Distance Domination-Support Thread

[DomWharfsBitch]

HI Minx sweetie..how are you hon?

Hope you are having a good day!

I am fighting sinuses but feeling better and home for the day due to the fourth so I have been watching Tennis after spending a fantastic morning with Master

 

[minx1]

HI Minx sweetie..how are you hon?

Hope you are having a good day!

I am fighting sinuses but feeling better and home for the day due to the fourth so I have been watching Tennis after spending a fantastic morning with Master

Oh hon, glad you had a lovely time this morning!

I'm good actually....lots going on at the moment!!

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Oh hon, glad you had a lovely time this morning!

I'm good actually....lots going on at the moment!!

I did..It was nice..

Glad that you are doing good..I hope that the lots going on at the moment are good!

 

[minx1]

I did..It was nice..

Glad that you are doing good..I hope that the lots going on at the moment are good!

*giggles* yeah they are good! I will tell you more soon when I know for sure...but looking great on the work front. Thank god.

Hope you enjoy the rest of your day hon!

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

*giggles* yeah they are good! I will tell you more soon when I know for sure...but looking great on the work front. Thank god.

Hope you enjoy the rest of your day hon!

Oh that is great sweetie..I am happy to hear that!! Fingers and toes crossed for you that they continue to go good!!

Thank you hon..Enjoy yours too!

 

[minx1]

Oh that is great sweetie..I am happy to hear that!! Fingers and toes crossed for you that they continue to go good!!

Thank you hon..Enjoy yours too!

Thankyou, I will! I am sooooo tired lol. Had an interview yesterday with a 10 minute presentation and a phone interview this morning! I feel drained!! but in a good way, if you know what I mean

I've eaten and am gonna chill and watch some crap tv for a while lol

Are you doing anything special for today hon, or just having a quiet one?

 

[HottieMama]

Just popping in here to say Hi.

As much as i tried to avoid it...i think...no, i know...another long-distance relationship has found me...(Shit..i SWORE the next one would be local...Damn Him and His "cuteness." oh lord...if He reads this..i'm dead...**giggle**)

Guess we can't help who "grabs" our heart, right?

 

[minx1]

Just popping in here to say Hi.

As much as i tried to avoid it...i think...no, i know...another long-distance relationship has found me...(Shit..i SWORE the next one would be local...Damn Him and His "cuteness." oh lord...if He reads this..i'm dead...**giggle**)

Guess we can't help who "grabs" our heart, right?

lol exactly Hottie!

where is he based?

 

[HottieMama]

lol exactly Hottie!

where is he based?

Ok..without giving out too much of his info...about 12 hours away by car from me. Not a HUGE distance...but enough....too much sometimes...

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Thankyou, I will! I am sooooo tired lol. Had an interview yesterday with a 10 minute presentation and a phone interview this morning! I feel drained!! but in a good way, if you know what I mean

I've eaten and am gonna chill and watch some crap tv for a while lol

Are you doing anything special for today hon, or just having a quiet one?

OH I am so glad that you are feeling that way!!

I hear you about the crap tv..There is never anything on!

Not doing a thing special..just being lazy..

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Just popping in here to say Hi.

As much as i tried to avoid it...i think...no, i know...another long-distance relationship has found me...(Shit..i SWORE the next one would be local...Damn Him and His "cuteness." oh lord...if He reads this..i'm dead...**giggle**)

Guess we can't help who "grabs" our heart, right?

Welcome to the thread HM...

Nope we sure can't help who grabs our hearts

 

[CutieMouse]

Just popping in here to say Hi.

As much as i tried to avoid it...i think...no, i know...another long-distance relationship has found me...(Shit..i SWORE the next one would be local...Damn Him and His "cuteness." oh lord...if He reads this..i'm dead...**giggle**)

Guess we can't help who "grabs" our heart, right?

