Distance Domination-Support Thread

[MasterPhoenix]

http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1036/535087245_43e5b7daff_t.jpg Don't feel bad about questioning...believe it or not I do that often. I think it is a response to some of the demands this type lifestyle places on us combined with the normal stresses and tensions of everyday life. There are times when one feels ultra submissive, others when you just want to fight back or stop the merry go round to think or catch your breath. Through it all, talking is the best way to deal with it and move forward, and sometimes can show there is something else which is motivating the feelings which once dealt with helps all return to the previous scheduled programme. Hang in there and you will both get through this...hiccoughs are normal in any relationship, even M/s and D/s.

http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1372/535079392_f8b8c0b2d0_t.jpg Catalina

Thank you, cat.. as always...

We will take it as it comes... and I will be there holding her hand, and guiding her whether overtly or just though love and gentle nudges...

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

"Our first time"

I finally got to have a real conversation with Sir today. This was our first phone sex also. So much of my emotional crap came up later because of a misunderstanding and he handled it with such care and finesse. I feel so blessed. He's going through shit right now at home and on top of that I got emotional. He's a very patient man.

Ivy

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

Yeah, we do....

But thank you...

We both wish you all the best on your journey...

Her and I have been together for four years... We have had good times and bad times.. But no matter we have had each other. That is the key... more than labels, or whatever...

I would kill or die for that woman no second thoughts.

Thank you so much for your wishes and the best to you too.

 

[FluteMaster]

I finally got to have a real conversation with Sir today. This was our first phone sex also. So much of my emotional crap came up later because of a misunderstanding and he handled it with such care and finesse. I feel so blessed. He's going through shit right now at home and on top of that I got emotional. He's a very patient man.

Ivy

Hey...sounds like good news.

Glad things are working out

 

[UK_Strawberry]

Just wanted to send my best wishes to MP and Rose.

I haven't been around here long so I don't know your full story but 4 years together is a long time.

I have no doubt you will work through your current difficulities, you obviously have a lot of love between you and that is the most important thing right now. That and communication which you guys also seem to do pretty well.

Anyway - as I say best wishes to you both.

 

[UK_Strawberry]

I finally got to have a real conversation with Sir today. This was our first phone sex also.

*winks* Cream and I have done that twice now !!

Great stuff.

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

*winks* Cream and I have done that twice now !!

Great stuff.

It's sooooo fun. I felt so green though. I wanted to break into Madonna's "Like a Virgin." *giggle* That's a good way to feel isn't it?

Ivy

 

[UK_Strawberry]

It's sooooo fun. I felt so green though. I wanted to break into Madonna's "Like a Virgin." *giggle* That's a good way to feel isn't it?

Ivy

LOL - I know what you mean. But then I feel like a virgin a lot of the time, it's my first relationship that's started online, I've never told my sexual fantasies to anyone, didn't know I had a submissive inside me, phone sex etc. I could go on - LOL.

 

[littleone77]

*winks* Cream and I have done that twice now !!

Great stuff.

I've lost count

There is just something about the first time which you never forget...When you first hear His voice....*sighs*

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Wrote this... working on the music for it...

For Four years
good and bad
its always been
together we stand
light and dark
love and laughs
been to the edge
but here we are

(chorus)
with all we've been through
Its about Me and you
Through all the miles, though all the smiles
I still love you

Been a long road
taht we've walked
every curve
together we stand
time and distance
we've overcome
many obstacles
but here we are

(repeat Chorus)

Time again
troubles come
time again
together we stand
then and now
we both know
just the reason
that we are here

(chorus)

Our love makes us whole
our love will transcend
our love is all we know
our love is who we are

(chorus)

 

[FluteMaster]

Wrote this... working on the music for it...

For Four years
good and bad
its always been
together we stand
light and dark
love and laughs
been to the edge
but here we are

(chorus)
with all we've been through
Its about Me and you
Through all the miles, though all the smiles
I still love you

Been a long road
taht we've walked
every curve
together we stand
time and distance
we've overcome
many obstacles
but here we are

(repeat Chorus)

Time again
troubles come
time again
together we stand
then and now
we both know
just the reason
that we are here

(chorus)

Our love makes us whole
our love will transcend
our love is all we know
our love is who we are

(chorus)

Thankyou MP. THose words say everything...amd mean a lot to me too.

As always, my thoughts and prayers are with both of you.

And if it helps, feel free to PM me.

 

[ShyVixen]

My sincere best wishes to Rose and MP. As Ivy said, you are an inspiration. I wish both of you the very best.

To everyone who is feeling the joy and excitement of new relationships - many congratulations!

