Distance Domination-Support Thread

[DomWharfsBitch]

Hey guys, just jumping in with some good news, last night I pushed my pet's boundries more by commanding her to attach clothespins to her nipples, she was hesitant about it, having been weary of the pain side, though she does enjoy it (just scared she'll go too much at once... yes, we're pretty new a tthis, so this is actually pretty big news) and she discovered she luvs it and her moans and whimpers were just beautifull.

Glad that you all were able to push boundries Toa.....

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Doing good now.

Had a horrid day at work but my playmate came and cheered me up with a very nice beating. So now I'm all red and black and blue and purple and one happy kitten.

So sorry you had such a bad day..Glad that you had fun with your playmate

 

[littleone77]

I am feeling the distance tonight...more so than usual. *sighs*

Anyone up?

 

[UK_Strawberry]

Hey everyone.

I’m new here, in fact I’m new to a lot of things ! And I’m not alone!

A bit of background for you, (I’ll keep it brief).

A couple of months ago I joined a forum for a TV show, via that forum I started chatting to this guy and one thing led to another pretty quickly !! We are now in contact daily via IM / email / text.

We both live in the UK but distance is an issue.

We discovered that we are both into the same things sexually and started searching the web for a more appropriate site and found this forum – happy days.

I’m new to BDSM but am enjoying exploring it with my master, UK_Cream.

 

[UK_Cream]

Ok. This pretty exciting. To find not only like-minded people. But to find like-minded people in a similar situation to myself and UK_Strawberry is quite something....

I should point something out to other forum users ....distance is an issue to us both even though we are both in the UK.... we both live on different "islands" for one thing.....UK_Strawberry lives in Ireland and I live in England....

We've never physically met...not yet anyway....and we have had discussions about meeting but ....as yet.... we don't have any definite plans to meet one another yet...but we will meet but it's a question of when not if we meet....

I'm not exactly new to this scene but I've never fully explored this side of my personality with anyone before UK_Strawberry came into my life.... I'm learning almost as much as she is right now!...

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Welcome to this great forum UK Strawberry and UK Cream..Hope that you find this place helpful..We are here for each other for support and for the commonality of being in LDR's....

 

[UK_Cream]

Welcome to this great forum UK Strawberry and UK Cream..Hope that you find this place helpful..We are here for each other for support and for the commonality of being in LDR's....

Thanks for the support....

I think at times myself and uk_strawberry have found the D in our LDR quite difficult to handle at times...especially when we're not able to be in regular contact with one another....

We can both feel the strain of our "regular" lives pulling at us when we're not in contact with each other and it's our hope that this forum can help us find our way....

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

Thanks for the support....

I think at times myself and uk_strawberry have found the D in our LDR quite difficult to handle at times...especially when we're not able to be in regular contact with one another....

We can both feel the strain of our "regular" lives pulling at us when we're not in contact with each other and it's our hope that this forum can help us find our way....

You are welcome for the support

Yes at times it is difficult to handle the D in the LDR but you do the best you can...

I hope that the forum will help you find your way!

 

[minx1]

I am feeling the distance tonight...more so than usual. *sighs*

Anyone up?

*hugs* hope you are ok now Littleone

 

[minx1]

*waves and curtsies*

Hi UK Cream and UK Strawberry, nice to meet you both. I'm also in the UK and my Master is in Perth, Australia Like you, its a matter of when we meet, no if. We have been together almost 8 months now and hope that we will finally meet at the end of this year.

The distance can be really tough to deal with and when you both have demands from your other lives too, it can certainly test the strength of your relationships. I wish you both the best and hope you find the thread welcoming and supportive

 

[UK_Strawberry]

*waves and curtsies*

Hi UK Cream and UK Strawberry, nice to meet you both. I'm also in the UK and my Master is in Perth, Australia Like you, its a matter of when we meet, no if. We have been together almost 8 months now and hope that we will finally meet at the end of this year.

The distance can be really tough to deal with and when you both have demands from your other lives too, it can certainly test the strength of your relationships. I wish you both the best and hope you find the thread welcoming and supportive

Hey minx1

Our distance issues seem a little silly compared to yours !! But it’s working well for both of us at the moment.

I don’t think our relationship would be where it is now if we had met under more conventional circumstances. Being online has made it very easy to develop our relationship and whilst we have been together for only 10 weeks I know that we will be together forever.

I think one of my friends summed it up best. She said…. When people meet ‘normally’ they go out, maybe to the cinema or for a meal and probably only spend a few hours with each other over the course of a week. However, UK_Cream and I spend hour upon hour online, week after week and during that time the only thing we do is communicate so an online relationship is bound to develop much quicker than a conventional one.

We’ve certainly found that to be true. I’m also not sure if I could have been as open if we had met in person, although this is something I’ll never know for sure. Am I open with him because I’m online with him or is it because of the person he is? I guess that’s one I will never have answered.

Anyway – thanks to everyone for the warm welcomes.

 

[subfem1963]

Hey subfem...how wonderful! Bet you are soooo excited

When did you last see him?

Just spent a couple of hours with mine....need to lie down *laugh*

Sorry for not getting back to you sooner, it had been 5 months since i last saw my Master.
Just to let you all know we had a wonderful time, I came back home with a wonderful red bum, First time i had experienced the paddle, and by god did it hurt. I next get to see him in August.
Thankyou for all the best wishes i received.

 

[minx1]

Hey minx1

Our distance issues seem a little silly compared to yours !! But it’s working well for both of us at the moment.

I don’t think our relationship would be where it is now if we had met under more conventional circumstances. Being online has made it very easy to develop our relationship and whilst we have been together for only 10 weeks I know that we will be together forever.

