Distance Domination-Support Thread

[GentleSub_Ivy]

I think I have ruined everything. I hate this friggin medium sometimes.

*hugs* I don't know you so I don't know what else to say. Take care.

Ivy

 

[intothewoods]

*giggles* yeah but then I'd have to try and do deals with everyone who'd quoted me!

Wellll, I'll take some of that scotch!

 

[minx1]

Wellll, I'll take some of that scotch!

god you're as easily bought as me!

 

[minx1]

*hugs* I don't know you so I don't know what else to say. Take care.

Ivy

aww thanks Ivy, I am sure we will be ok. He is very important to me

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

*waves* hey hon, thanks for the hugs....they are very welcome!

I am worried now that I should have kept my trap shut lol, but I was upset and needed to chat to someone. god what a mess

I hope you are ok DWB. Did you get to see your Master today? How are you coping?

*waves back* sorry got back off for a while when I sent you that..

I hope that everything will be okay and you will hear from your master soon!!!

I am good hon..I got to spend about 5 hours with master so far today I am doing good..we had a long talk that really helped!

 

[minx1]

*waves back* sorry got back off for a while when I sent you that..

I am good hon..I got to spend about 5 hours with master so far today I am doing good..we had a long talk that really helped!

wow! 5 hours! good for you...that kinda makes up for the other day eh!

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

wow! 5 hours! good for you...that kinda makes up for the other day eh!

Yes it does..was much needed..so glad that we got to talk and.......

 

[minx1]

Yes it does..was much needed..so glad that we got to talk and.......

*laugh* that certainly gets rid of some pent up frustrations hon. Believe me I know!

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

*laugh* that certainly gets rid of some pent up frustrations hon. Believe me I know!

Yes indeed it does!

How are you hon????

 

[UK_Strawberry]

Hey Minx / Intothewoods and Shy Slave

Thanks for the comments. All good and valid. I can understand my friends point of view really I can. It just frustrates the hell out of me.

I am trying not to push them away but to be honest my heart is in London, what more can I say *shrugs*.

Hey Minx – sorry for your trouble hun. And as for the ability to self destruct – I know exactly where you are coming from – I have done it a million times myself. The good thing is, for once with Cream it's not happening.

I hope you work things out hun – just give him space.

 

[minx1]

Yes indeed it does!

How are you hon????

I'm ok hon thanks. Pretty tired though. Think I am gonna make a milky drink and curl up on the couch for a while and watch tv. Yup pure
rock 'n roll lol

How about you? have you eaten already?

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

I'm ok hon thanks. Pretty tired though. Think I am gonna make a milky drink and curl up on the couch for a while and watch tv. Yup pure
rock 'n roll lol

How about you? have you eaten already?

I hope you are okay and things will be okay..I bet you are tired..I hope that you can find something good to watch on tv...

I am good..yes I fixed some potatoes and put cheese and ketchup on them..it was good

 

[UK_Cream]

That is why most of rose & I's communication is on the phone... when words are typed, they have no vocal context to go with them.... Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyy too easy for misunderstandings.

Hi MasterPhoenix....just wanted to thank you for your above comment in reply to a previous post I made..... Strawberry and me have started having more vocal communications....and it has helped.... I think the transition from IM to phone will take a while longer ....we've both discussed the vocal issue and it's something we both want but at the same time we don't want to lose the IM's....I think the phone call thing is something we both realise we need but had left it perhaps a shade too long to really get it going between us...

Just as a side note ...UK_Strawberry and myself just had our 3 month anniversary just recently ....

 

[minx1]

I hope you are okay and things will be okay..I bet you are tired..I hope that you can find something good to watch on tv...

I am good..yes I fixed some potatoes and put cheese and ketchup on them..it was good

*laugh* I think I am obsessed by food....I love hearing what other people eat! sounds good hon.

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

*laugh* I think I am obsessed by food....I love hearing what other people eat! sounds good hon.

Oh my goodness..I am the same way..I love hearing what others are eating too!

 

[minx1]

Hi MasterPhoenix....just wanted to thank you for your above comment in reply to a previous post I made..... Strawberry and me have started having more vocal communications....and it has helped.... I think the transition from IM to phone will take a while longer ....we've both discussed the vocal issue and it's something we both want but at the same time we don't want to lose the IM's....I think the phone call thing is something we both realise we need but had left it perhaps a shade too long to really get it going between us...

Just as a side note ...UK_Strawberry and myself just had our 3 month anniversary just recently ....

Hey Cream, congrats to you both on that.

Re the phone, personally its something that I think is critical in a ldr. I think I first spoke to my Master after about 2 weeks on IM. It would have been sooner, but I was nervous as hell and he didn't want to push me. He even gave me permission not to answer he first time he called *laugh*. I didn't and he left a message so that I could hear him and would be less nervous! We spoke the second time.
Now we speak on the phone on a regular basis I'd say, probably once/twice a week. I would love it to be more, but it Oz to the UK and we are on for about an hour sometimes so its quite expensive. Having said that I love it and wouldn't be without it. We still IM and email, but nothing beats being able to hear him, for me anyway.