 

[MasterPhoenix]

My sincere best wishes to Rose and MP. As Ivy said, you are an inspiration. I wish both of you the very best.

To everyone who is feeling the joy and excitement of new relationships - many congratulations!

Thank you...

rose & I have put a hell of a lot of work into it, and it has been a wonderous journey... I would not trade a moment of it.

To all the new relationships, just remember that it is a joruney, and focus on that not the destination....

 

[minx1]

Thank you...

rose & I have put a hell of a lot of work into it, and it has been a wonderous journey... I would not trade a moment of it.

To all the new relationships, just remember that it is a joruney, and focus on that not the destination....

truer words have never been spoken. Its a mistake I made and I shall continue to regret with all my heart.

Sending all my positive thoughts (whats left of them lol!) your way MP and Rose.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

truer words have never been spoken. Its a mistake I made and I shall continue to regret with all my heart.

Sending all my positive thoughts (whats left of them lol!) your way MP and Rose.

Life is a journey.... and though all the twists and turns... its about following your course... There is joy there for you.

 

[UK_Strawberry]

Thank you...

rose & I have put a hell of a lot of work into it, and it has been a wonderous journey... I would not trade a moment of it.

To all the new relationships, just remember that it is a joruney, and focus on that not the destination....

Thank you for reminding me about the journey MP. Since Cream and I have set a date to meet it's been pretty easy to focus on that. But you are 100% right, it's the journey that counts not the destination.

It's made me think of a song that fits very well, I won't post the lyrics but here's a taste and a link to same.

You know a dream is like a river
Ever changin' as it flows
And a dreamer's just a vessel
That must follow where it goes
Trying to learn from what's behind you
And never knowing what's in store
Makes each day a constant battle
Just to stay between the shores...and

I will sail my vessel
'Til the river runs dry
Like a bird upon the wind
These waters are my sky
I'll never reach my destination
If I never try
So I will sail my vessel
'Til the river runs dry

http://www.azlyrics.com/lyrics/garthbrooks/theriver.html

 

[UK_Strawberry]

truer words have never been spoken. Its a mistake I made and I shall continue to regret with all my heart.

Sending all my positive thoughts (whats left of them lol!) your way MP and Rose.

Love and hugs to you Minx.

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Thankyou MP. THose words say everything...amd mean a lot to me too.

As always, my thoughts and prayers are with both of you.

And if it helps, feel free to PM me.

Its kind of inspired by the song "Far Away" by Nickleback, which is special to her and I.

I wrote the words, and have been messing with the music on my accoustic guitar. The verse is in a-mior, and the chorus and bridge switch over to C-Major. (I use the minor 7 chord on the line "together we stand" Other than that its just a minor and e minor I use... Simple strums... I don't have the music for the chorus quite flushed out.

 

[FluteMaster]

Its kind of inspired by the song "Far Away" by Nickleback, which is special to her and I.

I wrote the words, and have been messing with the music on my accoustic guitar. The verse is in a-mior, and the chorus and bridge switch over to C-Major. (I use the minor 7 chord on the line "together we stand" Other than that its just a minor and e minor I use... Simple strums... I don't have the music for the chorus quite flushed out.

Sounds cool...I'd be happy to add a flute melody line if you wanted.

 

[GentleSub_Ivy]

Thank you...

rose & I have put a hell of a lot of work into it, and it has been a wonderous journey... I would not trade a moment of it.

To all the new relationships, just remember that it is a joruney, and focus on that not the destination....

Thank you for saying this MP. I'm sure it applies to so many of us. I'm so damn impatient and Sir does not have the time for me that he wishes too right now. I keep having to tell myself that there will be times when my life is topsy turvy so I need to show some understanding and devotion to my Dom.

Ivy

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Sounds cool...I'd be happy to add a flute melody line if you wanted.

When I was taking music in college, I wrote a lot for guitar & flute...

Its a great combination...

 

[the captians wench]

When I was taking music in college, I wrote a lot for guitar & flute...

Its a great combination...

Sax works well too I think, especially my darker tenor.

 

[FluteMaster]

When I was taking music in college, I wrote a lot for guitar & flute...

Its a great combination...

What with Captains Wench, sounds like we have a neat little combo going.

I used to play with a folk/rock group which did covers and a couple of our own things..singing and playing. There is nothing like making music to have some serious fun.

Btw...did you major in music?

 

[FluteMaster]

Sax works well too I think, especially my darker tenor.

Always good to have a bit of darkness

 

[the captians wench]

Always good to have a bit of darkness

*ebil giggles*