Distance Domination-Support Thread

[CutieMouse]

yes, he does. he's just found that if he needs to punish me while im already being punished in this way, its very effective for him to just extend the already existing punishment. other punishments arnt often things that last days at a time, so i dont often mention them on lit unless they are aplicible to the situation. when i mention this one, its usually cuase im frustrated.

Okay... I don't get it, but if it works for y'all it works for y'all...

(I hope I didn't offend; I really was asking out of concern, because this seems to come up as a huge frustration for you on a regular basis...)

 

[catalina_francisco]

They aren't really *my* words, Strawberry... when I was trying to reassure the gentleman I'm going to see in a couple weeks, that I was over the non-relationship LDR I'd been in for the last 2 years, he pointed out it isn't really necessary to cut yourself off from Loving someone, even if things change and it doesn't work out. Feelings are feelings, and if you don't respect them, they'll eat you alive.

Is it odd that I spent 2 years in a different non-relationship (wry humor there), with the idea of "maybe" seeing each other floated past my mind every few months (only to have a reason why it couldn't happen appear), and that didn't make me nearly as impatient as I've felt over the last few days, meeting someone amazing, knowing I'll be flying out to see him soon?

(only 11 more days...)

I could be wrong, but I think the difference lies in you being able to tell the difference in that this one will make it happen, while the other was content to keep waiting....maybe deep down in your womanly instinct you could tell it would never happen, and if you are like me, that woiuld be enough to switch off the impatience switch....why get impatient for something you know will never be? This one sounds so much more promising, not to mention thrilling.

Catalina

 

[CutieMouse]

I could be wrong, but I think the difference lies in you being able to tell the difference in that this one will make it happen, while the other was content to keep waiting....maybe deep down in your womanly instinct you could tell it would never happen, and if you are like me, that woiuld be enough to switch off the impatience switch....why get impatient for something you know will never be? This one sounds so much more promising, not to mention thrilling.

Catalina

Good point... the first few times Mr. X mentioned seeing each other, I'd get all excited, but after a while he'd mention it and I'd not bother getting my hopes up, because I'd started to recognize a pattern- within 10-16 days of mentioning seeing each other, something would happen with life, or I'd do something oh so "me" (being that I'm imperfect), and it would mean I wasn't "serious enough" and the plans would be put on hold.

With J (who I'm seeing in 11 days ), I made it clear from the second email, that I was never going to settle for being good enough to want, but not good enough to want to do something about it, ever again. If he really believes I'm that special, he has to show it... which is how I ended up with a flight booked after spending 3-4 days on the phone. LOL

 

[the captians wench]

Cutie, I just wanted to say it's really good to see you all giggly and bubbly and butterflyish *giggles*. You're posts just seem to carry a glow, and it looks good on you.

 

[ecstaticsub]

My Dom has a phrase "Meet or Delete" for people he has encountered on the internet over the last 10 yrs or more. When I first met him the fact that he lived in a state where I would be visiting frequently anyway because I had family there made our conversations less fantasy and more reality. I don't think I could have carried on with an on-line relationship without real possibilities of meeting regularly.

 

[catalina_francisco]

With J (who I'm seeing in 11 days ), I made it clear from the second email, that I was never going to settle for being good enough to want, but not good enough to want to do something about it, ever again. If he really believes I'm that special, he has to show it... which is how I ended up with a flight booked after spending 3-4 days on the phone. LOL

LOL, see there are certain men who like and appreciate that decisiveness in a submissive, and find it very enticing...seems perhaps we might both be lucky ladies to have found that out first hand.

Catalina

 

[UK_Strawberry]

Ok I think I may be taking the cleaning thing a little too far – a tile just came off the bathroom wall – it's clean though – LOL.

Today is a better day – cleaning really is good therapy. And I haven't even started on downstairs yet !!!

 

[Hisbabydoll26]

Ok I think I may be taking the cleaning thing a little too far – a tile just came off the bathroom wall – it's clean though – LOL.

Today is a better day – cleaning really is good therapy. And I haven't even started on downstairs yet !!!

If you need more therapy I'm willing to lend my house. To help and all..

 

[myinnerslut]

Ok I think I may be taking the cleaning thing a little too far – a tile just came off the bathroom wall – it's clean though – LOL.

Today is a better day – cleaning really is good therapy. And I haven't even started on downstairs yet !!!

{{hug}} i hope the cleaning is making you, feel better... if nothing else, youll have a clean house

just dont forget to breathe

 

[CutieMouse]

I'm busting ass trying to do enough prep work that my business can run with minimal interruption while I'm in the DR for two weeks... sigh.

 

[UK_Strawberry]

HBD – PM me your address and I'll add you to the list – LOL

MIS – I'm ok on the breathing – it's the eating I'm not too good at but now that I've realised why my head is swimming I think it's time to log off for a while and eat !!

CM - you seem so happy - good luck to you chica.

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Just giving us a bump

I hope that those that were hurting last week have a better week..*hugs* to you!

Hope that those that are going through good times that they continue!

Thinking of everyone!

 

[Toa_lin]

Wow... who'd have known that being part of my college band would lend bonusses to seeing my pet...

We have an anual band-trip to cut back and relax at my school... and this coming year'll be right in my Pet's home-town.... any bets on how long I'll actually be with the band?

 

[Rox_shybutcurious]

Only 3 days left.......

Not that I'm excited or anything.

 

[minx1]

Only 3 days left.......

Not that I'm excited or anything.

Woooohoooo Rox!!!!!

Are you all packed and ready lol?

 

[minx1]

Wow... who'd have known that being part of my college band would lend bonusses to seeing my pet...

We have an anual band-trip to cut back and relax at my school... and this coming year'll be right in my Pet's home-town.... any bets on how long I'll actually be with the band?

wow thats great news Tao

 

[Rox_shybutcurious]

Woooohoooo Rox!!!!!

Are you all packed and ready lol?

Packed, ready and car loaded up. I'm visiting a girlfriend a few hours away from my Thursday destination first so vacation actually starts today right after work.

I think more dancing bananas are called for. LOL

 

[ecstaticsub]

Packed, ready and car loaded up. I'm visiting a girlfriend a few hours away from my Thursday destination first so vacation actually starts today right after work.

I think more dancing bananas are called for. LOL

Have fun and stay safe!!

 

[Rox_shybutcurious]

Have fun and stay safe!!

Thanks ecstaticsub, I plan on doing both.

 

[Toa_lin]

once again, thanks minx.

Oh, and enjoy your vacation Rox.

 

[myinnerslut]

yay! punishment is over! i got to cum again today (well, after A had far to much fun making me beg for my orgasm that is)

 

[Toa_lin]

hehe, good to hear mis, and in a Dom's defense, there's no such thing as too much fun making one's pyl beg

 

[Pseudonomic]

Mmm, begging /innocent look Glad to hear your punishment is over, hope you don't get punished again too soon.

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

yay! punishment is over! i got to cum again today (well, after A had far to much fun making me beg for my orgasm that is)

WOOHOO Mis..glad that your punishment is over..Hope you enjoy your cums!

 

[minx1]

*waves* Hi DWB....how are you hon?!

Hi everyone else, hope everyone is well

Mis hoping everything is good with you and A

Rox Have you gone yet?Hope it goes wonderfully well!!