Distance Domination-Support Thread

[Toa_lin]

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I did wonder whether we were talking about people who do see each other but have to be apart, or if we were talking about solely online. I do not pass judgment, and I must stress that I am a participant as well.

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To make a quick simple answer for you. This is for BOTH of the aforementioned situations. Some of us are purely online, some working towards getting together in rl sometime in the near future, others get together on some time basis but are forced apart for any length of time.

And DWB, you are most certainly welcome.

 

[chelleb]

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[Luciden]

An Update

Just thought I would give you guys an update for me and my Master-
In about two weeks, we'll have been together for a year. And about a month ago, I moved to his state to live closer to him. And now, we're going to begin face to face training.

It's all so exciting.

 

[EmpressFi]

Congrats!

 

[UK_Strawberry]

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[myinnerslut]

im ba-ack

and had a fabulous weekend

a month till thanksgiving (where we wony get much tome together but at least we get to be fase to face)

 

[Dominoc]

Just thought I would give you guys an update for me and my Master-
In about two weeks, we'll have been together for a year. And about a month ago, I moved to his state to live closer to him. And now, we're going to begin face to face training.

It's all so exciting.

Let us know how that goes....

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

im ba-ack

and had a fabulous weekend

a month till thanksgiving (where we wony get much tome together but at least we get to be fase to face)

So glad that you had a wonderful weekend Mis!!!

 

[Luciden]

Face to Face

Let us know how that goes....

I think it's safe to say it's going well so far- it's a little different with him physically punishing me instead of me spanking myself or something like that,(a lot more painful, that's for sure). Though I still enjoy it. I'm learning to serve him with my body now and learning what to do with everything. I'll keep you guys posted.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Just thought I would give you guys an update for me and my Master-
In about two weeks, we'll have been together for a year. And about a month ago, I moved to his state to live closer to him. And now, we're going to begin face to face training.

It's all so exciting.

Congrats, Luciden...

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Just wanted to pop in and say hi! i read the thread from the beginning (yes, all 163 pages - took almost a week), and want to say that i really admire all the love and effort that goes into maintaining a LDR! MP and rose, i've read your story here (and other threads) and am glad that it seems things are getting better for both of you!

i recently met someone online and through talking and such realized he was a dom and i was a sub. Never been in a D/S relationship before (actually, not many 'nilla ones either), so i guess we'll just see where it goes, and whether it really is what i want.



Also want to add, that i hope MP and anyone else in Cali is fairing ok with all the wildfires that have been on the news! You're all in my thoughts, i hope you all get through this ok!

Thanks for the well wishes...

I am in Central Norhtern Cali... The fires are well away from me, but thanks...

 

[ecstaticsub]

I've been back home for 4 days now and still aglow from my visit with my Daddy. It was the best visit ever. In the 2.5 years that we have been together we have been able to see each other IRL 6-7 times. Each ot the other times I have had wicked sub-drop or other separation issues. This time emotionally I was totally fine. I think it is because I am starting to feel more and more secure in the reality of the relationship. It is not just a part-time fantasy thing it is real and I am ecstatic. (I love the bruises on my ass too. I wish they would last longer)

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

Hello there everyone. I just wandered into this thread and saw the BEST technique mentioned. I know it is searchable but thought I would post a link because it is a fascinating read:

http://www.bestslavetraining.com/

I haven't participted in this myself but the articles on hypnosis I found particularly interesting.

Anyway, I hope all of you in LDR and/or online are doing good. I'm not in one anymore but am considering giving it a try again. I've just been a little switchy lately so I'm not sure which direction I would want to take it (*giggle* a lovely young man's bottom to spank would be heavenly right now).

Take care folks.

Ivy

Yes, I wish to clarify. I saw this was a thread about support for online/distance domination. I certainly didn't come here to join the chorus of naysayers. I am quite sure it can work and work well. I have been involved with it myself, and experienced the pitfalls and pleasures, as I am sure All/all of us have. I actually suggested a query about what was working and what wasn't for those involved in it, from specific things people have found to work well, and work not so well. I have personal experiences, and I certainly am not here to say that anyone should or shouldn't attempt this at home (online/distance domination).

