of June and normally we attempted to see one another and spend time One time per month things are hectic for both of us.. BUT we will make it.. I know we will..
{{hugs}}}}}
So happy to see this post! I'm glad you had a great time
the downside is i dont think we have a nother visit in the works till late august or september.
im in VA currently. its almost like a dream. i was here not too long agao and am here again now
I am very excited. I havent seen my Master since the weekend of Valentine's day. Normally we see each other every 2 months, but it's been 4 1/2 months. I just cant wait to be able to sit next to him and hang out with him. All the D/s stuff we do, that's important to our relationship, but I cant wait to just be a "normal" couple and hang out... because the most important thing is that we're friends.
im in VA currently. its almost like a dream. i was here not too long agao and am here again now
