Distance Domination-Support Thread

[myinnerslut]

heads up, ill most likely be gone for the next 7 days

i am being forbidden to give myself any forms of physical pleasure in for the seven days before i see A again. no cumming, no playing, no anything. so its probably best if i stay away from things that might turn me on more then i usually am.

and congrats Toa_lin!!

 

[MasterPhoenix]

Things have been better to be honest...Master is about to start a new job that will limit time for us so that has me sad.. Just will have to muddle through and know that we will make it through some way...

Yeah, it really is hard when the time with your significant other isn't there....

 

[MasterPhoenix]

I have been loathe to post here because I have been having a really hard time lately.

As my rose said above I was feeling a bit left out. Actually, it was more than a bit. I have been struggling like hell, becuase it just feels like there is a huge void there.

I will be flying back there a week from Tuesday, and I have been nervous about it, becuase of the void I have been feeling. There have been times where I have wondered if we were going to make it, and if she still wanted us, and if I was just going to go back there to get my heart broken.

I just can't wait until I can hold her again... feel her close to me... know that all is good... Until our lips once again meet...

 

[minx1]

I have been loathe to post here because I have been having a really hard time lately.

As my rose said above I was feeling a bit left out. Actually, it was more than a bit. I have been struggling like hell, becuase it just feels like there is a huge void there.

I will be flying back there a week from Tuesday, and I have been nervous about it, becuase of the void I have been feeling. There have been times where I have wondered if we were going to make it, and if she still wanted us, and if I was just going to go back there to get my heart broken.

I just can't wait until I can hold her again... feel her close to me... know that all is good... Until our lips once again meet...

I can understand how you feel MP, really. But you know, you and Rose love eachother so much. I am certain, as I am sure you are, that when you meet any anxiety on both your parts will evaporate and it will be just like always.

I think we all realise how much our PYL/pyl means to us, but its only until something like this happens, when contact id radically reduced that we really KNOW how much they mean to us...you know, until we actually feel that friggin huge void that they have left. To be honest its scarey stuff....and I guess that goes for whether you are the PYL or the pyl.

I bet Rose feels that void too, its just that she has so much on her plate right now, she probably doesn't have that much time to think about it! And it must be a really difficult situation...her feeling torn, because she wants to do right by friends etc yet knowing that she wants to serve you and love you and that you feel a bit left out. And you MP, missing her like crazy and all the feelings that conjures up, yet not wanting to put pressure on her.

Really I feel for you both

Sorry, I hope I am making some sense at least. I only got four hours sleep lol and decided to post before I had coffee!

Btw *hugs* to you both

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

*hugs* I really understand how you must feel hon. It will be hard and so I won't make light of it, but I think you are right...you will make it through some way. You will adapt to it and be just fine, though I know it probably doesn't seem like that right now

Thanks for the hugs Minx...Yes it is going to be hard but will have to get used to it and learn to get around it and meet more of the mornings and at my lunch time....It seems bad right now but I know it will work out some way in the end..

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Yeah, it really is hard when the time with your significant other isn't there....

Yeah it is...It stinks..

 

[minx1]

Thanks for the hugs Minx...Yes it is going to be hard but will have to get used to it and learn to get around it and meet more of the mornings and at my lunch time....It seems bad right now but I know it will work out some way in the end..

I had something a little like this at the beginning of the year, albeit it wasn't for long.....just a few weeks whilst I was working away. For me though, I was lucky....the worry turned out to be far worse than the reality. But like I say I think we were just lucky.

Glad you are trying to be positive though and working on the times you can spend together hon. I wish you both well

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

I had something a little like this at the beginning of the year, albeit it wasn't for long.....just a few weeks whilst I was working away. For me though, I was lucky....the worry turned out to be far worse than the reality. But like I say I think we were just lucky.

Glad you are trying to be positive though and working on the times you can spend together hon. I wish you both well

Thank you hon..That means so much to me....

Is that you in your AV hon? If so you are beautiful

 

[minx1]

Thank you hon..That means so much to me....

Is that you in your AV hon? If so you are beautiful

my pleasure hon

*blush* yup its me......thankyou DWB! I am just playing around with pics at the minute lol. I get a bit braver each time and leave it up a little longer....but I'm not brave enough to keep a pic up permantently lol. Wuss or what?!

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

my pleasure hon

*blush* yup its me......thankyou DWB! I am just playing around with pics at the minute lol. I get a bit braver each time and leave it up a little longer....but I'm not brave enough to keep a pic up permantently lol. Wuss or what?!

You are very welcome hon.....I am glad that you put one up of yourself....No you are not a wuss at all..

 

[Toa_lin]

worried...

I'm sry guys, seems like my life is a LOT of drama recently *rolls eyes*..... but I was talking to my pyl last night over the phone, then she suddenly had to go..... and I haven't got a word from her since.... And I just have a feeling something is wrong.... sry it seems everytime I post I either have really good, or really bad news....