I did wonder whether we were talking about people who do see each other but have to be apart, or if we were talking about solely online. I do not pass judgment, and I must stress that I am a participant as well.

Regarding the B.E.S.T slave training method, it is not necessarily something I have experience with other than the bits and pieces I have used for online / long distance relationships (and btw, I am currently not involved in one, but would certainly not rule it out ever), but it is a method for slave training, not sub training; not necessarily something I totally take as personal gospel. Perhaps I might start a thread if there was interest. For anyone interested meanwhile, it is searchable on google, and a good read. There is mention of reactance and resistance, which I think from the author's POV require personal contact. Again, I do not wish to step on toes at all. Apologies for having caused a row. I would be very interested to hear from people who do this and hear what works.

 

[Toa_lin]

great to here your we'll away from them fires MP.

That's good news MIS, I'm seeing my pet thanksgiving break aswell

 

[Toa_lin]

15 more days... Just over two weeks... till I propose to her in person... God I feel soo jittery.

 

[myinnerslut]

15 more days... Just over two weeks... till I propose to her in person... God I feel soo jittery.

remember... she already said yes.

just enjoy yourself, no reason to be nervouse

 

[littleone77]

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[DomWharfsBitch]

15 more days... Just over two weeks... till I propose to her in person... God I feel soo jittery.

That is great news Toa..You will be okay..I am so happy for the two of you!

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

I think I am getting more excited than nervous now about meeting him. In a lil over 3 weeks I'll be able to feel his arms around me.

*excited squeaks* Now watch, I'll be scared again before you know it.

I wish it would get here tomorrow.

Great to hear you get to see him and spend some time with him littleone...Enjoy the time and stay excited..don't be nervous

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Master and I have been getting to talk on the phone every day here lately and that has helped me..we have went through a really rough patch before he got the phone he did..I didn't know if we would make it...But thank God we are still going along...

 

[EmpressFi]

He arrives Wednesday night at 11pm..

here's a question..does this happen to anyone else.. the closer it gets... the more intense the feeling of missing him of wanting to touch and be touched... why is it harder on me emotionally 3 days before a visit ..than it was when there was a month to go?

 

[ecstaticsub]

He arrives Wednesday night at 11pm..

here's a question..does this happen to anyone else.. the closer it gets... the more intense the feeling of missing him of wanting to touch and be touched... why is it harder on me emotionally 3 days before a visit ..than it was when there was a month to go?

I am exactly the same way. For me it starts right after the plane tickets are bought. A few days before we meet he will send me the hotel information and I stat missing him so much I can barely think. Talking to him in the few days right before we meet is almost painful. I don't want to talk by phone anymore I want to be with him feel him, taste him..

I hope you have a wonderful visit..

 

[ecstaticsub]

This last visit for me was in many ways so different than the previous ones. I've been back home for about a week now. After all other visits I would get all moody (not exactly sub-drop though) and bounce between really happy and really depressed every 5 minutes all the way home starting as soon as he dropped me off at the airport.

This time was different. I felt like I was floating and totally happy all the way home and up until...this morning. Now I am crashing. And crashing bad. And it is a weekend which means he is unavailable to talk to.

I was having sex with my husband this morning and usually it is very good, very vanilla but I usually love the sweet, early Sunday morning loving kind of sex. I feel cold, unsexy, ugly, neutered, numb. I don't know why. I need to snap out of this. This next week is going to be very busy. Very busy for my Daddy, my husband and me. I don't have time to be needy and attention whorish.

I think I need to go for a nice long run, clear my head and feel my muscles in pain.

 

[EmpressFi]

I am exactly the same way. For me it starts right after the plane tickets are bought. A few days before we meet he will send me the hotel information and I stat missing him so much I can barely think. Talking to him in the few days right before we meet is almost painful. I don't want to talk by phone anymore I want to be with him feel him, taste him..

I hope you have a wonderful visit..

Thank you for describing it better than I could.. but yes.. exactly it.. almost painful..

I hope the run helped.. I know my time at the gym helps me

 

[littleone77]

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