I think one of my friends summed it up best. She said…. When people meet ‘normally’ they go out, maybe to the cinema or for a meal and probably only spend a few hours with each other over the course of a week. However, UK_Cream and I spend hour upon hour online, week after week and during that time the only thing we do is communicate so an online relationship is bound to develop much quicker than a conventional one.

We’ve certainly found that to be true. I’m also not sure if I could have been as open if we had met in person, although this is something I’ll never know for sure. Am I open with him because I’m online with him or is it because of the person he is? I guess that’s one I will never have answered.

Anyway – thanks to everyone for the warm welcomes.

Hey strawberry

Lol not silly at all. To be honest I doubt it matters if you are 200 or 10,000 miles away, if those miles seperate you from your PYL/pyl!!

Glad things are working out well for you. I think your friend is right. If you discover a bond or connection they can become intense and strong very quickly. My Master and I spend a good couple of hours every day on IM and also email/text and phone eachother...You could argue that communication is fundamental to any relationship being a success, but lets face it, to this type of relationship its imperative!
I talk to my Master more and in a more indepth way than I have ever done with any other partners, including my ex husband (possible not a great thing to admit and possibly a reason why we are ex's lol), because when we sit down for those two/three hours each day we just focus on eachother. So yes you become closer very quickly.

Anyway, welcome again...its always good to see new faces

 

[minx1]

Sorry for not getting back to you sooner, it had been 5 months since i last saw my Master.
Just to let you all know we had a wonderful time, I came back home with a wonderful red bum, First time i had experienced the paddle, and by god did it hurt. I next get to see him in August.
Thankyou for all the best wishes i received.

Hey subfem,

Glad to hear you had a great time hon....I am envious of your rosy cheeks lol.

Though I hope to have some of my own before too long!

 

[subfem1963]

Hey subfem,

Glad to hear you had a great time hon....I am envious of your rosy cheeks lol.

Though I hope to have some of my own before too long!

Yes i was quite proud of them rosy cheeks, Lol.
You have something wonderful to look foward to then.
I was just sad that the time went very quickly whilst we was together. But have my memories and pictures to keep me going till August.

 

[the captians wench]

Yes i was quite proud of them rosy cheeks, Lol.
You have something wonderful to look foward to then.
I was just sad that the time went very quickly whilst we was together. But have my memories and pictures to keep me going till August.

time always passes too quickly when you're with the one you love. *sigh*

 

[DomWharfsBitch]

time always passes too quickly when you're with the one you love. *sigh*

So very true

 

[UK_Strawberry]

Ok guys !

I didn’t think I’d be crying on your shoulders quite so soon.

UK_Cream’s internet connection has been down since this afternoon. Not happy ! We’d been planning a whole day together today and had only had limited contact over the last two weeks for various reasons.

Life sucks !

 

[the captians wench]

Ok guys !

I didn’t think I’d be crying on your shoulders quite so soon.

UK_Cream’s internet connection has been down since this afternoon. Not happy ! We’d been planning a whole day together today and had only had limited contact over the last two weeks for various reasons.

Life sucks !

Oh man I know how that is. Seems like Jounar's connection is going down all the flippin time, and always when he's made plans to spend lots of time with me.

I usually take those moments to go back and read old im convos. makes me feel a little better.

hope it's fixed soon.

 

[UK_Strawberry]

Thanks for the support Captain’s Wench.

Same here – always when we’ve made plans !!

I will have to go and sort myself out I guess – trouble is I’ve deleted the contents of my inbox on my phone so I’ll just have to close my eyes and let my mind wander ! LOL

 

[EmpressFi]

I cant believe I just found this thread.

My master lives a few states away and we only see each other every 6 weeks to 2 months (depending on finances)... but we speak daily via the internet and skype.

He's coming this Friday to spend the weekend at my house and to finally meet my husband in person. However, a family member was just taken to the hospital, so now, in my mind, the trip is in jeopardy.

We work hard at keeping our relationship alive with the distance. He'll give me duties.. such as writing out a fantasy we played out over the phone and posting it to a board we both read... or taking pictures of myself in positions he wants me to learn to show that I'm learning them. It takes effort, but it's worth it

 

[myinnerslut]

a belated welcome to strawberries, cream, and empress!

i just got back from my visit with A. it stayed mostly non sexual and i got to be the good helpful girlfriend and help him run a huge convention which he was responsible for. it was good to see him, if only for a day and a half.... in only two weeks we get all summer.

 

[Toa_lin]

well.... This summer isn't going to work out for me in the end.... I just got shoved in control of a major animation, taking screening this summer, and as such, I won't be-able to get away from the office enough to see her, and being the luving pyl she is, she won't let me risk my job just to see her.... *sighs.* oh well, thanksgiving is still booked for us... though that's ANOTHER 2 months away.

 

[littleone77]

well.... This summer isn't going to work out for me in the end.... I just got shoved in control of a major animation, taking screening this summer, and as such, I won't be-able to get away from the office enough to see her, and being the luving pyl she is, she won't let me risk my job just to see her.... *sighs.* oh well, thanksgiving is still booked for us... though that's ANOTHER 2 months away.

I'm looking at a summer with just email contact and maybe a sneaked phone call here and there. *sighs* He says to trust him which I am but it still doesn't help on those lonely days.

I sympathize with you totally Toa.

 

[Toa_lin]

I'm looking at a summer with just email contact and maybe a sneaked phone call here and there. *sighs* He says to trust him which I am but it still doesn't help on those lonely days.

I sympathize with you totally Toa.

yeah... we're allready on teh e-mail and phone only list...


But on the flip side, more good news, I got her to go out and not only buy multiple thongs, but wear them for me on camera tonight. And we're talking about my pyl who's REALLY self-conscious, as I know several of you can relate.