On a side note, *hugs* to DWB Rose and MP, you are all great, adn hope thigns get better for all of you soon.

 

[minx1]

I'm sry guys, seems like my life is a LOT of drama recently *rolls eyes*..... but I was talking to my pyl last night over the phone, then she suddenly had to go..... and I haven't got a word from her since.... And I just have a feeling something is wrong.... sry it seems everytime I post I either have really good, or really bad news....




On a side note, *hugs* to DWB Rose and MP, you are all great, adn hope thigns get better for all of you soon.

Hey TaoLin,

First of all, if you don't mind saying... what were you talking about at the time and what did she say as she went? That might help cast some light on it

 

[Toa_lin]

Hey TaoLin,

First of all, if you don't mind saying... what were you talking about at the time and what did she say as she went? That might help cast some light on it

Not really, We were simply talking about the simple stuff, about how our days were, etc. .... Then I here an "oh shit- *click"...... Hence the worry....

 

[minx1]

Not really, We were simply talking about the simple stuff, about how our days were, etc. .... Then I here an "oh shit- *click"...... Hence the worry....

And you have phoned since? So its not the line/connection I take it?

 

[Toa_lin]

And you have phoned since? So its not the line/connection I take it?

yes, called, connection works fine, e-mailed, IMed txted...... both home and cell (the problem wiht her cell was fixed and the line is back up) still nothing...

 

[minx1]

yes, called, connection works fine, e-mailed, IMed txted...... both home and cell (the problem wiht her cell was fixed and the line is back up) still nothing...

and she wasn't feeling down or anything and need a bit of space perhaps?

If not Tao and you didn't have an argument or say something that might have made her go.... I am bemused sorry.

I am sure she is ok though. How long did you say its been since you heard.

Are there any of her friends or family that you can check with?

Sit tight and try not to worry too much yet. I am sure will be in touch

Wish I could be more help

 

[Toa_lin]

and she wasn't feeling down or anything and need a bit of space perhaps?

If not Tao and you didn't have an argument or say something that might have made her go.... I am bemused sorry.

I am sure she is ok though. How long did you say its been since you heard.

Are there any of her friends or family that you can check with?

Sit tight and try not to worry too much yet. I am sure will be in touch

Wish I could be more help

No, she was her normal cheerfull self, we were joking around, and then suddenly. *see above post*

Been about 12 hours now.... Tried not to call family or friends yet, it's still pretty early where she lives, and i dont want to wake them if she truly is allright and everything is fine.... Not to mention, the only one's who'd know (room mates) would've picked up the phone when I called her house, unless whatever happenned they're helping with, and so there's no chance of getting a hold of them either..... I just need to sit it out and wait, but thanks for your encouragement minx.

 

[minx1]

No, she was her normal cheerfull self, we were joking around, and then suddenly. *see above post*

Been about 12 hours now.... Tried not to call family or friends yet, it's still pretty early where she lives, and i dont want to wake them if she truly is allright and everything is fine.... Not to mention, the only one's who'd know (room mates) would've picked up the phone when I called her house, unless whatever happenned they're helping with, and so there's no chance of getting a hold of them either..... I just need to sit it out and wait, but thanks for your encouragement minx.

Yeah I'm afraid it looks like you might have to sit it out.

I hope you hear very soon Tao!

 

[Toa_lin]

Yeah I'm afraid it looks like you might have to sit it out.

I hope you hear very soon Tao!

Yeah, me too..... oh and btw, i hope things are going good for you minx.

 

[minx1]

Yeah, me too..... oh and btw, i hope things are going good for you minx.

Not too bad Tao thanks

 

[Toa_lin]

*sighs in releif, nearly passing out from teh sudden adrenaline drop.* she's fine..... one of the Alpacas starting giving birth (she's an animal breeder) and it wasn't supposed to for another week, so they weren't prepared and had to rush, and then take care of it, afterwards she took a shower and passed out in bed, so tired she didn't check her phone to see if I had called.

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Got to spend some time with Master this morning and we had a good long talk..It was great spending time with him!

Minx thanks for listening to me yesterday..

Toa thanks for the hugs..glad that you heard from your PYL and that all was okay..

 

[minx1]

Got to spend some time with Master this morning and we had a good long talk..It was great spending time with him!

Minx thanks for listening to me yesterday..

Toa thanks for the hugs..glad that you heard from your PYL and that all was okay..

Hey hon, really its my pleasure. Glad you got to spend some time with him!

Love the new av btw!

Tao its great that your pyl is ok

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Hey hon, really its my pleasure. Glad you got to spend some time with him!

Love the new av btw!

Tao its great that your pyl is ok

It was good to spend time with him...

Thanks about the AV another new one Master did for me..

 

[Toa_lin]

yeah i'm glad she's okay as well.

And good to hear you got to spend time with your PYL DWB.