Cat told me a while ago to never say never when I said I'd not even think of a man who was mroe than 15 miles away ever ever again... and I go and find a guy who lives in an entirely different freaking country.

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Cat told me a while ago to never say never when I said I'd not even think of a man who was mroe than 15 miles away ever ever again... and I go and find a guy who lives in an entirely different freaking country.

LOL Cutie..Sounds like you and he are getting along wonderfully..I am so happy for you..Hope that things go well for you when you go visit him next week!

 

[HottieMama]

Cat told me a while ago to never say never when I said I'd not even think of a man who was mroe than 15 miles away ever ever again... and I go and find a guy who lives in an entirely different freaking country.

i DO draw the line at different countries and having to cross large bodies of water.

Hopefully a 12 hour drive will be the furthest i ever have to think about travelling again. **sigh**

Cutie...i am SO excited for you. Seriously!

 

[catalina_francisco]

Cat told me a while ago to never say never when I said I'd not even think of a man who was mroe than 15 miles away ever ever again... and I go and find a guy who lives in an entirely different freaking country.

LOL, I had forgotten that...hope I didn't jinx you to repeat my experience, though if you end up as happy as we are I guess it will be worth it.

Catalina

 

[CutieMouse]

Things are going rather splendidly... the assertion that he has't got a romantic bone in his body (*laughchucklesnort*) has become a bit of an inside joke. LOL

I got to briefly speak with his two best friends (one of whom was kind enough to point out they've known each other since I was a baby), both of whom moved down to the DR this past year (one lives next door; the other just down the block), and whenever he's on the phone and someone needs him for something, he mentions that it's me he's talking to... which is so very different from the complicated LDR I was in- he was over the top concerned with privacy issues, and in more than 2 years of friendship I knew of his neighbors/friends/colleagues, but never actually spoke to any of them, nor did he ever make a point (that I know of) to mention me to anyone, or how we related to one another...

It's so very odd... I spent the better part of 2 years trying to fit into LDR's world, and never quite succeeded; I just kinda feel like things fit with J. We have yet to have a conversation about any subject where I even momentarily think "Eehhhhhh... I can learn to be okay with that"; he'll say something/I'll meet him head on and toss it right back at him (and vice versa). I'm working through that a bit... it's very different.

It's all very strange and surreal and odd... and I hope to God the chemistry that is there right now, is there when I get off the plane on Wednesday, or I'm gonna be one unhappy mouse.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Things are going rather splendidly... the assertion that he has't got a romantic bone in his body (*laughchucklesnort*) has become a bit of an inside joke. LOL

LOL, I remember someone else making such a claim also and yet he discovered he actually did have more than one romantic bone once we met. Sounds like you are on a good path and I will be keeping everything crossed the chemistry is there for both of you and it is plain sailing from that first moment forward.

Catalina

 

[myinnerslut]

Ok..without giving out too much of his info...about 12 hours away by car from me. Not a HUGE distance...but enough....too much sometimes...

A is only (only???) 7-9 hours away by car for me during the year... i hear you about it being too much

and welcome to the LDR club

 

[ecstaticsub]

little disclaimer here I'm a bit intoxicated but frustrated to the max. I like my life, I wouldn't want it any other way. I am happily married, I have 2 wonderful kids but I miss my Daddy so much. It has been 4 months since we have seen each other and we are having problems scheduling the nest meeting. I feel like a spoiled brat because I really have a great life. But right now I am horny as hell, and there are just some needs that my husband does not understand. I knew before entering a relationship with a married man while I am married there would be "issues" but sometimes I simply want him to myself....


OK..thanks for letting me vent. I'm going to be a big girl now and go back to acting like an adult....

 

[minx1]

It's all very strange and surreal and odd... and I hope to God the chemistry that is there right now, is there when I get off the plane on Wednesday, or I'm gonna be one unhappy mouse.

Got all my fingers crossed for you Cutiemouse. I know chemistry is important to people in different ways. That immediate sizzling, skin tingling, goosebump inducing chemistry is wonderful but has never been a biggie for me.