 

[minx1]

Oh my goodness..I am the same way..I love hearing what others are eating too!

*grin* well I had chicken curry! well about a third of chicken curry!

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

*grin* well I had chicken curry! well about a third of chicken curry!

That sounds good to me!!!

 

[minx1]

That sounds good to me!!!

yummy! *grin* Unfortunately I started it and couldn't eat much

Gonna go and buy some healthy food tomorrow...lots of fruit and veg

 

[UK_Cream]

Hey Cream, congrats to you both on that.

Re the phone, personally its something that I think is critical in a ldr. I think I first spoke to my Master after about 2 weeks on IM. It would have been sooner, but I was nervous as hell and he didn't want to push me. He even gave me permission not to answer he first time he called *laugh*. I didn't and he left a message so that I could hear him and would be less nervous! We spoke the second time.
Now we speak on the phone on a regular basis I'd say, probably once/twice a week. I would love it to be more, but it Oz to the UK and we are on for about an hour sometimes so its quite expensive. Having said that I love it and wouldn't be without it. We still IM and email, but nothing beats being able to hear him, for me anyway.

First of all - thank you for the congrats - very much appreciated....

I think the phone call is something we have nerves/butterflies about....and making the transition from nerves to no nerves will take a little time to work out ...mainly because we've gone so long without making any substantial callls to one another.....but I know it's something that we will get used to doing....I know Strawberry was very nervous the first time I called her...the call ...according to Strawberry lasted for a mere 42 seconds (or something like that)...then another night it was like 45 minutes...so i guess its something we can build into our relationship....

I feel for you on the Oz/UK connection....I used to handle technical queries on the phone for Oz/NZ and the time difference can be a real killer....I suppose your calls are not just costly in monetary terms but on timezone terms too....

I suppose internet calls might be the way to go....

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

yummy! *grin* Unfortunately I started it and couldn't eat much

Gonna go and buy some healthy food tomorrow...lots of fruit and veg

I hear you I was the same at lunch when I fixed it..

What kinds of fruits and vegs to you like?

 

[minx1]

First of all - thank you for the congrats - very much appreciated....

I think the phone call is something we have nerves/butterflies about....and making the transition from nerves to no nerves will take a little time to work out ...mainly because we've gone so long without making any substantial callls to one another.....but I know it's something that we will get used to doing....I know Strawberry was very nervous the first time I called her...the call ...according to Strawberry lasted for a mere 42 seconds (or something like that)...then another night it was like 45 minutes...so i guess its something we can build into our relationship....

I feel for you on the Oz/UK connection....I used to handle technical queries on the phone for Oz/NZ and the time difference can be a real killer....I suppose your calls are not just costly in monetary terms but on timezone terms too....

I suppose internet calls might be the way to go....

lol yeah our calls mid week are sometimes around 1.30 am! Not that I mind I must point out, plus he stays up on IM until 1.30/2am a lot of nights. lol we must look like the living dead by now! *laugh*
Yesterday I spoke to him on the phone from about 2am til 2.30am, which despite the time was wonderful.

I think you are right, I think its definitely something that you can introduce slowly into your relationship. The more you do it, the easier it gets too as the nerves go.

My god, when I think back to how I was (still am sometimes lol) those first few calls...I was so nervous, I was a giggly, babbling wreck!

 

[minx1]

I hear you I was the same at lunch when I fixed it..

What kinds of fruits and vegs to you like?

Fruit...I love strawberries, grapes, apples and melon and pears lol. Yup I think that about covers my favourites.

Veg.... God almost everything I was married to a veggie for a few years so all I ate was vegetables! But potatoes, mushrooms, courgettes, celery, peppers....you know things I can make up a pasta sauce with. Used to make lasagne, chilli, curry, stew....just using vegetables and spices. They were really good actually. and all kind of salad ingredients, but faves are fennel and radish yum!

What about you hon?

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Fruit...I love strawberries, grapes, apples and melon and pears lol. Yup I think that about covers my favourites.

Veg.... God almost everything I was married to a veggie for a few years so all I ate was vegetables! But potatoes, mushrooms, courgettes, celery, peppers....you know things I can make up a pasta sauce with. Used to make lasagne, chilli, curry, stew....just using vegetables and spices. They were really good actually. and all kind of salad ingredients, but faves are fennel and radish yum!

What about you hon?

Strawberries, grapes, cantaloupe, watermelon, apples too..

Veggies I like potatoes, mushrooms, pepers, stuff like that...

Never tried fennel but don't like radishes

 

[minx1]

Strawberries, grapes, cantaloupe, watermelon, apples too..

Veggies I like potatoes, mushrooms, pepers, stuff like that...

Never tried fennel but don't like radishes

fennel is really good in salads, but also lovely cooked. Its got quite a delicate taste. I'll post you some! lol

Ok I must go and curl up for a bit. I'm whacked and not in a good way

have a great time with your Master hon.

Night everyone else...catch ya soon