With most of my partners, including my ex husband there wasn't any chemistry to begin with, to be honest I thought he was a complete arse when I met him lol. But with most of them the chemistry 'grew' as I got to know them and what they stood for and I got my fair share of goosebumps!

I guess all I'm saying is, not too worry too much if it isn't there the minute you walk of the plane. Its going to be a very surreal moment for both of you.
Give it a day or so of being together however and I bet it comes and whallops you both over the head!

 

[SubKekiLee]

little disclaimer here I'm a bit intoxicated but frustrated to the max. I like my life, I wouldn't want it any other way. I am happily married, I have 2 wonderful kids but I miss my Daddy so much. It has been 4 months since we have seen each other and we are having problems scheduling the nest meeting. I feel like a spoiled brat because I really have a great life. But right now I am horny as hell, and there are just some needs that my husband does not understand. I knew before entering a relationship with a married man while I am married there would be "issues" but sometimes I simply want him to myself....


OK..thanks for letting me vent. I'm going to be a big girl now and go back to acting like an adult....

Hey Ecstatic Sub- I know how you feel.. after all my stuff that happend I have a great marriage and great life as well.. but I am wanting my dom and i am afraid no one will ever compare to him and I knew as well going into this it might turn out like this.. I want him to call I want him to email me or say something.. I miss him like crazy but knew this could be the way things turned out as he is married and so am I... so we are in this together as well Ill go back to being the same good ol girl I was before I met him for now.. but I am craving some SIR time.. Ill keep my fingers crossed he will crave me as uch as I crave him sometime soon..

 

[PrincessLeia]

Hello to all,

I have been lurking in the shadows for awhile, because I was new the whole concept of BDSM, and LDR. However, I would like to join in as I recently started a LDR and it is D/s. I have not seen D since it began, but have been trying to honor all of his desires. I am excited beyond belief, and have put full trust in D. There are no current plans to met, but hopefully soon ( at least on my part ).

Best wishes to all.
Leia

 

[minx1]

Hello to all,

I have been lurking in the shadows for awhile, because I was new the whole concept of BDSM, and LDR. However, I would like to join in as I recently started a LDR and it is D/s. I have not seen D since it began, but have been trying to honor all of his desires. I am excited beyond belief, and have put full trust in D. There are no current plans to met, but hopefully soon ( at least on my part ).

Best wishes to all.
Leia

Hey Leia,

Congrats on your new relationship and welcome to the thread

I hope you find it a source of support as well as a friendly place to hang out

 

[A_proclivity]

I have a quick question for the group. There is this online D that I have been RPing with for the last several years. And by RPing, I mean both of us playing different characters and interacting the scene through several IMs of text. Recently, however, he has made several overtones of removing the characters from the situation so that it's just him Domming me.

I don't mean to toot my own horn, but I know I play well, and I'm wondering if that's more of the situation that it's more like him wanting to actually dominate my characters rather then me.

So, my question is this: has anyone successfully made the leap from RP scenes to online scenes? Does it work? I'm interested, in attempting it if we can get the communication issues out of the way first. I appreciate all responses.

 

[minx1]

I have a quick question for the group. There is this online D that I have been RPing with for the last several years. And by RPing, I mean both of us playing different characters and interacting the scene through several IMs of text. Recently, however, he has made several overtones of removing the characters from the situation so that it's just him Domming me.

I don't mean to toot my own horn, but I know I play well, and I'm wondering if that's more of the situation that it's more like him wanting to actually dominate my characters rather then me.

So, my question is this: has anyone successfully made the leap from RP scenes to online scenes? Does it work? I'm interested, in attempting it if we can get the communication issues out of the way first. I appreciate all responses.

Hey AP, welcome

Sorry I'm not going to be help I'm afraid. I was in an LDR with my Master, but we never roleplayed. Hope someone else may be able to help you